@Ram416
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Cock cages - thoughts?
Posted by tiziani
I've never understood the appeal, personally. I'm intrigued by how it's made someone a better person. It's just from the outset, I don't get the mindset.
Let's just say this guy had a massive reputation as a player with multiple women at his beck and call.
His own words, it's made him a better person.
Pisces dude, totally dominant personality career wise but a pussy cat behind closed doors.
Posted by Itsamemario
That's too small
It doesn't allow for erections. Only pissing.
Posted by Vixen2
Wtf....Ten years?! All the time?
People who work for our NSA (US) probably makes their day...
He has no problems passing through customs when he visits the US. Seems they're quite used to it and don't make a big deal of it when he tells them it's his chastity device. Travelling through most of Europe, same thing, zero issues.
Posted by Itsamemario
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Itsamemario
That's too small
It doesn't allow for erections. Only pissing.
For my flaccid peen it's too small. It would deform my buddy.
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Lool!
Posted by Itsamemario
At least if he doesn't want his Shazam can he give it to me?
I'll ask him.😄
Posted by feby
Love this idea!! 😄
Lol! Why am I not surprised? 😄
Nope. Can't say I find that attractive. Also, I didn't know men could get tattoos on their private areas!
Posted by Ram416
Posted by tiziani
I've never understood the appeal, personally. I'm intrigued by how it's made someone a better person. It's just from the outset, I don't get the mindset.
Let's just say this guy had a massive reputation as a player with multiple women at his beck and call.
His own words, it's made him a better person.
Pisces dude, totally dominant personality career wise but a pussy cat behind closed doors.
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Makes sense. He's a pisces so his dick is pretty much the hulk.
And he found a way to cage the hulk and set it free at will.
Posted by MIIeFisk
Sure, why not. And I get to keep the key, right? How does he get his penis thoroughly clean in the shower, though? Especially when he has it on when urinating. I'll let him take it off in the shower once a week just make sure...
Yes, you keep the key. As per D/s protoccol, the sub does not have access to the key unless his/her mistress says so.
He cleans it in the shower, but there is extra hygiene maintenance required as well. The type of cock cage also counts, some are very closed up and some are open (for ventilation, prevention of bacterial growth).
Posted by hydorah
Posted by Ram416
Posted by tiziani
I've never understood the appeal, personally. I'm intrigued by how it's made someone a better person. It's just from the outset, I don't get the mindset.
Let's just say this guy had a massive reputation as a player with multiple women at his beck and call.
His own words, it's made him a better person.
Pisces dude, totally dominant personality career wise but a pussy cat behind closed doors.
Makes sense. He's a pisces so his dick is pretty much the hulk.
And he found a way to cage the hulk and set it free at will.
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I won't confirm or deny the hulk bit lol, but setting it free is usually not as per his will.
Posted by PV&Jellay
Posted by Ram416
So I had a long chat with a male submissive last week about how he ended up wearing his cock cage, which he has worn for the last 10 years. For the uninitiated, he does everything while wearing it, eat, sleep, take a shit, shower, work, play. The only time it is taken off is when he travels to certain countries that won't allow for it, i.e. usually the Middle Eastern countries.He says that ever since he started wearing it, it's made him a somewhat better person and more in control of his physical urges.
For the ladies - what are your thoughts on this? Would you let your man wear one, just to experience it? Or no?
For the men (especially those who perve in the Powder Room regularly), would you want to wear one, if given the chance?
Where does he keep the key? Or does his girlfriend keep it? It would be sexy at first if a guy locked his peen down and gave me the key. It would quickly become weird.
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His Mistress keeps it.
The idea may seem sexy at first, but for the man who is locked, it is an acquired taste (similar to when a woman's Aunt Flo visits and sex is off the menu for a short period, how do we deal with it?).
Posted by blackphase
WTF? I have never even heard of such a thing.. What do you mean let him wear it..? :/What is the purpose of such a device? I'm so confused :/
It's the male version of a female chastity belt.
Posted by TheLibraMudra
I had no idea these things existed
Now you know. 😄
Posted by Ram416
Posted by blackphase
WTF? I have never even heard of such a thing.. What do you mean let him wear it..? :/What is the purpose of such a device? I'm so confused :/
It's the male version of a female chastity belt.
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I like very much.
I never thought I would find submssive men attractive until I met a Gem with a beautiful heart. Never asked for sex. Just so sweet and so kind and loving like a kitten. I cooked for me and slept ovet from time to time... no sex.
Posted by VenusAquarius
I never thought I would find submssive men attractive until I met a Gem with a beautiful heart. Never asked for sex. Just so sweet and so kind and loving like a kitten. I cooked for me and slept ovet from time to time... no sex.
The best scenario in my head right now!
Posted by Ram416
Posted by VenusAquarius
I never thought I would find submssive men attractive until I met a Gem with a beautiful heart. Never asked for sex. Just so sweet and so kind and loving like a kitten. I cooked for me and slept ovet from time to time... no sex.
The best scenario in my head right now!
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How so...
I don't know where this Gem came from. Like an angel out of nowhere. Good cuddler. I'd wake up safely in his bed, in his arms, panties still on... after a wild night.
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by FknNerd
Why am I the only person who brought up morning wood? Am I the only slut that stays the night on this site? lol.
Yeah this seems like a terrible idea
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To each their own, yes?
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by Ram416
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by FknNerd
Why am I the only person who brought up morning wood? Am I the only slut that stays the night on this site? lol.
Yeah this seems like a terrible idea
To each their own, yes?
Sure, I guess. But I don't see the appeal
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Because, as I said before, to each their own. LOL.
What will make sense and appeal to one person may not necessarily be the case for someone else.
Just as with the case of some of the females who posted in this thread - for some it's not their thing but for others ( @feby ) they love the idea.
I am not sure if you were expecting me to convince you or sell you the idea of using a cock cage, since that's not my purpose for this thread.
Posted by Koniuchaa
I don't get this at all. Whole thing sounds too weird for me.
If you're vanilla then yes, you wouldn't get it at all.
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by FknNerd
I just dont want him waking me up before the alarm wincing in pain begging for the key. Go back to bed! I swallowed the key! Then it turns into a saw movie. I cant get down with it.
Also why can't both people be on equal footing
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There are very few things in this world that are equal.
Equal is a myth, a philosophy,a mathematical equation. But, it us not life.
Based on the description of the human chosing to wear this device's past, he seems to feel this device is equalizing.
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by VenusAquarius
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by FknNerd
I just dont want him waking me up before the alarm wincing in pain begging for the key. Go back to bed! I swallowed the key! Then it turns into a saw movie. I cant get down with it.
Also why can't both people be on equal footing
There are very few things in this world that are equal.
What does that mean—
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I answered your question before you asked... see adjacent post.
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by VenusAquarius
Equal is a myth, a philosophy,a mathematical equation. But, it us not life.Based on the description of the human chosing to wear this device's past, he seems to feel this device is equalizing.
I dunno. I feel like if you have to wear that to make the relationship work then it's not working
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Some devices are in our heads.
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by VenusAquarius
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by VenusAquarius
Equal is a myth, a philosophy,a mathematical equation. But, it us not life.Based on the description of the human chosing to wear this device's past, he seems to feel this device is equalizing.
I dunno. I feel like if you have to wear that to make the relationship work then it's not working
Some devices are in our heads.
I don't get it
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Some devices are in our hearts.
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by VenusAquarius
Equal is a myth, a philosophy,a mathematical equation. But, it us not life.Based on the description of the human chosing to wear this device's past, he seems to feel this device is equalizing.
I dunno. I feel like if you have to wear that to make the relationship work then it's not working
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That depends on your definition of a relationship.
This thread has very little to do with the cookie cutter variety of relationships.
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by VenusAquarius
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by VenusAquarius
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by VenusAquarius
Equal is a myth, a philosophy,a mathematical equation. But, it us not life.Based on the description of the human chosing to wear this device's past, he seems to feel this device is equalizing.
I dunno. I feel like if you have to wear that to make the relationship work then it's not working
Some devices are in our heads.
I don't get it
Some devices are in our hearts.
What does that mean
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It's a chastity device for a male... a very carnal man. Some of us can't fathom just how carnal some of us can be. It surpasses the emotional realm, the mental realm.
What devices do we have for the extremely emotional, for example?
LOL
Posted by MIIeFisk
Dude. Your gotta be trolling.
I'm beginning to think that he is.
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by MIIeFisk
Posted by Ram416
Posted by MIIeFisk
Dude. Your gotta be trolling.
I'm beginning to think that he is.
It reeks of a bored Gemini
I'm just a slightly square Scorpio
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Question : How many times have you allegedly shown your elegant little dick on dxp?
Posted by FknNerd
Youre like all trying to force kilgore to put it on like the beautiful doms that you are.
Nah not really.
I don't play with brats.
Posted by VenusAquarius
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by FknNerd
I just dont want him waking me up before the alarm wincing in pain begging for the key. Go back to bed! I swallowed the key! Then it turns into a saw movie. I cant get down with it.
Also why can't both people be on equal footing
There are very few things in this world that are equal.
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Yup.
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by MIIeFisk
Posted by FknNerd
Youre like all trying to force kilgore to put it on like the beautiful doms that you are.
Who is that, sanch....
What is sanch?
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LOL
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by MIIeFisk
Posted by Kilgore
Posted by MIIeFisk
Posted by FknNerd
Youre like all trying to force kilgore to put it on like the beautiful doms that you are.
Who is that, sanch....
What is sanch?
Ranch. I meant Ranch dressing. I want some buffalo wings right now. Be a good dog and fetch me some.
That seems doubtful
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LOL
lmao
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So I had a long chat with a male submissive last week about how he ended up wearing his cock cage, which he has worn for the last 10 years. For the uninitiated, he does everything while wearing it, eat, sleep, take a shit, shower, work, play. The only time it is taken off is when he travels to certain countries that won't allow for it, i.e. usually the Middle Eastern countries.
He says that ever since he started wearing it, it's made him a somewhat better person and more in control of his physical urges.
For the ladies - what are your thoughts on this? Would you let your man wear one, just to experience it? Or no?
For the men (especially those who perve in the Powder Room regularly), would you want to wear one, if given the chance?