What Nofap (no masturbation) Is Doing For Me

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E. M. Henderson
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What no masturbation is doing for me, is beyond physical.

I'm not thirsty anymore.

I believe human beings are great big balls of energy.

We contain different types of energy.

Our astrological energy that guides our motives and mannerisms and drives us through life, our physical/literal energy that once it's drained - we have to rest.. And our SEXUAL energy..

I think our sexual energy is something we have to build up within us.

We are magnets to each other. Electricity.. We have to charge, you feel me?

The less sexual energy you have, the less magnetic you are.

Nobody has never NOT used the words "drawn to", "pulled in" and such, to describe somebody they are attracted to.

The word "attract", just proves we as humans, all have our own unique and mystique of "feel" -we call sexual energy. We are magnets.

Now while sexual energy is primarily abstract to sex; I think that the more sexual energy you have, the more successful you are life.

You attract things on a platonic level, like business proposals through your sexual energy.

It's so powerful and complete, you can manipulate how you want to use it. Your magnetism, that is.



I went no fap because I realized I had a problem when I was doing this shit in public.. Dirty hands, limited time, minimum privacy. Didn't give a fuck.

That's a problem.

I noticed I wasn't reaching goals and many doors weren't opening. I had minimum magnetism...

I was always tired and lethargic. My PHYSICAL energy was limited, I always needed a nap.

Because I was splooting a few out every chance I get and letting out bursts of energy just to relieve myself or feel good.

You feel tired as fuck after an orgasm for a reason. Everything thing inside you just worked together to release all this dopamine. Sexual energy is all the energy put together. Mentally, physically, and so on..

Shit.

All I can say is, this is the best decision I've ever made.

Working out comes second.

The fact that I have so much reserved and left over energy is why I exercise in the first place.



As a Gemini Mars, I have left over energy and for a VERY long time I didn't know how to channel it... It was hard to sleep at night because of all the energy I had left on pilot. Masturbation helped me sleep..

Then I believed it helped me not be horny, but I was still horny...

I believe it kept me sane, but I was going crazy..

Many things about masturbation and the way it's portrayed on TV - lead me to believe it's therapeutic and needed.

What stopping masturbation has done for me:

*More energy.

I can go the whole day without needing a nap or falling alseep in places I don't need to be sleep at.

*Sharper mind

I can think clearly and the confidence in myself is contained, due to achieving something so very hard to do.

*More confidence

*No depression

*Need less sleep

After my first week of no masturbation, within that week I found that I didn't need to sleep past 8 hours into noon.

*Creativity

I dream these days. For a long time I wasn't dreaming. It was hard me to construct any meaning in life and individuality. I think not masturbating makes me my own individual.. Even if there are many people in the world doing the same as me - it's knowing I'm the only one amongst my friends, and having the knowledge of what nofap is capable of. My mind is more open.

*Easier meeting women

Because I'm horny in the most natural form. It's not because I'm accidentally thinking about the porno I watched a the night before.

It's because I'm genuinely interested in women and having actual sex, opposed to getting a quick fix.

*Easier to attract a partner

Because I now OOZE sexuality and magnetism. I can attract whichever women I want. I have gotten many phone numbers this past year than I ever had in my whole sex life / dating life.

*Maturity

I'm more mature than I've ever been. I think I was holding myself back in life, keeping a teenage habit into my adulthood.

*Physical maturity

My body has changed, my voice is full of soul.

*Hair growth.

I just think my hair has grown since this journey.



....

It just was time to stop an old teenage habit. Like it was now, or be 50 years-old still watching PAWG and BBC, or girls shoving their pussyholes with dildos.

AHAAAA!!

You just gotta say when... And then look at the benefits towards it.
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E. M. Henderson
@Emhendo
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Posted by Jade_Alexander

I like masterbating.

Orgasms relieve stress and help me sleep better.

It has little to do with others, more for myself.

Sex is too painful physically anyways...

I don’t find any shame in it. Sexuality is no different then other basic aspects of life.


I build a scary habit out of just trying to help myself sleep at night..

I got nothing against masturbating, but so many people do it in there young years - they never know what could happen if hey quit it before midlife crisis and menopause..