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for singles,

and from this topic, of lack of women in China and more men looking for women.

and lack of men in Russia.

For a guy, would you date Russian women and marry her?

if for example you live in the U.S? or any first world country.

and for a woman, who has a good job/career, would you marry a Chinese man, or does race matter to you for attraction?

it's hard to make this into a question, just got the inspiration from this topic.

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/moscow-clubs-capitalize-on-lonely-women-starved-for-affection-6892445/?checkpg=1



I tried looking online on youtube for some example vids, but not sure if this guy is serious because it seems like he's making a joke. 😕

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Posted by Libra82
Posted by MonkeyInTheMoon
He grabbed her hand and held it tightly, and she thought, "he loves me!" and he thought, "wow this sidewalk is icy!" - seems communication is key.

Nowadays you travel the world and get to see more folks than our grandparents so I guess I'm not the only one who had girlfriends who weren't locals. Plus, and that I can't deny, asian women ARE beautiful.

Race isn't an issue at all but language might be. But wait, did you say marry...? Marriage is a wonderful institution but somehow like a tornado, picks you up off your feet and sometimes takes half your house.
Lol at the last sentence. 😆

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but so true LOL !
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Posted by MonkeyInTheMoon
He grabbed her hand and held it tightly, and she thought, "he loves me!" and he thought, "wow this sidewalk is icy!" - seems communication is key.

Nowadays you travel the world and get to see more folks than our grandparents so I guess I'm not the only one who had girlfriends who weren't locals. Plus, and that I can't deny, asian women ARE beautiful.

Race isn't an issue at all but language might be. But wait, did you say marry...? Marriage is a wonderful institution but somehow like a tornado, picks you up off your feet and sometimes takes half your house.
you have to take the plunge.

I heard many are happy but also many aren't.

it's almost like gambling...roll of the dice, you win some you lose some.

but I don't think it's for people who would be too scared to be adventurous. I personally believe only those, who have strong security financially (especially old men who get young women overseas -- which I've heard countless times) are the ones able to do it.

also, though from all the accounts I've heard in real life, is that some young women feel like a SLAVE because they take care of the old man -- as if the old man married them so they can have a nanny in old age. true story. This young woman in her 30s felt like that, and she looks 50. maybe from so much working. but she said it is better than back home when she had nothing.

I don't think it's love from an outside view but it is a SERVICE to taking care, so it's a kind of love right??

but no, it's not romantic love.
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Posted by piscesmoon2
There are always options... But you have to be honest and realistic is that love? Lol ?

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yeah it's not. not romantic always. but i'm sure there are many cases that are.



you have to see, for example that it has helped a lot of people. I opened my eyes a lot when I spoke to a lot of people in this position in my last work. So many...I think I would have remained in ignorance if they didn't open up to me, to them and understand what's going on.