1st date outfit ideas, Guys Edition

What's your preference, ladies?

I hear cargo shorts = winner

I like to keep it douchy with a black Zara V-neck, dark jeans, darkbrown/burgundy boots & Ixion's leather jacket

This douche knows how to douche it up

if I end up having sex with her on the first date, which brand of white socks to wear.?? mis-matched american flag on the left and rebel flag logo on the right? shows my patriotism, chicks dig patriots right?

But I also love to douche it up 70's style in rust/brown pants, olive green sweaters or brown shirts etc. for that ultimate cozy look

Anything... but nothing too bizarre or loud or ooooverly groomed look. 😄

Posted by MIIeFisk

I like this jacket but i dont like these shoes

Posted by MIIeFisk

I like blue shirts but I avoid it in the evening, I feel it makes it look like I'm on a lunch break and have to get back to the office .

Blue seems like the most casual of colors in a shirt.

In these pics it's also the fit on the guy, note that it accentuates the muscles in the right places. A lot of guys miss that.

edit: also if you dont have the muscles dont wear something that accentuates that fact too.

Posted by Ixion120
Yet again Casual casual? Or Casual out? Club/lounge out??need specifics lol

Anything you feel like posting

I don't care as long as it fits with the theme and activity, he's well groomed and smells nice. in other words shaved, hair is style d and clean lol.

Posted by rabidtalker
I hear cargo shorts = winner

Lol

Posted by Libra82
Depends on the guy but I have a thing for men in rolled up sleeves where you can see his sexy arms. 😆

+1

I always wear long sleeve shirts rolled up. Short sleeves look boyish somehow. Like a mailman, or a boy scout .

Posted by TauroMale22
Nothing more feminine than putting (too much) into how you look as a man.

For a casual date, you don't want to over do it. I like the effortless look on a man, and still looks put together and stylish. Its like they got out of bed and just threw some thing on, but it works well. I like them covered up too, I think it's sexy, especially if you can tell they have nice bodies underneath.

I just can't stand it when their shirts aren't tucked in though. If the outfits warrants it, tuck the shirt in, otherwise it looks kinda frumpy.

You'll be treated like royalty

Posted by Greentea

YES.

Posted by enfant_terrible
I like to keep it douchy with a black Zara V-neck, dark jeans, darkbrown/burgundy boots & Ixion's leather jacket

This douche knows how to douche it up

LOL! My boyfriend won't touch v-necks with a 1000 foot pole! 😆 I'm certain he will look so damn sexy in them, but he won't do it. *sniff*

Posted by exo
minimal chic, please.

cotton t-shirts and v-necks. hngggggggggg.

black or dark blue jeans on long legs.

sneakers or boots.

no fruity shit.

just basics.

Depending on who you ask, some men think v-necks are "fruity." ?

Posted by starwars
better wear something i can steal later (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧

Gotta steal his sweatshirt!

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Posted by LillyPetal

LOL! My boyfriend won't touch v-necks with a 1000 foot pole! 😆 I'm certain he will look so damn sexy in them, but he won't do it. *sniff*

These V's are a controversial matter. Never been a huge fan myself tbh.... guess it depends on the size of the cleavage.

Resteröds roundneck is another favourite, I love what it does to my douchy delts.

Posted by MIIeFisk

If my date looks like a New England WASP I will be under the impression he's just dating me just to piss off his parents.

Omfg I see these office rats in restaurants during lunch hours wearing this shit. They look a red nose and some face paint away from Bozo the clown.

That a new white collar thing? Scarlet pants and tablecloth shirt?! Really? REALLY?

Stepford Husbands

Depends where you guys are going.... Plain shirt dressy jeAns and nice rubber shoes... I love a man with a nice watch though it means he values how he spends his time

Tbh, ties on guys are tired. (Unless it's required for work or important event) It's been so played out. You won't need one if you know how to pick out statement pieces.

Like this class act.

Posted by Se7en
@Greentea got mad taste, yo... I see you 😉

Oh wow, I didn't even get notified you tagged me. No surprise there.

Thank you. My best guy friends take me shopping with them to help pick out their clothes.

Posted by MIIeFisk

Posted by enfant_terrible

Posted by MIIeFisk

If my date looks like a New England WASP I will be under the impression he's just dating me just to piss off his parents.

Omfg I see these office rats in restaurants during lunch hours wearing this shit. They look a red nose and some face paint away from Bozo the clown.

That a new white collar thing? Scarlet pants and tablecloth shirt?! Really? REALLY?

It's not particularly new.

In the US, men who usually who dress this bright and preppy are from upper-middle class families who reside in the northeast seaboard or old southern families. Like, back-patting, good-'ole-boys, private-university-legacy, granddad's-money type. They most likely drive a BMW and own a horse.

And then there are those who just like to emulate their style . Why? IDFK.

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These guys are the biggest fukboys of them all. Just tards, I shit on them every opportunity I get.

Posted by Cricket808
I can't think of anything in particular. Oh, bring swag on the first date.

yeah, gotta have the swag or the rest of the night is questionable ...

Posted by Libra82

Posted by Greentea

For a casual date, you don't want to over do it. I like the effortless look on a man, and still looks put together and stylish. Its like they got out of bed and just threw some thing on, but it works well. I like them covered up too, I think it's sexy, especially if you can tell they have nice bodies underneath.

I just can't stand it when their shirts aren't tucked in though. If the outfits warrants it, tuck the shirt in, otherwise it looks kinda frumpy.

I soo approve of this. Especially what you said about "effortless look" and the just got of bed look. Soo sexy when their hair is not perfect but it looks wild and sexy 😉

I like the rough look on men. Don't like men who spends too much time infront of the mirror.

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True. The whole key is to have timeless pieces. Being able to change the whole look by just adding one piece.

I know guys that think they're manly bcuz they dress like a basic house husband. It's not unmanly to want to look nice or put a ltitle more though into a wardrobe. It's quite the opposite actually. Some guys just have great taste, and stand out without looking like they're trying too hard.

Trends are also not always one to follow. Everyone basically looks the same. There's subtle ways to stand apart from the crowd and still make a huge impact.

Soo over the whole tie thing, even fukboys are hiding behind it. Time to change.

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Posted by Greentea

Posted by Se7en
@Greentea got mad taste, yo... I see you 😉

Oh wow, I didn't even get notified you tagged me. No surprise there.

Thank you. My best guy friends take me shopping with them to help pick out their clothes.

Must be the Libra moon.

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Lol, probably, not sure. I've just always had an eye for details, and I like subtle beauty in everything.

Honestly? The clothes are not even secondary. How he smells, his voice, and how he conducts himself are prime.

Posted by Greentea

Posted by Libra82

Posted by Greentea

For a casual date, you don't want to over do it. I like the effortless look on a man, and still looks put together and stylish. Its like they got out of bed and just threw some thing on, but it works well. I like them covered up too, I think it's sexy, especially if you can tell they have nice bodies underneath.

I just can't stand it when their shirts aren't tucked in though. If the outfits warrants it, tuck the shirt in, otherwise it looks kinda frumpy.

I soo approve of this. Especially what you said about "effortless look" and the just got of bed look. Soo sexy when their hair is not perfect but it looks wild and sexy 😉

I like the rough look on men. Don't like men who spends too much time infront of the mirror.

True. The whole key is to have timeless pieces. Being able to change the whole look by just adding one piece.

I know guys that think they're manly bcuz they dress like a basic house husband. It's not unmanly to want to look nice or put a ltitle more though into a wardrobe. It's quite the opposite actually. Some guys just have great taste, and stand out without looking like they're trying too hard.

Trends are also not always one to follow. Everyone basically looks the same. There's subtle ways to stand apart from the crowd and still make a huge impact.

Soo over the whole tie thing, even fukboys are hiding behind it. Time to change.

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These do nothing for me! ? Women are amazing with their wildly varying tastes. ☺️

Posted by LillyPetal

Posted by Greentea

Posted by Libra82

Posted by Greentea

For a casual date, you don't want to over do it. I like the effortless look on a man, and still looks put together and stylish. Its like they got out of bed and just threw some thing on, but it works well. I like them covered up too, I think it's sexy, especially if you can tell they have nice bodies underneath.

I just can't stand it when their shirts aren't tucked in though. If the outfits warrants it, tuck the shirt in, otherwise it looks kinda frumpy.

I soo approve of this. Especially what you said about "effortless look" and the just got of bed look. Soo sexy when their hair is not perfect but it looks wild and sexy 😉

I like the rough look on men. Don't like men who spends too much time infront of the mirror.

True. The whole key is to have timeless pieces. Being able to change the whole look by just adding one piece.

I know guys that think they're manly bcuz they dress like a basic house husband. It's not unmanly to want to look nice or put a ltitle more though into a wardrobe. It's quite the opposite actually. Some guys just have great taste, and stand out without looking like they're trying too hard.

Trends are also not always one to follow. Everyone basically looks the same. There's subtle ways to stand apart from the crowd and still make a huge impact.

Soo over the whole tie thing, even fukboys are hiding behind it. Time to change.

These do nothing for me! ? Women are amazing with their wildly varying tastes. ☺️

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Cool.

It's a good thing there's someone out there for everybody 🙂

This thread is about what to wear on a first date, not about the person's character. Of course character should be most important, that should go without saying.

There are people who have, both, great character and a great sense if style . Being able to dress well is just a small facet of who they are overall, just like people who look like they dressed in the dark. Lol.

Posted by VivaciousScorpio

(Yes this guy is ridiculously good looking)

*flips table* too handsome -makes meh angry 😡

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Posted by wagtail

Posted by VivaciousScorpio

(Yes this guy is ridiculously good looking)

*flips table* too handsome -makes meh angry 😡

He can wear a handmade burlap sack shorts and a yellowed armpit white tank top and I wouldn't bat an eyelash...

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Yeah that's a still shot and I can still feel his eyes flickering

all over the place.

Posted by aquanib
aquanib bzns casual... 😄

Wth aquanib I thought you were gonna gift that shirt to Firebunny?!

If there is one thing I know its the women love that completely homeless look