a little input please...

HI ALL New here n browsing the posts i see topics that arouse questions in me about my own lovesickness.Theres this guy n i love him to pieces but i cant figure out if its paranoia or intuition on my end telling me since he hasnt made major moves in the relationship direction that he's playing with my emotions. i dont reallie belive it maybe a friend was right by saying i have trust issues i donno..been fooling with him for going on 4 years now oh n if it makes a difference hes a virgo though people r peculiar enuf without star signs maybe that helps. now to clear a bit up im sure we both no how the other feels at this point but he still does crazie stuff frm wen we first met like mumbling things he wants to talk about in conversation where i cant reallie hear him and sends messages like "have i ever... ... ..." watever this means...it used to be funnie wen i didnt reallie care wat it wa cus i figured hed bring it up eventually but now its soooo not funnie.the last time i kinda blew up n was like forget this n u and u dont need me blah blah blah so we hadnt seen each other for some weeks. so funnie how we ran n2 each other at a club i NEvr see him at. he was mad at me for not dancing with him can u believe?! then he called me crzy for wat i sed earlier about wanting to leave him alone (didnt reallie want 2) neway i think im rambling...

Sounds like Misty typing.

and who might Misty be? haffo

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Since u r +ve abt u 2 being in love:-----
"have i ever...." must be part of his answer to u, for ur question.

See its like this, he's thinking abt u all the time, sooo much so that he has u completely inside his heart and is making conversations with u (the u thats in his heart). So, here u (u inside the heart) must be asking him something over and over and he's giving u the answer.
But ofcouse he knows what is happening so he cant express himself completely in front of u as u'll think him nuts. 🙂 But he cant help saying it in front of u either and on the other hand he does wish if u KNEW. (a feeling of 'extra sensory perception'.... and all that stuff). This is a side effect of thinking of something or somebody all the time. Once u 2 start making love he's sure to pour out clearer sentences provided the harmonious connection of complete confidence happens.

If the above is the case, then this guy will go bonkers if u ditch him. pls dont worry abt this behavious too much. go along with it and u'll slowly start KNOWing. and its ok to (small) quarrel over it once in a while. Looks like he's really INTO u, very close. A scary period.

What is immediately needed is, "conversations". Talk to him whenever u can, what ever u can. It'll slowly open him up. But pls dont go into this if u r not serious.

Nothing is a game,
If ur going to love someone more that u,
If ur going to protect someone more than u,
If ur going to give ur heart to someone completely,
If ur going to give ur soul to someone,
If ur going to throw away ur thoughts for the one u love
If u ultimately and completely try to become the one u love.
Only the most righteous, courageous and brainest could handle this.

OR on the other hand, he might be falling asleeeeep whenever u 2 r together and so is mumbling something in his nightmares 🙂
Good luck