Another sex based question

I'm in a bit of a rush today, so i'll make this quick, my Virgal and I were talking about sex n things that we like and don't. She doesn't like doing anything demeaning, which is completely understandable, but I think her logic is all screwy. For example, she doesn't do anal, which is fine with me, doesn't like to go down on me, has before but for literally ten seconds, whereas I've been down on her multiple times. She says that oral sex is demeaning to her, yet she contradicts herself when she asks me to cum on her face. Then the few times she has gone down on me, if there's a mess on me or on my package, she'll use her mouth. This she does on her own That, I think, is probably the most demeaning thing you can do, at least in my eyes. WTF is up with that? I don't get it. I don't really request oral either. There's other things too, like being thrown around n stuff like that. I even asked her where the boundary line was for demeaning n not, n even she said she doesn't know. Is this girl out of her mind? Serious question. :/

LoL, before you start ruining the good of the relationship by getting annoyed, just put in the back of your head that there are "some" things you cant take her seriously on, and sex seems to be one of them.

It seems she likes more than she's willing to admit, and is a bit cautious about coming off a certain way, which is why it sounds sketchy. Please keep your comments and "wtf faces" to yourself(Cap males make you want to pop em with the looks lol) and slowly get her to open up by actually "seeing" what she likes in the bedroom.

sounds like she likes to give oral (when a girl likes you to cum on her face, that is a message lol) but she doesn't want to be coerced. Just let her do it when she wants without asking and she'll probably become more brazen. Give subtle hints that you enjoy it. Stay clean.

I've actually had an equally difficult time finding a bull girl too. I had an FWB who was one before hooking up with my Virgal. Couldn't build a relationship with her though, it was my impression she was confusing love and lust. I had a crush on another one who was an acquaintance, but she shot me down, later I heard through a friend she had an STD. I felt bad for her, she was very pretty and had her shit together. Scholarships to multiple colleges for a Psych major. I see it as an excuse with my Virgal, but I understand it's a comfort thing too. I'm not used to this at all, usually with girls in the past I would never encounter this. But then I would get bored though if the girl would give it all up at once. She's certainly keeping me interested, it's just frustrating for me at times I would guess cuz I'm adapting to it. I think I am coming to the realization that she does, but it'll be something that'll come with time. It's not anything relationship ending, just a small frustration that I had due to the reasoning and/or contradiction. She loves doggie and hates it on top, but when she gets on top it's probably the best I've ever had. I've voiced it, but it seems somewhat the same situation as the oral. She's a fantastic girl, only one who's ever put up with my BS.