Any male virgos about—? need a male perspective

Ok so alittle background. I was with Aquarius for ten years but the relationship ended and I decided I wanted to be alone.... then along came my virgo. We met ar my party andhit Iit off straight away. We just sat and talked for hours and hours in our own little world. He asked me out on a date afew weeks later, which I didnt see coming but I accepted as he really intrigued me. Such a gentleman so sexy so smart, finally someone on my page. Soon as he realised my feeling he started the hot cold thing which confused hell out of me. He wouldnt return calls etc then he would show up weeks later and pretend he had never been away.

We have been together two years almost and he has moved in my house also. The thing is his brother died last year and hes changed. I love him so much and I know he loves me but he has a really odd way of showing it. Hes very very critical. Its relentless at times. How do I bring us closer get him to open up?

Ooh god see iv been told by most my friends that we arnt suited. I wonder if I gave to much to start with. Always let him win lol as its impossible for him to see his own fault. I have kids from my previous. Hes fantastic with them. All I really want to know is it pointless n futile? If he loves me why is he so detatched. There must be a way to soften them.... as a scorp sex is important to me closeness intimacy bonding just as important as conversation n comunication...... he doesnt seemto care bout sex but he cuddles me all night.... but if I cuddle him in the day he pushes me away and says he wants space. At first thought it was me but after picking myself apart im not sureI can fix it alone. So frustrating

Don't know about anyone else here, but I'd sure as hell would love the Virgo's side of these stories.

Posted by scorpio1986
Ok so alittle background. I was with Aquarius for ten years but the relationship ended and I decided I wanted to be alone.... then along came my virgo. We met ar my party andhit Iit off straight away. We just sat and talked for hours and hours in our own little world. He asked me out on a date afew weeks later, which I didnt see coming but I accepted as he really intrigued me. Such a gentleman so sexy so smart, finally someone on my page. Soon as he realised my feeling he started the hot cold thing which confused hell out of me. He wouldnt return calls etc then he would show up weeks later and pretend he had never been away.

We have been together two years almost and he has moved in my house also. The thing is his brother died last year and hes changed. I love him so much and I know he loves me but he has a really odd way of showing it. Hes very very critical. Its relentless at times. How do I bring us closer get him to open up?

im a virgo man , and to what you said , he seem like he 's pushing you away , probably because he loves you a lot , and as he's brother passed away in a mean of someone very beloved to him left , it kind of made him push you away in case you might leave to for it to be less painful :/ he probably pained from the loss and afraid of losing someone again , id say dont push him into opening up , try to be loving and suportive show him that you'll always be by he's side and you wont leave him on he's own , as a virgo we tend to rely on our selfs , let feelings bottle in we have a hard time talking about things we might seem like we have our shit together but we do fall apart in silence , just stay there for him get close to him little by little make him trust you that he start opening up to you

Thanks jay...... that really made alot of sense. So to update. I put my insecurities to one side. Keep telling mysrlf he loves me and just showing a more upbeat happy side and things seem alot better. 🙂 relationships ate so hard but what I do know is I love this man and I will stand by him. Think hd knows that now. Fingers crossed aye. Thanks guys..... much love xx