Are virgo and scorpio a good match in relationship

what's your experience?

It could work, attraction is there.

My experience is that a Scorpio and Virgo are two very powerful signs, especially Virgo with our stubornness and Scorpio with the overbearing and almost secretive side. I would date a Scorpio again, I think it is a great balance between the two people involved. Scorpios like to be in charge and so do Virgos, but Virgos will warm up to the idea of being taken care of once trust evolves. That being said however, just know Scorpios are very possesive, and private, something that may take Virgo by suprise at first, and take some getting used to. I found some of my best and worst qualities were brought out by dating a Scorpio. Just dont expect perfection (Virgo) and you will be fine. I would date a Scorpio in a heartbeat again.

hell no had scorpio friends had to cut them off too selfish for my liking nexttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt lmao.

Posted by ellessque

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo


hell no had scorpio friends had to cut them off too selfish for my liking nexttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt lmao.

yeah, but i bet they didn't have libra in venus 😛

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lmfao still dont like scorpios suns or moons or any damn strong scorp placements tho hahahaha lmao 🙂

Posted by Let*It*Be
" I would date a Scorpio in a heartbeat again."


Asked...and answered. These two get each other and what one lacks the other compliments. Compromise also comes much easier with these two. Love..love Virgos 😉

so you're a Scorp?

I'm trying to school this young Scorp dude, he is very young acting and stubborn. I can see his flaws cuz when I was young I did the same, you couldn't tell me shit, I knew it all(yeah right) I can understand him, and I have to reach him, his mentality is "cross me and I'll forever despise you, I understand that is how Scorps can be as well as Virgos, but one has to mature or suffer the consequences..gotta grow up, and listen to advice from experienced people. I want to help the young buck cuz I know already..been there done that.

scorpios women annoying me sometimes especially with those piercing eyes.
it's like they can see through you.

ALso, they are so emotional and clingy. ewww...lol 🙂

Aw lol not all scorpios are crazy crazy. :p well ..I got a lot of Leo and Sagittarius in me. But ! My bestfriend is a triple Virgo and we have been friends for 8 years. ^^ she is very kind but sometimes I don't understand her insecurity and she cannot except being wrong very well ..she is also very possessive of me when we hang around other people. the guy I am seeing is also Virgo and I think we can compliment each other's strong personality most of the time. I just think its bad to say you won't date a Scorpio or you won't ever be a friend to a Scorpio just because you have had some bad experiences before. I have even had guys suddenly stop hitting on me when I told them my sign .. and we were getting a long fine. You could lose out on a lot of fun 🙂. Scorpio-Virgo relationships is a balance and I think it's very easy to get a long with Virgo people as long as you can except them for how they are just like they except u. ^^

Scorpio are controlling, and at first glance Virgos tend to like it because, since the Virgo is horrible at understanding human nature, this looks to be confident to them.

As time wears on though, and it does take a very long time for Virgo to actually "get" their partner .... the Virgo then realizes that the Scorpio is the opposite of being confident in themselves, that it was the Scorpio being a control freak all along, and the reason for being a control freak is because there is no confidence in itself.



So, the answer is double-fold .. yes, a good match at first while Virgo is still blind, and no, a bad match once the Virgo sees the real Scorpio

In reality ... the Scorpio is likely the weakest of them all when it comes to believing in themselves. They are filled with self-doubt and spends most of it's feelings dwelling how miserable it is.

That doesn't work well with Virgo, who becomes disillusioned quite rapidly once it realizes this.

Posted by MoonMan

Posted by S Love
I'm trying to school this young Scorp dude, he is very young acting and stubborn. I can see his flaws cuz when I was young I did the same, you couldn't tell me shit, I knew it all(yeah right) I can understand him, and I have to reach him, his mentality is "cross me and I'll forever despise you, I understand that is how Scorps can be as well as Virgos, but one has to mature or suffer the consequences..gotta grow up, and listen to advice from experienced people. I want to help the young buck cuz I know already..been there done that.

Yeah, it's hard to know what angle to come in at in order to reach him.
Sometimes though, we have to learn our own lessons the hard way. Part of our soul path and what not.

Maybe you could let him know exactly that ^^^ and that you can relate to where he is at in life due to your experiences.
Let him know that if something is troubling or whatever, that your door is open to chat, without judgement. Plant the seed, let him come to you, when he believes you are genuine.



I was very 'head strong' as a young buck - Aries ascendant, but I would definately have been open to guidence from a decent male role model, my old man just wasn't there for me. In fact, he actually threw me in the deep end and said, start swimmin' son!

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no disrespect any parent who tells their child that shouldnt be a parent didnt really have a dad either but i rather have someone look out for me and my well being.

not everybody should be a parent and thats for real.

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

Posted by ellessque

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo


hell no had scorpio friends had to cut them off too selfish for my liking nexttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt lmao.

yeah, but i bet they didn't have libra in venus 😛

lmfao still dont like scorpios suns or moons or any damn strong scorp placements tho hahahaha lmao 🙂

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I think you are inundated with libra. How do you feel about super Aries women? I'm curious..

I was with a scorpio for 11 months. It really was a great relationship. he treated me like a princess. but the thing is my scorp was convinced that we were gonna be together forever and get married and it's not that I wouldn't have loved that but I'm just way too young to be that tied down or committed. and sure enough I'm going out with another scorp now. what can I say? I love them

Posted by ellessque

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo


hell no had scorpio friends had to cut them off too selfish for my liking nexttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt lmao.

yeah, but i bet they didn't have libra in venus 😛

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A Venus in libra is useless if they're too strong elsewhere. It just makes the native majorly confused about themselves 😉

Posted by spica

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo

Posted by ellessque

Posted by LeGendary ViRGo


hell no had scorpio friends had to cut them off too selfish for my liking nexttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt lmao.

yeah, but i bet they didn't have libra in venus 😛

lmfao still dont like scorpios suns or moons or any damn strong scorp placements tho hahahaha lmao 🙂

I think you are inundated with libra. How do you feel about super Aries women? I'm curious..

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well i dont know any aries woman besides my older brother girlfriend and she's very pushy loud aggressive he's a aqua perfect match huh lol.

and my oldest brother who's an aries is a bully aggressive loud demanding and can be a big baby lmao.

but can be nice at times lol.

^well the aqua can tolerate her for sure! I think aqua/Aries is a lethal combo esp in a natal chart. The Aries unethical self serving drive will couple with Aquarian cold heartedness and brilliance to become an unstoppable force for destruction.. But I hv only seen it in a person, and all females.

You are pretty sharp and accurate with your observations on your oldest bro. Kudos!

Posted by spica
^well the aqua can tolerate her for sure! I think aqua/Aries is a lethal combo esp in a natal chart. The Aries unethical self serving drive will couple with Aquarian cold heartedness and brilliance to become an unstoppable force for destruction.. But I hv only seen it in a person, and all females.

You are pretty sharp and accurate with your observations on your oldest bro. Kudos!

well i'am after all a virgo slash libra slash leo slash aqua lmao.


so i can be sharp at times.

Posted by MoonMan

Posted by S Love
I'm trying to school this young Scorp dude, he is very young acting and stubborn. I can see his flaws cuz when I was young I did the same, you couldn't tell me shit, I knew it all(yeah right) I can understand him, and I have to reach him, his mentality is "cross me and I'll forever despise you, I understand that is how Scorps can be as well as Virgos, but one has to mature or suffer the consequences..gotta grow up, and listen to advice from experienced people. I want to help the young buck cuz I know already..been there done that.

Yeah, it's hard to know what angle to come in at in order to reach him.
Sometimes though, we have to learn our own lessons the hard way. Part of our soul path and what not.

Maybe you could let him know exactly that ^^^ and that you can relate to where he is at in life due to your experiences.
Let him know that if something is troubling or whatever, that your door is open to chat, without judgement. Plant the seed, let him come to you, when he believes you are genuine.



I was very 'head strong' as a young buck - Aries ascendant, but I would definately have been open to guidence from a decent male role model, my old man just wasn't there for me. In fact, he actually threw me in the deep end and said, start swimmin' son!

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The situation is, he is the old me so he can't fool me..he needs to shut up and listen, period. I thought I knew everything, he reminds me of the old me. I believe I can help the youngsta if he would understand about listening!!

oh look who's back lol.

they say it works out very well but it's true what zd1987 said! If those areas are worked out the relationship could last a lifetime.Shania Twain and her First Husband Mutt Lange were this match,she's the virgo of course.I don't think his jealousy could take her career but it lasted many years and they were together a long time before they married.

the one i heard of ended quite badly. the girl (virgo) was basically taken for a ride by the dude (scorpio). didnt help that their personalities were abit questionable too. both were incredibly flirty, with the girl being pretty loud about it and pretty attention seeking. the dude was abit of a phony and very mysterious, not surprised that he was found out for two-timing. he went to the army and got rid of the girl suddenly. they were both in an "open" relationship too - something which i;ve neveer see go down well.

it can be a nice match i guess but maybe not for the long term depending on their personalities.

Posted by P-Angel
In reality ... the Scorpio is likely the weakest of them all when it comes to believing in themselves. They are filled with self-doubt and spends most of it's feelings dwelling how miserable it is.

That doesn't work well with Virgo, who becomes disillusioned quite rapidly once it realizes this.

Pretty much summed it up for me!

scorpios have a tendency to be very insecure, driving them to control people and passing on their insecurities to you in the form of jealousy and secrecy. it can be very bad if not caught early. it will end horribly once you realize how controlling they can be. That being said, it is a great match if it is balanced and the insecurity is not constantly washed up on the virgo. It actually got to the point where "I" was constantly negative. No virgos call it how it is but dont like to disappoint either so the truth will take some time to swallow. The scorpio is almost obsessively secretive too, which can drive a virgo up the wall. THAT BEING SAID. The connection can be unreal and almost euphoric, they are a great match if everything is taken with time, honesty, and compromise.