Are Virgo Women Happier Then Virgo Men?

Hey virgo men, cappysweetie?s got some questions for you all 😛

Why does a healthy relationship seem to elude virgo men but not virgo women?

From what I've noticed, virgo men either choose to be with:

Really vain women: the non-earthy type, these women believe that they are perfection -- I guess virguys confuse snobbery for strength

Really trashy women: these women will dress impeccibly well but their attiudes (in my opinion) are terrible -- this is a mystery to me, I guess mental simulation doesn't count if these women can give virguys good sex ...

"Why are most virgo men are unsatisfied with their love lives but you continue choosing the wrong or women that don?t seem to fit them mentally?"

What up with you all? If virgo men are so mentally "in-tune", why can't you choose a good woman—??

yaaaaa cappisweetie,

i too wanna know why—??


I've seen the First marriage of almost every Virgo Man end in Divorce.. whys that—


please enlighten us guys 🙂

I know what you mean eliza,

Virgo men seem to be wonderful guys ... but their track record in relationships are ... well below average I should say. They refuse to take risks for some reason.

Why do they go for the pretentious, the trashy, the "slutly" type of women. They also have a tendency to be with women that they don't intend on building a future with ... why —?? Or they'll settle for a women they really don't take that seroiusly ... why— If these man are so darn smart, why is it that they can't make it work with women they "truly" want?

But, gotta be honest, these females tend to scare us off!!

Scare or just intimidate?

Okay DY,

I kinda see you point ... so virgo men are attracted to women they can mold until they learn better? Women -- such as a woman who seem to be grounded and well put together) scare virgo men off —

Well, I still don't understand the reasoning behind this but this does explain plenty

I've dealt with about six virgo male friends so I know my stuff 😉 They will strongly like a female then out of the blue become distant from her because he thought she wouldn't want them —?? One virgo friend of mine (who a junior in college right now) was exactly the same way two ... he really like this girl but he just couldn't tell her.

Shockingly, when she admitted that she liked him, he then became indifferent with her -- he used the excuse that they were going to totally different universities so nothing could work between. 😢 So he went off to school wondering whether or not he had a chance with her.

I was the only one who knew that he really like her and still wanted to be with her after going off to college ... I think she was a cappy? well I think she was born in the early part of January.

Well, virgo men better stop all this "fraggle-naggle-bull", or else they are going to continue wasting time.

I look at my brothers and say the exact same thing about them ... they'll go with the safer women (most of the time the desperate ones) instead the latter.

OOO my goodness .... I'm glad you learned DY 😄 now some other virguys need to really follow your lead.

You know what they say, "if it ain't rough it ain't rignt" 😉

OOOO Morning Branh, how are you —— 🙂 🙂 🙂

Well since you are a virgo guy, please go into more depth ... I've befriended at least ... well seven virgo men and I just don't get it, it confuses me. I'm a cappy girl so I like directness ... indirectness is very frightening.

But maybe DY is right, he is very wise after all 🙂 You are too but you haven't given me anything to go on like he has 🙂

WOW Branh, what an explanation ... okay you got my attention Mr.B .... I will explain my views on what you just stated in a moment.

Okay, after reading both your explanantion and DY's ... I don't see any differences EXCEPT for a few. You two just worded things differently 🙂 I didn't mean virgo dating sluts in a deragortory way, I just meant the women who are well-groomed on the outside but trashy on the inside ... the biggiest sluts I know are the ones who dress in suits very day ... I feel horrible for the ones who do it to make money .....

To the virgos I've met, relationships are not expendible. The guys want so badly to find a decent women but for some reason they can't (——?) So the end up in these "go-no-where" relationship and then they have to deal with chaos as they they get into their late twenties and thirties -- believe me, my brother and a few friends have shown me this so I only speak for experience.

My brother isn't pleased about a woman tricking him into pragnancy ... yet he knew the consequences when he was sleeping with her -- sexual protection isn't always guaranteed!
Now she wants child support from him because he won't marry her. Now, if my brother wouldn't been more "serious" oriented instead "casual sex" oriented, he wouldn't be in this mess.

Virgo men come on now ... you all are far too intelligent to act so ... well ... not smart.

Intelligence and recklessness can meet up in one Virgo male. I've seen them behave irresponsibly.

Well, virgo men are human, just like the other males of the zodiac so a combination of intelligence and recklessness to be seen on all zodiac males. You know what I think? The best aspect about a virgo man is the the fact that they are the first ones to one up to their mistakes and they are also the first ones to learn from their mistakes

*** that's what makes the virgo man unique ***

Branh will definately state that he is no "Angel" where other guys may try to sugar things.

Mr.B ... gotta love him 😉

Just to let everyone know ... this thread is sooooo NOT A VIRGO BASHING, please don't turn it into one okay 🙂 I just need answers to the questions to my orginal post.

The real problem with Virgo males is that we are so practical and independent, that we do not feel that we are worthy lovers until everything is right with us. This is odd to some women who are accustomed to mates having glaring imperfections. A Virgo would like to be the best man he can be to his lasdy. A Virgos greatest defeat is that of shame. And the process of shame is played out in a Virgos head. He cannot be around someone if he is ashamed of himself, no matter if his partner convince him that they are understanding.

OOOPS, I forgot to comment on this paragraph!

Branh, all of the above makes VERY good sense. Out of all the virgos I know, they have stated that they needed to fix a certain aspect of their lives before they settled down. This is why my brother was upset about having his first child under such circumstances -- he wanted things to be different then what they are now.

OMG, that makes perfect sense now that you put things that way. A big flaw with cappy women is the fact that we hae a tendency to get involved in relationships very "ill prepared". Haha, we know how to get the guy but our own emotional problems prevent us from establishing stronger unions. I am gulity of this but I have acknowlegded it 😉

Before you can achieve anything with anyone you must first be satisfied with yourself. Yes, Branh I couldn't agree with you more 🙂

My virgo friend whose taking political science is feels the same way you do Branh. My virgo brother was the main reason I decided to create this tread. My second virgo brother is very random right now but I think his new baby will help him get his act together.

I will appreciate more feedback, but Branh and DY have been awesome with their detials 🙂

nor is he super shy ....



LOL.. all the virgos i've met are soooooooo darn shy... they hardly like crowded places coz they have self-esteem issues (atleast well the ones i know are that way)... however, it applies more to virgo women... they have a low self-esteem....i dont know why they constantly compare themselves with others and get all down and depressed... i mean come on.. we are all Different and special in our own way.. no one can ever be like 'YOU'...

A Virgo would like to be the best man he can be to his lady.


LOL... but why doesnt he EVER make the effort—



Most Virgos don't live to be in relationships. A Virgo male actually puts more time and attention into other aspects of life.

LOL.. all the virgos i know cant wait to jump into a relatioships...maybe ur just different

She attempted to call me, but I refuse to call her back.


she tried to contact you so why dont you give her a try?? come on Bran0913, how are you soo sure shes taking advantage of you— If i were you i'f definitely give her a try, i mean come on you STILL have feelings for her...



I think if you are an Aquarian who has dealth with a Virgo

i've never dated a Virgo ever but ya had lots of casual friends 🙂

Well Mr.B I think Eliza was trying to say that virgo men to put in just as much effort in order for a relationship to work. More then likely she was speaking on "emotional" expression.

You should be in a relationship with someone who wants to tak advantage of you NO MATTER how you feel about them. Sometimes are own feelings for people can blind us to what they really are ... please don't le that happen to you Branh ....

Honestly Branh, you deserve better dude ... don't go back to something you know is no good. If what you have stated about her on DXP is true then I wouldn't call her back either.

OH don't worry Eliza you didn't know 🙂 His story about her is either on the virgo board and the pisce board. Plus, he referenced her in a few posts on the capricorn board when I was having problems with a cancer guy three or four monthes ago -- that's the only reaosn I knw about it. LOL, it was funny when he stated that cancer and pisces are the same except a cancer has more ego 😉

Yeah Eliza, I'm busy too ... I have to go in a bit

i meant i'll sneak into his profile 😛😛

LOL !!!!! @ Eliza

😛😛😛

so ur going out tonite— or stayin' in and working on ur assignments??

DY,

It's fine for a man to think, just don't be so changable with it. You are virgos, so you are suppose to use reasoning when it comes to the mental world.

I think cappy women are easy to get along with -- I think that 1st decan cappies tend to work well with virgos. 2nd decan cappies work well with either virgos or taurus and 3rd decan cappies work well with taurus.

The biggiest problem between a cappy woman and a virgo man is that they are both trying the hardiest need to get hurt by each other. As a result, they need up making stupid decisions and one party starts playing with the others emotions ... I don't like that at all. Just be real with me, stop the BS 😛

OOOOOO my yes!!!! SORRY THAT WAS A TYPO .... Gee weeezzzz thanks for catching that

*** The biggiest problem between a cappy woman and a virgo man is that they are both trying the hardiest not to get hurt by each other. ***

That's what I meant 😄

Ummm, well as far as the decans go .... I have to get back with you one that 😉