what should i do—

I am deeply in love with a Virgo women..a year back we met eachother...bt unfortunately she is my lecturer...we exchanged our number almost a year back..we used to talk nicely and she used to share many of things related to her college days n few of her likes n dislikes etc..BT since few days she isn't that good to me..don't reply me as she used to or sometimes don't even text me for days..rarely she text me on her own..if she seems to be upset n I try to cheer up her or just ask her what wrong she just says nothing n don't text me later..I really do care for her n never want her to be in trouble..even if I m angry on her at times n if she is upset for any reason in that period I always choose to put aside my ego n take care of her n try to let her share things with me BT she usually don't clear it up..I know because of relation its hard to be frank with..bt how do I know about what she exactly feels for me or at least if she wants me in her life or not n is she comfortable talking to me—??please reply as fast as possible

I am deeply in love with a Virgo women..a year back we met eachother...bt unfortunately she is my lecturer...we exchanged our number almost a year back..we used to talk nicely and she used to share many of things related to her college days n few of her likes n dislikes etc..BT since few days she isn't that good to me..don't reply me as she used to or sometimes don't even text me for days..rarely she text me on her own..if she seems to be upset n I try to cheer up her or just ask her what wrong she just says nothing n don't text me later..I really do care for her n never want her to be in trouble..even if I m angry on her at times n if she is upset for any reason in that period I always choose to put aside my ego n take care of her n try to let her share things with me BT she usually don't clear it up..I know because of relation its hard to be frank with..bt how do I know about what she exactly feels for me or at least if she wants me in her life or not n is she comfortable talking to me—??please reply as fast as possible

Ask her!!!! Judgement Zone...honestly, do you really want to have relations with your lecturer?? When either one of you are mad as all hell or decide to move on, do really you want to have to see her face in class or where ever?

Well I'm scared I don't get an answer I want to hear..n may be I'll lose her...I can't imagine a life without or say I don't want to do so..n if in case she don't want to talk to me I still would never mind seeing her anywhere..only I'll wish wherever she is whatever she does n with who ever she is..she is happy n I will always try to keep her happy through any1 without knowing its me...if she isn't with me its ok coz it was never a lust or kind of wanting her in relation with me.. I love loving her unconditionally.. just to see her happy with the most precious smile on her face all the time..

Plzz guide me on this

Save your breath and don't even bother.

Don't bother for wat—

She's your lecturer.

Your only communication is with crickets.

😢.

I can tell you how I respond to certain situations but oviously not every virgo woman will be the same . If I have interest and someone is texting me then I will reply straight away and will have a conversation , you'd have no doubts to if I was interested or not because I would make it obvious .

If someone is too full on then I will refrain from texting back . There is nothing worse then being unsure of a situation and being bombarded with messages , sorry to say but its a huge turn off .

If I have zero interest I will be honest and say so as I just don't want contact with that person at all , I wont hang around either I'd rather just say how it is straight away to avoid any confusion .

You sound like your between the second and third scenario , back off and let her message you . If she thinks anything of you then you will hear from her .

I just got a text...she just complimented me for my childhood pic..well at times she listen to some of my suggestions bt still confused that if she treats me like other people or there is something more felt for me!!—

Why are you so eager to lap up every bit of crumb she gives you? She might not want you to cause any trouble for her since she is your lecturer and doesn't want to be accused of any impropriety.

You should just tell her how you feel and ask her the same. Why keep torturing yourself.

Still if as u r saying that if she don't want any trouble there are chances that she might ignore it or tell a lie..how can I find out then what she really feels

Why be with someone who you think may lie to you— The only way you'll know for sure is by her actions, and even actions are questionable sometimes. Patterns never lie.

Patterns.. like—??

Bt apart from everything the biggest hurdle that we have is I am a lesbian bt she isn't.. I was hesitating revealing this bt think that I should if I need a perfect advice...

And other than that wat will u suggest in this case??

Thinking of telling the truth but how—

What If invite to go somewhere she would like to go n try to figure out her feelings for me!!—?