Are virgos touchy feely?

Mine isn't 😢

Not usually in public in private they should be but you need to give the green light otherwise they keep their hands to themselves

Mine needs green light as well. But he never EVER starts cuddling first. 😢 It makes me feel like he doesn't want me 😢

Then ask for him to initiate the cuddling more often.
Usually they will accommodate your request.. if you dont ask they will never know what you want.

But if I aked him I will know that he does that not because he wants to and can't keep his arms away, but because I asked to 😢

Posted by Scorpiegurl
But if I aked him I will know that he does that not because he wants to and can't keep his arms away, but because I asked to 😢

I'm not at first. Give him his space for now.

What virgo wants is too serve you.. thats the whole purpose. . If you cant communicate your needs he cant serve

Serve... I need someone to want me, not to be a slave.

Slave is not the right word.. virgos need to be relied upon.. useful..
if your not willing to rely upon him for your needs you have made him unwanted.
He cant read your mind.. he will not know what you want or need without communication.
thats how some relationships die. Virgos dont usually take the first step in anything without proper input because they may fear some awkward moment of rejection.
let him know its okay for him to take the lead in cuddling once in awhile.
its about you and thats what he wants but not without reassurances.

Avoid saying "I want ... from you ... "
Say "I need ... from you ... "

Being needed/useful is what Virgo desire.

Take us for granted and you're dead! Just saying.

Posted by dontgetmewrong
It means they're clueless on how to handle you, they need to be lead bc they don't "feel", they "think". Sounds ridiculous I know....

If you want someone that is naturally warm & affectionate, go for a fire or fellow water sign.

Good advice! lol

I had a Virgo that was extremely touchy feely. However, he had alot of air signs(Libra) in his chart. His venus was in Libra as well, so maybe that had something to do with it. He always would find ways to touch me.If he was standing right by me, he would get super close to where when my arm moved it would rub against his...lol

Even if he was just passing by me, he would put his hands around my waist then. I didnt like it at first because I just met him then, but after awhile it was okay.

Am I the only virgo that is like a octopus when I'm into someone ? If I like them I can't keep my hands to myself no matter where I am 🙂

I can go either way.

You like affection and touchy feely..I shall do so. You detest PDA, I can do that too.

Virgos mold after their partners.

No no. I don't talk about PDA. I don't like when people kiss, hug in public myself. It looks weird like they are showing off their relationships because they are not sure about it themselves and try to convince everyone that everything is okay and they are happy. I am talking about cuddling when we are alone. He never initiates it and I put way more effort into relationships than my virgo. Actually today I decided to stop putting effort and start looking for second boyfriend. This virgo man will be my spare case. I got tired.

Posted by Scorpiegurl
..and start looking for second boyfriend. This virgo man will be my spare case.

How about breaking up with him? Can you do this in all that effort you put forward?

I can't break up with him. I would die. Literally. I love him too much. I would commit suicide if I had to leave him. But I can't be like this anymore either. I am a human being. I need warmth, affection, appreciation and love.

Posted by Scorpiegurl
I love him too much. I would commit suicide if I had to leave him.

I get it. It's all about you and having your fill of everything through other people.

Pretty sure you're a troll now.

Ixion, I am afraid to scare him away completely by being direct. 😢

It's a troll, people.

Posted by Damnata
It's a troll, people.

Posted by Ixion120

Posted by Damnata
It's a troll, people.

There are ways to defuse a possible troll Nata without saying its a troll, etc etc etc

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Please speak for yourself and stop policing my replies. My comment was general and didn't address you specifically.

This is the 1003494th time when you take it upon yourself to explain to me the ways I post and how else it could be approached.

We have you to play good cop, I'll play bad. The end.

Lady Of Rebirth- Actually I didn't say anything in my hidden message. I quoted Ixion but my answer (that I don't want to be direct) wasn't shown somehow. Don't be a liar and a bitch.

Actually I said b-i-t-c-h idk why it censored to cookiemonster. What for God's sake is that cookiemonster at all?

Hhhh. Actually I meant female dog. I hope it won't censore me this time.

And Ixion, the answer to your question is that I'll try to be direct with him. I have no clue what the result will be. Honestly I "feel" what the result is going to be but this time I'll take that "YOLO" attitude. Nothing else is left for me.

I'm scared ofc. But either this or cheating and if he found out he'll leave me.

Posted by Damnata

Posted by Ixion120

Posted by Damnata
It's a troll, people.

There are ways to defuse a possible troll Nata without saying its a troll, etc etc etc

We have you to play good cop, I'll play bad. The end.

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And I'll grab popcorns and watch you both playing something. If you have time for fun and games I'm pretty fine with that but don't involve me into your performance. Thanx.

Posted by Scorpiegurl
but don't involve me into your performance. Thanx.

Your topic, your performance, young ghost of grace kelly.

Posted by Damnata

Posted by Scorpiegurl
but don't involve me into your performance. Thanx.

Your topic, your performance, young ghost of grace kelly.

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Actually it's my topic, YOUR performance and no grace kelly at all.

Ixion, I took my time to think and rethink about my situation and I decided not to speak to him straightforwardly yet but to act more distant and a little bit cold myself to give him a taste of the feeling that he can lose me and how would that feel and if that is what he really wants. And after THAT I will talk to him strictly and straightforwardly and I'll tell him that if he isn't willing to change his behavior he will definitely lose me.

At least right now I am almost sure that this part of "you will definitely lose me" will be a bluff but that's why I'll act distant for awhile- to scare him a little and make him think that I actually can leave him.

Ixion, please stop okay 🙂? That woman/girl definitely has nothing else to do so she jumps on everyone and everybody trying to cause scramble. The best way to deal with such people is to ignore them. They just want attention. 🙂 I made mistake myself yesterday that I let myself to answer to her and that other girl but yesterday was kinda tough day for me and I was all about emotions.

Entitled princesses will not make it far with any Virgo, male or female.

Bottom line, beyond any benefit of the doubt.

Posted by Scorpiegurl

I decided not to speak to him straightforwardly yet but to act more distant and a little bit cold myself to give him a taste of the feeling that he can lose me and how would that feel and if that is what he really wants. And after THAT I will talk to him strictly and straightforwardly and I'll tell him that if he isn't willing to change his behavior he will definitely lose me.

Like none of had enough forethought to realize that as a typical Scorpio, you would choose to play games with him, rather than be upfront, like a mature and rational person.

You're just another cunt.

Rambunctious and P angel, I'll play those mind games because I decided to do so. I don't want to be straightforward because I am afraid to scare him away and yeah maybe you all are right and I should be straightforward and so on because he's a virgo at the same time sun sign doesn't make all those people like one. In my opinion I can scare him away so I won't do that in a straightforward manner. That's my choice. Actually I didn't ask for a piece of advice how should I act. I asked if virgos in general are touchy feely people or not. THAT was my question and THAT was what I wanted to know.

Oh and if you decide to give a free advice that I didn't ask for you could at the very least be polite.

Thanx, Ixion. 🙂 Yep actually that was what I wanted to know, because I am curious if it's a general virgo trait to be cold, or it's just my virgo man. 🙂

Posted by Scorpiegurl
Mine isn't 😢

no