Aries/Virgo - is it possible to make it work?

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sundaymorningcoffee
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8 Years

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I am an Aries with a Sagittarius Asc. and she is Virgo/Cancer Asc., so it is kind of uncompatible combination (I have three Virgo Moon, Jupiter, Saturn in my chart though, and overall charts are not a match made in Heaven, but still ok). However, we have been together for 2,5 yrs and I would like to make it work, well, at least in friends' level, because I really appreciate her intelligence and funny jokes, and she is the best adventure companion I ever had!

However, recently I often feel like running away... We have often had fierce arguments and breakups (always initiated by her, blaming me for something I sometimes never noticed to have done wrong!!!), and all of them ended with her 'forgiving me', and I always accepted 'being forgiven', because I really do love her. But there is something substantially wrong... I have read Virgo nature is related to criticism and Cancer is always hurt, while as an Aries I might seem brutal to her and criticism really drives me crazy! She is the most fantastic woman I have ever met, but recently I feel like a schoolkid in this relationship, always walking on eggshells afraid of hurting her or saying the wrong thing, or misbehaving in any way. I feel like hiding things and actually I am tempted to cheat just because of this sense of undermined self-esteem... She often says in order to have it work, I must change, but, honestly, if I change, I would not be myself anymore... makes me feel like, ok, if you need someone different, I have to leave...

Any advice?