Arrrggghhhh (Page 2)

You guys have lost it. Yes, he knows he's tried to contact me, but last he knows is Jan considering he asked me 2 days prior to the Pisces calling again - when we drove by. I've never thrown it in his face, I simply give him an honest answer.

AND, P suggested I say something to My Virgo about the Pisces trying to contact me (she quoted herself above), I responded in kind that My Virgo knows he's tried to contact me, so she takes a different approach in her attack. This is her MO.

And I agree with My Virgo, "People like him deserve to get their ass kicked" (it's a statement he uses frequently about people).

BTW, I NEVER brought Pisces into this conversation.

And for the record: My Virgo's moodiness stems from the fact he had to have surgery. It corresponds to his appointment with the surgeon. He's been biting everyone's head off and nitpicking much more than usual.

In general, people can only take My Virgo in small doses, his friends are amazed at the fortitude I have on a normal basis never mind his recent edginess.

Posted by lildol

And I agree with My Virgo, "People like him deserve to get their ass kicked" ...

People like who?

What kind of person are you referring to?

lildol appears to have some comprehension problems when it comes to "understanding" others, and most likely one of the many reasons why virgo snapped her head off about asking "dumb" questions, of course her excuse is he's difficult but it appears she's a bit of an airhead that's attracted to Narcissistic men and when it comes to mutually understanding someone else's point of view other than her own she has little to no interest in it, she twist words to "fit" her understanding and hardly ever takes responsibility for the part she play in her own drama, how else would pisces and virgo clash unless she's planting negative seeds, stirring up drama in the background which caused the whole blow up but of course it's always someone else's fault.

Just like Nefer said to her earlier, virgo and pisces should have never known about one another and yet because lildol is emotionally immature, emotionally needy, has some serious self esteem issues and thrives off of drama she continues with this charade that I'm so innocent, I did nothing wrong, you all are the problem not me and she does that with the men in her life as well and frankly I don't think she know how to behave any other way.

So, then maybe now is a good time to try and realize what people are saying to her, so that she might be able to grow past her old ways that aren't leading her to self improvement.

I still don't know what is meant by, "People like him deserve to get their ass kicked" .... he was a person who thought he was in a relationship with lildol, and caught her two-timing him.

He had a right to feel angry .. why does that make him a person deserving of getting beat up?

^^^People who who want to create problems and interfere with others lives!

And absolutely not did he think we were in any kind of relationship. I did miss things about him at that point in time, so what! There were other things I loathed (trying to control me, wanting me to stop talking to my friends, and insisting I change for him to fit his ideal).

Posted by lildol
Mr. Pisces showed up at my house unexpectedly again (joked and laughed about not stalking me - my house is not on his way home though and I sensed it's not the first time he's driven by to see if I'm home). He dropped the tailgate and we sat and talked, then he put his arm around me and kissed me. I told him I couldn't, he doesn't have time and I miss him too much. I reminded him that we're not in a relationship and it is hard on me for him to make such advances. He agreed, said his schedule was not fair to me. I told him I need more, I need commitment and I'm seeking forever - he said he would be a bad husband 'cause he works too much. Somewhere in the midst of all this, he asked if I was seeing someone, I told him yeah, over the past 2 weeks I have been out on a number of dates with a certain someone. He said he was happy for me, wants me happy, kissed me and he wrapped his arms around me. He said he would have been totally heartbroken if he saw me out someplace (or even at my home) with another man (in other words he was glad he asked) - recall in a previous post the last time he just showed up he said he was hoping he would find me with another man so he could stop calling me. "Why?", I asked of being heartbroken, he said because he cares (despite not having been interested in seeing me since Feb). But, then he joked about 'playing house' and started rubbing my ring finger (first the right hand, then said, "oh wrong hand" and went for my left). He even told me he loved me at some point and he was so glad to have met me, but nothing about wanting to be with me.

Nope, not a smidgen, not even in his houses. His Venus is in Aries though...

@Scorpella and Tiki: No, I know exactly what P was saying and that she was being sarcastic. My point was that it is not a secret that he tried to contact me. My fault is honesty. My bff and My Virgo keep telling me I need to learn to lie. But, if he asks again and I'm going to say, yeah, back in May.

I was not in a relationship with the Pisces and yes I told him I had been on a few dates with someone and he was ok with that, so it seemed. A few days later he shows up where I normally hung out and goes psycho. There was no deception and all cards were on the table. But, you are right, my Virgo had no reason to know anything about the Pisces, it was a non-issue. The only reason My Virgo knew anything about the Pisces was him showing up out of the blue and being all weird.

You all want to read btwn the lines, I look at things at face value. No drama, no games, it is what it is. And, yes, I will admit, as a result, I probably come across as a little naive as I don't naturally think someone is trying to pull one over on me or do me wrong. Everyone is good in my book until they go all psycho.

This man scares me. And yes, I was wondering why on Earth would he try to contact me. I do not feel comfortable with him calling me, just as I don't feel comfortable with him driving by. It's creepy!

"This man scares me. And yes, I was wondering why on Earth would he try to contact me. I do not feel comfortable with him calling me, just as I don't feel comfortable with him driving by. It's creepy!"

Creepy really? Because I didn't pick up on that he's scary vibe when you were allowing Pisces dude to hug up and kiss on you and to the contrary that is quite misleading on your part, you said "he dropped the tailgate and we sat and talked, then he put his arm around me and kissed me. I told him I couldn't, he doesn't have time and I miss him too much." That doesn't seem creepy to me and apparently not to you either.

Creepy is this, he's driving by your home, showing up unannounced and you call the police b/c you are creeped out and scared, if he's that creepy then you wouldn't speak to him at all none the less have his phone number in your phone, him taking out his anger on virgo is your fault and on some level you should take ownership of that situation, if you had not allowed him back in not even for a little while there would be no reason for him to freak out on virgo and had you not engaged in any contact with pisces and pisces proceeded to flip out on virgo then yes I would say that it was creepy but that's not the case.

This is one of the many complaints about you lildol, you say one thing and you mean another, it's so fricken annoying, you feel one thing but yet you exude another kind of feeling around men and allow inappropriate behavior, you clearly wanted more from him but he was unwilling so you moved on but before you moved on you indulged in allowing him to kiss and hug you, I don't know why virg guy would bring up Pisces unless you or someone in your inner circle made him feel insecure, by speaking about pisces, your level of dishonesty is annoying, you'll start off very honest but then it gets confusing and it all just feels like a lie, I guess that's what you are failing to grasp.