Hi Everyone, Here's a question for you Virgo guys and anyone else who has noticed this... Why would there be a need for a Virgo man to repeatedly confirm his lack of interest in a relationship with a particular woman? I ask…
Wow, there's so much good info on this board; I really have gotten an education about the enigmatic Virgo male. Lemme see if I've got this right: * Virgo men don't give compliments, so don't hold your breath waiting for him to tell…
so im very much falling face first for this 22 year virgo male. he makes me feel so hot n cold i decided to get one of his fellow sun signs opinion before i just decide hes full of ISH. he says he loves me and wants me and has for some time but he just…
Hi there. This is just a quick message to say thanks for the advice that was offered by various contributors and that everything's going really well again between me and my Virgo man. A special thanks to Qbone and Alana too. We didn't really discuss…
I've only been reading the board a few weeks, if that & if I've read anything on here it's a lot of being told to be patient with virgo men lol. When my Virgo 'friend' (and I now call him a friend due to my lack of a better term) & I started…
Sorry about that topic title. Does it sound a bit trashy? Well maybe it is an apt reflection of the state of my mind at this stage. Been with my Virgo man for just under 2 months and thus far there has not been any earth shattering passion in the…
I have been dating a virgo man for almost (October) a year. I'm a leo. We had our clashes with pride and ego in the beginning but now we're getting along better. He has a tendency to flip out and get mad for no reason in my opinion and then he gets even…
I am new here & when I have time I'm going back & reading old posts, etc. I know there are some Virgo men here - and I just want to ask a question. I know everyone is different, but is it normal for Virgo men to pull away from someone they…
Hey everyone, I am new here & not sure I am doing things correctly. I have a very strange situation with a Virgo man I met about 2 months ago. First of all I hope I don't get blasted due to my lifestyle as I do sometimes on other…
Hi! I'm just wondering what would be a nice birthday present for a young Virgo man? I know every person has a difference for tastes and likes, >.< but I would like to hear some suggestions from the people here. Any advice will be much…
Well after reading *everything* I could find on Virgo males, some of it (the basic stuff) fit but there were still some gaps.
Then his dear friend of many years, who also just happens to hold a Ph.D. in psych, confided to me in an e-mail that our mutual friend (the Virgo) has an avoidant attachment style . Now I'm fairly well versed in most psych stuff but wasn't very knowledgable about "attachment style s," so I proceeded to do some Googling. Whoa, it certainly explained a LOT! (If you're not familiar with it, then my suggestion is that you Google it since I don't want to clog up the board here with a bunch of psych stuff.)
It has been said by more than one psyhch prof that astrology IS psychology. 🙂 AND I found some fascinating info on an astrology site about Virgos being born into families in which the mother had "issues" (and, likewise, Cappies born into families with father "issues," which certainly applies in my case). AND attachment style s are usually formed during infancy as a direct response to how the primary caregiver (in my generation that was usually the MOTHER) responds/reacts to the child.
All of this leading to .... The BIG Question: Has anyone here noted a correlation between Sun Signs and attachment style s or any other psychological theorems? The "avoidant attachment style " certainly seems to fit in with the Virgo tendency to be somewhat aloof/detached, and my own attachment style (not avoidant) would fit with my Sun Sign as well.
There are probably countless overlaps, but I was wondering about specific patterns or correlates noticed by anyone here.