b-vocal. unsolicited advice.

you are the person you choose to be. so choose to be the person who fulfills and brings to life the values you hold most dearly by focusing on what is truly meaningful, you will cause much real value and richness to spring forth from the life you live.

instead of jumping into conclusions and living life with judgment, give the benefit of the doubt. battling with the mind drains you, so why not let the person speak for themselves. you are the one who create your own monster. there is always something good with every person you meet.

go beyond merely appearing to be happy, and dive into the authentic joy of making a positive difference. give the best that you have to life, and you'll find each day to be even more fulfilling than the last.

being vocal doesn't mean ending up with nobody. for all great love involves great risks. if your love is stingy don't expect to receive a love that is full. someone who forgives little and keep a record or wrongs will only love little. love can never be calibrated for the true deeper meaning of it is endless.

live your life through unsolicited advice. your call.

Especially when you are a man dealing with women who are very full of themselves. You eventually have to tell them what they want to hear or else they will never feel comfortable with you. That is what I've noticed, and trust me, the women who don't want it are far and in between.

i can see your point from here but are you sure that these women are not comfortable with you at all or is it just you who's not comfortable of doing/saying what you feel? these are all assumptions, why not let them speak for themselves? that's why communication is important in a relationship. and trust that what ever you say to that person will either encourage them to grow or let them be blinded with the truth. it's their choice, you dont have any control of it anymore. some guys tend to not say anything because they think it will be pointless if the women doubted them or doesnt really believe on them, or full of themselves. but it's living life with judgment. you are not being open to love and get hurt. that's the risk of it. but what it it works? you never really know. men can also be far and in between not only women i noticed. based from my experience. it's hard but that's the way to live. by stepping out of the box. outside your comfort zone.