Call me crazy...

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Virgos are cowards. They expect you to go "rescue them" type of thing - like a damisell in distress lmao.
Flipping Virgos. (Men, flipping Virgo men)
So what. People have to get motivation some how. Like a leo looking at themselves in a mirror to a Aires lifting weights.
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So if youre willing to put up w a man who expects you to be the man , go for it- i aint saying shit. Just dont say i didnt warn you
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Virgos are cowards. They expect you to go "rescue them" type of thing - like a damisell in distress lmao.
Flipping Virgos. (Men, flipping Virgo men)
So what. People have to get motivation some how. Like a leo looking at themselves in a mirror to a Aires lifting weights.
So if youre willing to put up w a man who expects you to be the man , go for it- i aint saying shit. Just dont say i didnt warn you
We are living in simulation of gender behavior. Is it your agreement that a approach like mine is so masculine that it discredits my femininity? Or rather a stab to justify the beauty, love, and truth of such kinship?
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Tf u on about. Lmao - im just warning you that this is what theyre like , incase youre like me & not into that kind of ish. Chill woman , im trying to help here . Not judge you - sorry you couldnt appreciate it.
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Virgos are cowards. They expect you to go "rescue them" type of thing - like a damisell in distress lmao.
Flipping Virgos. (Men, flipping Virgo men)
So what. People have to get motivation some how. Like a leo looking at themselves in a mirror to a Aires lifting weights.
So if youre willing to put up w a man who expects you to be the man , go for it- i aint saying shit. Just dont say i didnt warn you
I'm curious. Call me slow, but what exactly do you mean by this?
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I mean that the Virgo man dosent act like one.
He is too insecure & he expect YOU to do all the talking so that he has a safe ground to bounce on. So if youre the type that likes to put your heart out there wout knowing the outcome of the situation , go ahead. But a Virgo guy will expect this from you , so if youre like me & you dont like to make yourself vulnerable to a guy who has barely figured out what he wants from life, step away from this guy, cause hell drive you nuts.
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Eh. I took it as a individual who has to constantly initiate w/ a V. However, its my belief this doesnt credit control. Its merely a request that is open for alterations.


I say there . he/she says there. She says ok fine. no big deal.
Ah I see. Initiating isn't too difficult for me with my Aries Sun and having a Leo Moon apparently enjoys the attention? Though I do agree with you, aside from his lack of telling me how he feels, I feel he and I balance each other's strengths and weaknesses in the relationship.
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So you agree with my initial line of argument then?
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Virgos are cowards. They expect you to go "rescue them" type of thing - like a damisell in distress lmao.
Flipping Virgos. (Men, flipping Virgo men)
So what. People have to get motivation some how. Like a leo looking at themselves in a mirror to a Aires lifting weights.
So if youre willing to put up w a man who expects you to be the man , go for it- i aint saying shit. Just dont say i didnt warn you
I'm curious. Call me slow, but what exactly do you mean by this?
I mean that the Virgo man dosent act like one.
He is too insecure & he expect YOU to do all the talking so that he has a safe ground to bounce on. So if youre the type that likes to put your heart out there wout knowing the outcome of the situation , go ahead. But a Virgo guy will expect this from you , so if youre like me & you dont like to make yourself vulnerable to a guy who has barely figured out what he wants from life, step away from this guy, cause hell drive you nuts.
It seems what you experienced is what I'm going through:
- I do most of the talking/expressing
- I'm the only one who has verbally expressed feelings, receiving no affirmations

He never asked me to be his girlfriend, and it sort of "just happened". For me to know his feelings I have to observe his actions. (But what I observe and his intentions/motivations may be completely different.) It's slowly making me confused—and some days frustrated.

Generally, I have great patience in relationships. Sometimes I wonder if he's also testing me through his actions. (He has his moon in Cancer.)

Yes. But is he opening up to you?
It's like a yoyo. Sometimes I feel he is, yet after he opens up he is two steps back.
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In any relationship, one participant ravels in their nervousness while the other remains unraveled... then nervous.
It sucks.