Cheating Virgo - What is he thinking ??

Profile picture of Sagg1010
Sagg1010
@Sagg1010
7 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 11 · Topics: 3
My messages keep disappearing so apologise if this keeps popping up

Found out my ex was cheating during pregnancy and a miscarriage

He said the past 2 years were "something that wasnt there"

He seemed really shocked when I found out, like he wasnt expecting me to know

He messaged me before i knew asking if we wanted to meet to resolve a situation that happened the night before so CLEARLY he was just going to continue playing us.

What might he be feeling or what might be going through his head ? He shows no remorse and we have had no contact since

My heart kinda hurts but nott too much because it really wasnt working out
Profile picture of LadyNeptune
LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 11076 · Posts: 35718 · Topics: 110
Posted by TomSawyer
When I used to cheat, I really didn't give a single fuck what my gf thought.

She was expendable

It was only years later that I saw myself somewhat of a piece of shit thinking "This girl did not deserve that".

Ever since that moment I kinda stopped cheating.

Now she's happily married and is pregnant/has a kid already.

God bless her.



Do you catch my drift?


And yet you post on here bout your fiance and how your fucking other women. So how does "kinda stopped' work exactly?
Profile picture of LadyNeptune
LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 11076 · Posts: 35718 · Topics: 110
Posted by Sagg1010
My messages keep disappearing so apologise if this keeps popping up

Found out my ex was cheating during pregnancy and a miscarriage

He said the past 2 years were "something that wasnt there"

He seemed really shocked when I found out, like he wasnt expecting me to know

He messaged me before i knew asking if we wanted to meet to resolve a situation that happened the night before so CLEARLY he was just going to continue playing us.

What might he be feeling or what might be going through his head ? He shows no remorse and we have had no contact since

My heart kinda hurts but nott too much because it really wasnt working out

Was he already an ex when you found out? Or where you two still together...
Profile picture of LadyNeptune
LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 11076 · Posts: 35718 · Topics: 110
Posted by TomSawyer
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by TomSawyer
When I used to cheat, I really didn't give a single fuck what my gf thought.

She was expendable

It was only years later that I saw myself somewhat of a piece of shit thinking "This girl did not deserve that".

Ever since that moment I kinda stopped cheating.

Now she's happily married and is pregnant/has a kid already.

God bless her.



Do you catch my drift?


And yet you post on here bout your fiance and how your fucking other women. So how does "kinda stopped' work exactly?


What fiance?

click to expand


IDK you tell us...

Image Not Found
Profile picture of LadyNeptune
LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 11076 · Posts: 35718 · Topics: 110
Posted by TomSawyer
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by TomSawyer
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by TomSawyer
When I used to cheat, I really didn't give a single fuck what my gf thought.

She was expendable

It was only years later that I saw myself somewhat of a piece of shit thinking "This girl did not deserve that".

Ever since that moment I kinda stopped cheating.

Now she's happily married and is pregnant/has a kid already.

God bless her.



Do you catch my drift?


And yet you post on here bout your fiance and how your fucking other women. So how does "kinda stopped' work exactly?


What fiance?



IDK you tell us...

Image Not Found

I'm not gonna tell anything.

You're accusing me, so you're the one who's gonna put out evidence.

Again, what fiance and who is she?

What is her name?

click to expand

Dude how would I know? I'm not accusing you of shit.

I'm asking.

You've posted about your fiance. The evidence is right there. Your words. Are you saying you made her up?
Profile picture of LadyNeptune
LadyNeptune
@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Comments: 11076 · Posts: 35718 · Topics: 110
Posted by TomSawyer
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by TomSawyer
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by TomSawyer
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by TomSawyer
When I used to cheat, I really didn't give a single fuck what my gf thought.

She was expendable

It was only years later that I saw myself somewhat of a piece of shit thinking "This girl did not deserve that".

Ever since that moment I kinda stopped cheating.

Now she's happily married and is pregnant/has a kid already.

God bless her.



Do you catch my drift?


And yet you post on here bout your fiance and how your fucking other women. So how does "kinda stopped' work exactly?


What fiance?



IDK you tell us...

Image Not Found

I'm not gonna tell anything.

You're accusing me, so you're the one who's gonna put out evidence.

Again, what fiance and who is she?

What is her name?


Dude how would I know? I'm not accusing you of shit.

I'm asking.

You've posted about your fiance. The evidence is right there. Your words. Are you saying you made her up?
Smfh

Alrighty, let's take this to a whole new level of retardation then

Prove that it was me who posted that 4 months ago.





click to expand

Lol you troll.

Lemme guess, next your gonna say someone else logged into your profile and posted that.
Profile picture of Sagg1010
Sagg1010
@Sagg1010
7 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 11 · Topics: 3
Posted by TomSawyer
When I used to cheat, I really didn't give a single fuck what my gf thought.

She was expendable

It was only years later that I saw myself somewhat of a piece of shit thinking "This girl did not deserve that".

Ever since that moment I kinda stopped cheating.

Now she's happily married and is pregnant/has a kid already.

God bless her.



Do you catch my drift?
not really

why spend 2 years with someone wining and dining, promising trips to his and abroad etc etc valentines day all booked to just cheat

I think he thought id never find out
Profile picture of Sagg1010
Sagg1010
@Sagg1010
7 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 11 · Topics: 3
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Sagg1010
My messages keep disappearing so apologise if this keeps popping up

Found out my ex was cheating during pregnancy and a miscarriage

He said the past 2 years were "something that wasnt there"

He seemed really shocked when I found out, like he wasnt expecting me to know

He messaged me before i knew asking if we wanted to meet to resolve a situation that happened the night before so CLEARLY he was just going to continue playing us.

What might he be feeling or what might be going through his head ? He shows no remorse and we have had no contact since

My heart kinda hurts but nott too much because it really wasnt working out

Was he already an ex when you found out? Or where you two still together...
click to expand

still together

we just booked valentines day

waste my time 2018

Profile picture of Sagg1010
Sagg1010
@Sagg1010
7 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 11 · Topics: 3
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by TomSawyer
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by TomSawyer
When I used to cheat, I really didn't give a single fuck what my gf thought.

She was expendable

It was only years later that I saw myself somewhat of a piece of shit thinking "This girl did not deserve that".

Ever since that moment I kinda stopped cheating.

Now she's happily married and is pregnant/has a kid already.

God bless her.



Do you catch my drift?


And yet you post on here bout your fiance and how your fucking other women. So how does "kinda stopped' work exactly?


What fiance?



IDK you tell us...

Image Not Found
click to expand



AYO MY GIRL IS A DETECTIVE
Profile picture of LibraLovesHim
StingTailedLibra
@LibraLovesHim
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 9 · Posts: 3545 · Topics: 253
Posted by Impulsv
I’m just honestly curious how e one girl you got the she doesn’t deserve this but not the rest. What was the difference.why was she ur changer?
I think the change was in him first, then the next girl came along wasn't cheated on. Not vice versa. They say the same when a man decides to settle, the guy decides he wants to change, the next woman in line whoever she is gets the best of him. Makes sense.
Profile picture of dewiklaessen26
Indoshorty
@dewiklaessen26
8 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Comments: 4 · Posts: 1588 · Topics: 129
Posted by Toti
I'd never judge the cheater or the cheated. We are complex being. Yes, we can be shallow and blame it all on the zodiac and bad planetary placements, but we should be fair and objectively look at the situation. I was cheated by my husband. I forgave and worked on fixing my marriage. I didn't think of myself as a victim for one moment. I did realize that I had my contribution in what he did, which also doesn't make me a pathetic submissive wife.

People cheat for many reasons, and neither makes them bad people. We enter relationships not knowing what we want, when we get it we don't know what to do with it,... Men panic during pregnancy, some people react to changes by doing something not specific to their character. Sometimes people we love don't love us back and it is ok to accept that.

How you will handle the situation is your choice. If you forgive, make sure you also forget and not keep mentioning it every time you have a disagreement. All the best!
so how did that work out trusting him must be hard? I mean I guess that it can take a year or longer. how did you fix your marriage and how did you work on yourself?
Profile picture of dewiklaessen26
Indoshorty
@dewiklaessen26
8 Years1,000+ PostsVirgo

Comments: 4 · Posts: 1588 · Topics: 129
Posted by Sagg1010
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Sagg1010
My messages keep disappearing so apologise if this keeps popping up

Found out my ex was cheating during pregnancy and a miscarriage

He said the past 2 years were "something that wasnt there"

He seemed really shocked when I found out, like he wasnt expecting me to know

He messaged me before i knew asking if we wanted to meet to resolve a situation that happened the night before so CLEARLY he was just going to continue playing us.

What might he be feeling or what might be going through his head ? He shows no remorse and we have had no contact since

My heart kinda hurts but nott too much because it really wasnt working out

Was he already an ex when you found out? Or where you two still together...
still together

we just booked valentines day

waste my time 2018

click to expand

just because a man cheats doesn't mean he will do it again and yes Virgo's are the type to have others as a back up low key if anything happens. that's more out of fear and abandonment. since I'm with my Sagittarius I've stopped doing all that sht I've learned from my mistakes. the only one I cheated on was my ex and when I was cheating I did not give a damn about my ex to be honest simply because someone else was giving me what he couldn't give me. I was cold distant and didn't want to have sex with my ex because I didn't feel attracted to him anymore.

I needed excitement my ex wasn't open to experiment together sexually, he had a lack of passion in general he was bad with money. He was abusive and he was overly jealous and possessive I felt caged to the point where I set myself free.

then when I told him he started crying and making promises he could never keep and so on a stayed a year longer but it was a waste of my time nothing changed and again I did it this time it became an addiction anything that was forbidden would attract me. so when I felt like that I decided it was time to break up because I didn't want to hurt his feelings anymore till today I have not regret setting myself free.

I do regret I didn't end the relationship the moment I felt like cheating I should have made better decisions therefore now with my Sagittarius I've made better choices.

my Sagittarius can be dominant and possessive too but he is very exciting even though I can complain sometimes it's more because I'm restless every now and then.

I'm a Virgo with Sagittarius moon and Sagittarius Ascendant 1,9,8 are my dominant houses