@marina_
8 Years
Virgo craves popularity
Do Virgos Crave Popularity and Why
Virgos are often perceived as detail-oriented and practical, but some may seek social recognition due to their desire for validation. Popularity is not a core Virgo trait, but individual tendencies can vary based on personal experiences and other astrological factors. Understanding Virgo traits helps clarify why some may pursue social status or recognition.
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My ex Virgo like to be liked because he didn't like himself.
in a company he is perceived as a good person, a man that works very hard.
he is very hard working very independent. he comes from a rich family and his parents have had a lot of material things like houses, art stuff and etc. they bought him a flat and he 'only works'.
my parents are not as rich as his. some time ago i needed to move back to their flat because i had to organise my life.
i know Virgo likes me even before he has been very jealous of me, as a dog in a manger.
like he didnt let other men touch or smile to me- even though he didnt want me.
everytime he was IN FRONT OF MY DOOR and we had a 'serious'talk he then was freaking out and didnt even notice me or ignore me next day in a company or at a job.
he has always been making me feel i needed to push more that i was not enough.
when i moved to the other country for work, i saw on fcebook he had other popular girlfriends. party girls but with 1000 likes. girls that parents were giving money, didnt have to work for that.
he chooses rich girls with family problems. because he wants to be good and give advices. girls that work hard but on the other hand party very hard.
im not like that. i dont need to prove anyone my worth.
when i started hanging out with other men after HE didnt want me - he was jealous, disturbing me.
why is that?
Posted by Awakenawarness
My ex Virgo like to be liked because he didn't like himself.Boooooom!!!!
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a lot of my friends says that he has inner problems. that inside he feels very weak thats why he is like that on the outside.
Posted by Awakenawarness
My ex Virgo like to be liked because he didn't like himself.Boooooom!!!!
a lot of my friends says that he has inner problems. that inside he feels very weak thats why he is like that on the outside.
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Yeah, I can't speak for all but for my ex..spent 4 yrs with. Realized he wasn't going to be comfortable with himself. He doesn't see it as a problem.. so ohh well. Great guy though, I learned a lot.
My Virgo male friends are kind of similar..yeah it's more than likely due to other underlying problems from within. It's really no one else's problem other than their own.
i 100% agree with you.
i didnt know a man would have such problems.
in my life before i met him i havent experienced such egoistical and selfish behaviour from men's side.
maybe because his parents have been famous kind of he thins he's someone. but that is not true.
i have been chasing him for almost 1 year.
its not only him that behaved weirdly but because of his lack of communication skills- other people have been involved as well. especially one friend. that i hate.
but its other problem.
i am moving on very nicely and very smoothly.
when we met last time - i mean last year for the 1st time since i came back to my city- one thing he asked me was about my job- if i wasnted to go back to the things i have been doing before.
nothing personal but about work.
Lol, they love keeping tabs.
Mine always tries to lure me back.
Starts off as a normal conversation than goes to "don't you just miss how we.." or something like that.
lmao
Honestly i like him and i would like to be with him if the time would pass and everyone would be mature and normal.
BUT i do not know if its possible.
I am not very strict person. I think that because of one argument or one veyr very bad screaming we can not leave people.
I know that my girl friends have different opinion. They think that relationship should be calm and nice.
For me relationships are normal when we experience different kinds of behaviour. Its natural and human to argue, to be jealous, to be nice, to be pretty, to talk, to be assertive.
I just cant stand cheating, lack of trust and doing something behind my back.
These are THREE main factors that are significant to me.
Someone can be lower than me, my hight, more skinny- doesnt matter.
With him i had very nice conversations and i liked his sense of humor.
He liked when i was happy and smiling. Because i was nice and fresh.
Other girls were jealous he put his attention on me because he perceived them only as buddies- drink or party buddies. I am who i am , i am more subtle than my other female party people. He liked it and others were jealous.
But finally nothing worked out 🙂
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I think Virgo men in general have lots of insecurities
I was trolling a dxp virgo glorified welfare recipient the other day with his inferior sexual prowess......dude got so triggered he posted this on the frontpage with a caption :
"her pussy when i mention phallic objects"
what's even worse, he got the term "phallic objects" of one of my other posts, so insecure and unoriginal. I was like LMAO @ dis dude.
yes he is this example. hes changed in the last 3 years.
became very popular in every field- work, university, friends, party. he is well known.
and he became more handsome.
his relationships usually are very short- 2-3 months.
and its him who abandons women.
but i abandoned him because i felt he was false.
Posted by Toti
I think Virgo men in general have lots of insecuritiesI was trolling a dxp virgo glorified welfare recipient the other day with his inferior sexual prowess......dude got so triggered he posted this on the frontpage with a caption :
"her pussy when i mention phallic objects"
what's even worse, he got the term "phallic objects" of one of my other posts, so insecure and unoriginal. I was like LMAO @ dis dude.
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yes i know what you mean
yes i know what you mean
God bless their poor souls. Let us pray for their salvation. bwahahahaha
i have found other topics here about Virgos and from my observations usually they are scared of fire signs.
I saw some Sag or Aries people having problems with Virgos.
I am myself an Aries. I am even younger than this Virgo but generally , from the perspective i see he is insecure.
I wanted even to benice to him and help him somehow- because he made me feel much stronger and masculine LOL ( emotions) but after his behaving i didnt help either be nice to him.
do you really need us to tell you that you don't need a relationship with this guy who wants you for your popularity?
just tell him to f-off
Posted by Toti
I think Virgo men in general have lots of insecuritiesI was trolling a dxp virgo glorified welfare recipient the other day with his inferior sexual prowess......dude got so triggered he posted this on the frontpage with a caption :
"her pussy when i mention phallic objects"
what's even worse, he got the term "phallic objects" of one of my other posts, so insecure and unoriginal. I was like LMAO @ dis dude.
yes i know what you mean
Lord forgive me for having to do this to your thread but there are some things you should know about @Mr_Pinchy
Firstly, He is a habitual harasser of women on the site, multiple complaints about him are floating around of him just being a creeper. Another user posted a message on the front page and he tried to be cute by be a human crumb and managing to mention "phallic objects" in a completely non-sexual picture. The poster took offense, I called his B^tchass out lol.:
Exhibit A:
Secondly, just say no, lol like literally cozy up to him and you too can end up having mawkish PMs in your inbox by like noon.
Exhibit B:
Thirdly, if you are not careful he will start being a perv at a moments notice.
Exhibit C:
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Dude, this literally proves my point on how unoriginal you are, that you took "phallic" off my post, som your claim of revisioning history on the first page is a flat out lie.
As for the two other pictures, no harm with both recipients, so idk what's it to you. Multiple complaints is just a lie, like this whole post is a charade of yours.
Indicative of the weakness of your argument to bring up unrelated things up. Game's over brah, you got nuffin but things already resolved by all parties concerned.
This is why you fail at life. Because you cannot construct a proper argument. And because you lie.
You should get a clue. They BOTH disliked your comments and expressed as much, one even said that you used to be sweet but anyway I have done my public service regarding you, crumb.
Ugh idk from who or why i got a like then on that post. Think it was squishy_marshallow, pretty sure it was. She also probably knows me enough to know it wasn't a pass at her like you made it out to be but just trolling.
So that's one down, for the 19yo gemini idgaf, that was trolling her on her hideous phallic shaped purse and you also took it as making a pass.
Dude you just don't know what's happening around you. As for halalbae, the only that ever got any pm's...no hard feelings there, 95% sure, so get a clue welfare receiving dolt.
First of all... Who told you he was receiving welfare?
Oh... That's right... Nobody did.
Second... Why is receiving welfare an insult?
Elitist misogynistic ass.
LMAO @ dis wench
He is a community organizer, most likely funded from a slush fund taken from people's taxes . Woman, get a fucking clue, you and me, we ain't on the same level of knowledge.
i do not wish to talk to you, ever again, i told you that once already.
You didn't have to respond.
I can talk to you all I want, and you can, too. But you also have the option of not talking to me, which you've repeatedly indicated that you favor. I'm not forcing you to do what you don't want.
Stop making ignorant accusations based on emotional decisions of some deluded sense of liberal superiority and we'll get along just fine.
Also, for the record, i called him a welfare receiving dolt because he is a screwup. He keeps misrepresenting things in order to save face because he knows he gets rekt in any other way. And you're the idiot that keeps defending him after he bows out.
You are still talking to me. You want to get along? Then figure out who the ignorant one is here. I don't even care to get along with you, though... Seeing these receipts pop up and interacting with your slime-ass.
yadayadayada cry me a river over those "receipts". LMAO
I'm not the one here trying to save face... That should be blatantly obvious to you. But it's all good. You're just a lost cause. Have a nice day.
I don't think that's enough tears. Try harder. 😆
It takes all the maturity I can muster not to oink at overweight Virgo types
Not that I care if people are fat but they get so triggered
Only if they are obnoxious, which they rarely visibly are because overweight people wear a smile as armor. I feel sorry for them, must be a horrible life, chugging a semi inanimate mass of rings of fat around your body with you, so i try to refrain.
This coming from a guy that stalked a dxpers (DJ's) gf on FB in hopes of winning her over and then cried he doesn't give consent when the dude wanted to post screenshots.
This coming from a guy that stalked a dxpers (DJ's) gf on FB in hopes of winning her over and then cried he doesn't give consent when the dude wanted to post screenshots.
Is that how you remember it?
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"i repeat i do not consent, i repeat i do not consent" LMAO 😆
This coming from a guy that stalked a dxpers (DJ's) gf on FB in hopes of winning her over and then cried he doesn't give consent when the dude wanted to post screenshots.
Is that how you remember it?
"i repeat i do not consent, i repeat i do not consent" LMAO 😆
Is that how you remember it?
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LOL @ the cognitive dissonance of dis guy. Just LOL. I also remember you tried that while being short and whats worse, bald at 25 something. LOL
The cap is covering your bald spot at 10? 😆
Talk to me dirty.
Talk to me like I'm premium Argentine beef meat
Premium Argentine beef isn't bald like you at 25 something but has glorious hair.
Talk to me dirty.
Talk to me like I'm premium Argentine beef meat
Premium Argentine beef isn't bald like you at 25 something but has glorious hair.
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Ah the two cancer women trapped in ixion's and arkansassy's bodies comfort each other's bald spots. How homely. 😆
I only know two that are like that.
I also apologize for coming in here to slay a troll without answering your OP...
You're imagining things again, like you were imagining i was hitting on anyone. LMAO you got rekt af.
You're so weak even that even with support of 3 ppl you showed insecurity on the front page with that comment to the rabbit. Mr.Insecure. 😆 Isn't a black gal show called Insecure.....seeeing you're a cancer woman, i bet you relate?
I also apologize for coming in here to slay a troll without answering your OP...
You're imagining things again, like you were imagining i was hitting on anyone. LMAO you got rekt af.
Is that how you remember it?
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Yes baldy, then you came and you got rekt too. It's all here, no need for charades.
I also apologize for coming in here to slay a troll without answering your OP...
You're imagining things again, like you were imagining i was hitting on anyone. LMAO you got rekt af.
Is that how you remember it?
Yes baldy, then you came and you got rekt too. It's all here, no need for charades.
Is that how you remember it?
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LMAO, when out of arguments, stick to repeat like a mindless drone. 😆
I also apologize for coming in here to slay a troll without answering your OP...
You're imagining things again, like you were imagining i was hitting on anyone. LMAO you got rekt af.
You're so weak even that even with support of 3 ppl you showed insecurity on the front page with that comment to the rabbit. Mr.Insecure. 😆 Isn't a black gal show called Insecure.....seeeing you're a cancer woman, i bet you relate?
Look its a ghost.
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Bruh that's just the light your bald spot reflects back into the environment. 😆
Mmhm...right...well anywhoo.
Remember, if you move your head fast, the light will move fast too. Don't piss your pants. 😆
My god, how did you ever become so witty?
You should be glad you are the recipient of it, considering i blessed you yesterday with nice words like "phallic objects" or something like that for you to use on your own.
I suppose imitation is the greatest flattery, just you don't have to be a sideways cancer woman in admitting it.
LOL @ the cognitive dissonance of dis guy. Just LOL. I also remember you tried that while being short and whats worse, bald at 25 something. LOL
He isn't bald.
Low brow shit, bruh.
This coming from a guy that stalked a dxpers (DJ's) gf on FB in hopes of winning her over and then cried he doesn't give consent when the dude wanted to post screenshots.
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I suggest you not bring up someone that made you flinch, as a means to try and make fun of someone.
LOL @ the cognitive dissonance of dis guy. Just LOL. I also remember you tried that while being short and whats worse, bald at 25 something. LOL
He isn't bald.
Low brow shit, bruh.
This coming from a guy that stalked a dxpers (DJ's) gf on FB in hopes of winning her over and then cried he doesn't give consent when the dude wanted to post screenshots.
I suggest you not bring up someone that made you flinch, as a means to try and make fun of someone.
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I do what i want.
LOL @ the cognitive dissonance of dis guy. Just LOL. I also remember you tried that while being short and whats worse, bald at 25 something. LOL
He isn't bald.
Low brow shit, bruh.
This coming from a guy that stalked a dxpers (DJ's) gf on FB in hopes of winning her over and then cried he doesn't give consent when the dude wanted to post screenshots.
I suggest you not bring up someone that made you flinch, as a means to try and make fun of someone.
I do what i want.
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Sure, you do. Like calling a 19 year old a baby, and in the next breathe talking about how you get drunk and piss on your neighbors Audis.
Yea, you cool, fam.
Sure, you do. Like calling a 19 year old a baby, and in the next breathe talking about how you get drunk and piss on your neighbors Audis.
Yea, you cool, fam.
hey, it was raining...the rain washed it away! 😆
Sure, you do. Like calling a 19 year old a baby, and in the next breathe talking about how you get drunk and piss on your neighbors Audis.
Yea, you cool, fam.
hey, it was raining...the rain washed it away! 😆
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Yea, kinda like how getting a new username, washes away other shit, right?
hey, it was raining...the rain washed it away! 😆
Yea, kinda like how getting a new username, washes away other shit, right?
I never hid who i am and again, you're bringing up stuff that has since been resolved between people's concerned, so.....
hey, it was raining...the rain washed it away! 😆
Yea, kinda like how getting a new username, washes away other shit, right?
I never hid who i am and again, you're bringing up stuff that has since been resolved between people's concerned, so.....
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Did I even mention you?
I am simply pointing out something that is another good example of what you described.
hey, it was raining...the rain washed it away! 😆
Yea, kinda like how getting a new username, washes away other shit, right?
I never hid who i am and again, you're bringing up stuff that has since been resolved between people's concerned, so.....
And you're not doing the same?
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He called you an autist until he went away? I apologize if i didn't catch any warming in those relationships, but somehow i doubt you two cozied up a lot considering you tried to steal his gf, talk behind his back etc etc
Did I even mention you?
I am simply pointing out something that is another good example of what you described.
I changed my username, your post was adressed to me, it's evident how i could have taken it as meaning me.
Be more clear in the future then if you do not wish such misunderstandings to happen.
Did I even mention you?
I am simply pointing out something that is another good example of what you described.
I changed my username, your post was adressed to me, it's evident how i could have taken it as meaning me.
Be more clear in the future then if you do not wish such misunderstandings to happen.
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"I do what I want."
you and halababe are cozied up now?
LMAO at this putting words in my mouth. Dude, you're pathetic.
"I do what I want."
So, lemme get this straight, you garble some text, not being clear what's the meaning of this, when i answer to what i think it means, you go on a knee jerk reaction of what..."it wasn't meant to you" and "i do what i want".
Here we are at flattery again...
"I do what I want."
So, lemme get this straight, you garble some text, not being clear what's the meaning of this, when i answer to what i think it means, you go on a knee jerk reaction of what..."it wasn't meant to you" and "i do what i want".
Here we are at flattery again...
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Sarcasm isn't your forte, is it?
Sarcasm isn't your forte, is it?
/yawn
you and halababe are cozied up now?
LMAO at this putting words in my mouth. Dude, you're pathetic.
Daydreaming all thoughout lunch about you 🙂
Morning scene, I'd shave in the bathroom, you'd sit on the large marble sink next to me dressed only in one of my blue shirts and your panties.
We'd talk, mess around and when I'd be done with you would inspect if the shave is smooth enough for morning playtime.
Then I'd start kissing you on the palms and hands, on the belly, on the thighs, slowly carress you around the hips and move all the way up to your lady parts to wish them a good morning too in person.
And then you'd get off I'd take you to bed and do it all over again. Have a nice day byootiful, you're the stuff pedestals are made from.
It's a crappy weather day but I'm thinking of you anyway, thinking of you makes me feel sweet like I just ate premium argentine beef meat, cuz you so sly. I wanna fly to you, look what you make me do, I think you're great but plz don't hate it theres too many pms it's just late.
"Dude, you're pathetic"
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Dude, you don't even have the balls to go out on a limb like that. Don't hate on the courageous.
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Hello,
i just wanted to ask why all of the Virgos i have met in my life have been prone to popularity?
Is it a Virgo trait?
My Virgo ex dumped me because i was not popular - i was an ordinary woman- but in some months he became interested again because he saw i was getting attention from prominent people at my job.
We finally havent been together. I am not a person who thinks is very popular and needs to have 1000 likes on facebook or instagram. He does it in purpose - not to be forgotten or left in a hierarchy or a company.
For me its strange, its weird. When about business issues or other stuff he is 1st to give advice but then he analises and observs people in terms of being popular.
He chooses girlfriends like that as well. I didnt know it i saw it one year ago. They were the same zodiac sign ( stalker me) but popular in their environments.
He made me prove myself being popular. He made me work on myself ( In a good terms) but also i was stressed that if i didnt reach some point of popularity or work he would miss me out or something.
I think he is a j** rk. Even 3-4 months ago i thought that i wanted to come back to prove myself i want to be ok, popular and etc. NO. I think i dont need to prove anyone my worth.