Dating Virgo guy - went cold/help??

3 months ago I started seeing a co worker who is 37yr virgo,( I'm 30 cap) he had tried to ask me out twice both times I said no but I liked him a lot. Finally we go out to a concert and that night we had too much alcohol and got intimate. I stayed over for the entire weekend. For the next 3 months we hung out, text a lot - I spend all my weekends with him at his house. I gave him his space on days we wouldn't hang, wouldn't bother him did my own thing. He asked him if I liked him I said yes, I asked if he did he joked and said no and I replied I know, then said I can't read his mind. Beginning of sept. he ask if I wanted to go on vacation we went on a trip to southern cal. He was very touchy during this trip which he normally doesn't show any affection. I told him I liked him again, he really didn't say anything. For the past 3 weeks I noticed a change, he wouldn't ask what I was doing the rest of the day and stopped hanging out on the weekdays - weekends I'd still be over at his house. Finally I asked him wassup and he said he didn't know then I pressed it. He said "we are hanging out, having fun, let's just see where this goes." My response was "ok I'm having fun too but wasn't sure if you were." He gave me a hug and make a joke something about things will be ok if I doing keep losing money on sports bets( honestly I was so nervous it was a blur) that's how we left it. Got a text from him today, pretty normal crap.

I'm confused at what happened? I didn't mean to come on strong but i was confused on where we stood especially after he went cold. Now I'm afraid I completely ruined it or atleast now I know we are just friends?? Totally looking back at all the mixed signals, I never was the first to text or ask to hang out - I believe if a guys wants to see you he"ll make the first move. I'm just in disbelief at how things are, are we still taking it slow or done? He is really into horoscopes but I'm just looking from advice- good or bad.

Background - he is divorced 2 yrs ago his wife cheated on him, only married a few months. I ended a 7 yr relationship this year.

Oh the waiting game..... Brings back memories..... lol. All you can do is let him know how you feel and pray that after he's done analyzing the whole situation, he sees youre a good fit. Plus remember he might think its his fault his past relationship ended and must be doubting himself. Time, is all virgos need. Were supposed to be the ones that push them to loosen up, Virgos really do carry the world on their shoulders. Just time, trust and alot of patience. My virgo used to hide everytime we took a step into a more committed relationship. Gets annoying in my opinion. But if you feel strongly , ill say it again PATIENCE.

Oh and read the post underneath this one "aint nothing more coveted then a virgo" Its a must read ^.^

YUP!!! A virgo man comes with LOTS of patience!!