Did I say/do something wrong?

Hi guys, I need some insight please.

I'm a freelancer and I work with different people on every job. Last week I spent three full days with a bunch of people whom I've worked with three times now. On the last three jobs, we didn't get to hang out much but this time around, we were talking and joking all day long.

There was one guy in particular that stood out. Both of us had a lot to talk about and exchanged phone numbers. A few days after that I saw something on Facebook that I thought might interest him so I forwarded it to him.

Conversations took off from then on. It went on and on every day for a week from morning all the way to bed time. He told me a lot about himself, a lot of sad stories, asking me about work advice, so on and so forth. Then came Friday morning where he woke up late to go to work because he'd gone out drinking the night before.

I told him to go in after lunch and explain. He said he would but he wish he didn't have to because he desperately needed me to pamper him and hold him. The whole day went on with him asking what time he could come by and asking where I was and what I was going. This would be our first "date" and sleepover.

At 7pm I texted and asked if he was done with work. He answered he was but was too tired, he was going home. "Sorry too tired". That was it.

The next morning he texted and said he was so tired, he left his keys dangling on the front door till that morning. Naturally I tried to get him to meet with me but he evaded, the whole day. He was still texting me back n forth but he was distant all the way to bedtime. I said I wish you were here and he just replied "see you in my dreams" and sent me two kisses.

And today he texted me good morning (it's a Sunday) and that he has to go into the office for awhile later. And then nothing else. The whole day. I asked if he'd like to meet for dinner, he didn't reply. He usually replies real quick.

I've never dated a Virgo. Is this typical of them or is this him not wanting to do this anymore? If so is it something I said or did?

I mean it was super hot the whole week and then suddenly nothing. Completely nothing. Please help.

Posted by confusingconfused
are you sure you are dating?

sounds like you are just fwb 😕

Oh we're not dating. Definitely not yet. We haven't even had our first date. First time we actually met and properly got to know each other was during last weekend's job. Which to me is even more strange. Why is he disappearing before it even started?