Do Virgo females come back?

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iamlanaxxx
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9 Years

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In April, I relocated to Korea to be with my partner as she had one year left of uni to complete and we met in my country while she was on a visa. So, obviously before her visa expired, I decided to apply for a Korean visa.

We had lived together in Australia for a year. But we had a 3 month period where we had a long distance relationship before I moved to Korea.

That 3 month period was a difficult time for both of us, to the point where I broke the relationship off.

Fast forward to now and I’ve been in Korea for 3 months and it’s been so difficult having to adjust to life here. Coming from a western culture background, obviously there are some big differences.

I told her that I was unhappy here and that I really missed home so I made the decision to go back to Australia. I told her I could always come back after a couple of months or I could wait for her in Australia as we decided she’d apply for a partner visa.

However she was so hurt by the decision that she gave me the ultimatum of “you’re either going back to Australia now and we’re ending the relationship or you’re staying here and we’ll work through this.”

Our relationship in the past month hasn’t been easy... just arguments as usual. Her sister has recently moved in with us which was a difficult enough process trying to find a suitable apartment for the 3 of us to live in. But damn... family dynamics. For me, it’s been hell since her 20 year old sister has moved in. And well you know what they say... two’s company, three’s a crowd.

My partner is a bit of an emotional drunk (scorpio moon). A couple of weeks ago the 3 of us got into a heated argument. When my partner and I were arguing, her sister tried to stop us. And when my partner and her sister got into an argument, I tried to stop them. At one point my partner slapped me in the face, I was taken back a bit.

Anyway since that little dilemma between the 3 of us, I’ve found it hard to move on from what had happened. To me, I felt like our relationship had reached a low but I still loved my partner very much and was willing to forgive her. We are pretty forgiving people, my partner and I. But we are also pretty critical. Her sun sign obviously a Virgo. My sun sign is Pisces with a Virgo moon.

I don’t want to end the relationship but with her ultimatum and my flight coming up in a week, I find myself at a crossroads. I really feel like I need some space and time and feel it is something she needs also but I’m so worried about losing her if I do decide to get on that plane.

I know she’s angry and hurt that I’m leaving as she has told me before she really wanted me to stay because she needs me here. But I just don’t understand her ultimatum and why she said she can’t wait for me if I do decide to go home. I really hated having to rely on her for me to be happy as I had nothing and no one in Korea but her. But why would she give up so easily? Why would she throw away our future plans? She has told me a few times that I was her everything so I just don’t get it.

Last night while intoxicated she said we’re really over this time and that we’re done. I tried to talk to her but it was hard to get through. I just wanna know if she’ll come back or if she’ll ever think rationally about this.
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iamlanaxxx
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9 Years

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Posted by virgoOPPP

i'm sorry but why would anyone slap a Virgo moon?

i think it's more her culture than anything else. she sounds scarily tyrannical tbh. what are her other placements?


She was super wasted at the time and I said to her that “you never listen to me.”

Not sure if its much help but...

Hers:

Sun - virgo

Moon - scorpio

Mercury - libra

Venus - virgo

Mars - libra

Jupiter - sagittarius

Saturn - pisces

Uranus - capricorn

Neptune - capricorn

Pluto - scorpio

AS - libra

And mine are...

Sun - pisces

Moon - virgo

Mercury - pisces

Venus - aries

Mars - gemini

Jupiter - leo

Saturn - aquarius

Uranus - capricorn

Neptune - capricorn

Pluto - scorpio

AS - pisces