Virgo lady went from all talkative.... to silence

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Ghost20 on Tuesday, July 16, 2019 and has 8 replies.

Why a Virgo Woman May Become Silent

A Virgo woman may withdraw into silence when overwhelmed or feeling unappreciated. Her quietness often indicates a need for space to process emotions or to regain balance. Understanding her mood shifts can help improve communication and strengthen your relationship.

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

She said she was busy so just wait for her to text you.

But it was just a first date though right?

You’ve did what you needed by reaching out. Wait for her response.

I’ve had weeks between first and second dates.

Pick up a couple more girls to date and juggle 😁

Then you won’t be so worried about her.

Just don’t tell her that 🤪

Everyone likes someone who isn’t waiting by the phone.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

She's busy with her family trip. Think of it this way, you'd be mad if you were on a trip with her and she's glued to her phone instead of interracting.

Hit her up once she gets back from the trip and if she's interested she'll be available for date #2. Until then, patience young padawan learner.

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@LostinmyMind11
15 Years10,000+ Posts

Ok I'm gonna go with something else besides the obvious busy with a trip and kids.

She probably realized she was being overly talkative and msging you and she backed off...not a bad thing. She doesn't want you to have the impression she's desperate or anything. I tend to get like this myself...like whoa, I'm being too much right now and need to slow it down. Majority of guys don't like a lot of talk and msges ... especially long ass ones.

I think you're fine here and pick up when she gets back from the trip.

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@ChiPri0815
7 Years

I Definitely agree, i'm a virgo female and i'll say its a complete myth with the hot and cold thing, if we're upset we may need a couple days to gather our thoughts and let you know. But from what you're telling me it just appears she is busy with her kids and just enjoying time with them. I would wait til she comes back and text her something simple like "hey how was your trip? did you guys have fun?" and gauge her emotion through the text =)