Do virgos regret their decisions?

I'm a cappy girl. We were good friends from college and kept in touch online. At one point he told me he liked me. He said he wanted nothing more but never said 'why' he wanted nothing more. He said he thought I was pretty, that he was attracted to me, and we have lots in common. So we never 'met' up or talked on the phone. I respected his decision (though I was naturally upset) and we remained friends online. If ever the topic of 'why' he wanted nothing more came up, he would be really rude and evasive. So we maintained a strange friendship for years where we wouldn't talk about the past.

Recently he told me he fell in love with someone who did not like him in return. He didn't know her long. He says his experience (her not returning his feelings) has 'destroyed' him. He then said this was 'karma' because he felt he mistreated me, that he hurt me (which he did, I felt a lot for him). We had an emotional talk in which we both agreed it was best not to talk to one another, we both said we were sorry, bid goodbye and said it was time to move on. This was over a month ago.

He decided to contact me again recently, out of the blue, and apologise AGAIN. He said he was still sure about his decision about 'us' not working out. At this stage - I have let things go and moved on, it sounded to me like he was convincing himself more than me. I want to make clear: he judged me from afar without really getting to know me in person. But I made my peace with that.

Why would a virgo repeat himself after everything is said and done? Does he feel guilty?
Is he testing the waters to see where I'm at just to keep his options open (rebound girl)?

Would love to hear what a virgoan thinks

Ok... I do think he's both convincing himself that he shouldn't be in a relationship
with yu & he's testing the waters. Virgos don't kno how to interpret their feelings
sometimes because they think with their heads, not their hearts. I thinks he's been
considering being with yu for a while now, but he doubts it'll work out for Watever
reason [idk]. If yu think its a rebound relationship DON'T F*CK WITH IT! My rebound
relationships never last & I always make the rebound fall in love rite before I try to
jump ship; it never fails !

How did the "situation" happen in the begging? Did yu tell him yu had feelings for him?
Did yu chase him? Did he come off detached? - this will help us answer yu ?s a lot
easier.

JazsexyAzz- I told him I had v strong feelings he might have gotten scared. I was probably 'easy' 'cos I was honest and upfront with him, he did think he was the bees knees back then, he's a bit more humble now tho still not enough. He did come off detached yup.

I replied to him and said to him his guilt and decisions were his own so he has to take responsibility for consequences and leave me out of it, it doesnt involve me anymore

I hate to say it, but yu gotta play games with virgos [i hate it but it is wat it is].
They lik straight forward ppl, but NOT wen it comes to emotions. Emotions are
scary as hell & depending on the virgo, they'll use it to their advantage.

If yu want him back, let him chase yu for a Lil bit. Answer every other call/txt, chill
with him, but keep it strictly platonic until you've played long enough. Yu sending him
the guilty msg probably crushed him [my ex did this to me 3days ago]. Now I'm stuck
between chasing him & leaving him be. Because I know for a fact he's done, I'm gonna
chase his ass lmao. The saying," can't see the forest from the trees" describes us to the
T. We're so worried about the few imperfections of our potential mate that we never notice
how the good out weighs the bad until its too late. Like I said before, play the game for a Lil
bit then he'll act the way yu want him to because hell appreciate yu so much more. It gives him
time to analyze everything with his emotions lik he should...

JazSexyAzz - Yeh I realized I have to play games. But thats not the kind of man I want or need. He didnt play games with this other girl he told me about. He's lost me and I made sure he knows his guilt is his own problem and that saying sorry to me doesnt solve anything anymore. Im gonna make sure i'm happy and look my best if he sees me. He also knows that I am moving on and looking at other people, which is probably why he decided to get in touch again so quickly - test the waters, see where i'm at.

They always say cappies and virgoans go well together. I'm so puzzled why it wouldnt work out here. His moon is conjunct my sun within 5 degrees, might explain why he's feeling emotional.

JazSexy, you sound like my sister. She likes challenges and nothing that comes too easy. Its why the Caps get tossed to the side(they express their feelings too early) and probably why she went from a ltr with a Scorpio to a Taurus. Both guys definitely challenged her, with her wanting to crack them open.