Does the virgo man want friendship

I have been friends with this virgo guy for about a year. Initially he came in strong but didn't pay much attention to him as I was recovering from a divorce, still kept him around to know him better. Now I am very much interested in him but he seems to have pulled back. Whenever I try to kiss him he responds and anytime I want to see him he is available to see me, But he never seems to initiate anything. I don't know what he wants and it's driving me crazy...

Any help please am a scorpio.

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I have made him aware of how I feel... telling him literally that I am interested in him, but he didnt address it and still behaves like it didn't happen, in trying to find out if he will change after i told him, I still try to kiss him he responds and still pay him visits he welcomes me anytime and I even know his schedule....

I can't seem to wrap my head around his behaviour.

Could it be he just want friendship and doesn't know how to tell me??

OK, I'll be the blunt one.

If I were the guy in this situation, the way you've described it:

1. I was totally in to you at first, and you blew me off (playing games, putting me on the backburner) so I lost interest emotionally.

2. You came back later, and I still find you sexually attractive, so of course I'll respond. But I'm not opening myself up emotionally again... last time I did that you hurt me, and I'm nothing if not a quick learner.

In this situation, if the girls wants me to open myself to her emotionally again, she's going to have to prove to me, without a shadow of a doubt, that it's safe and she's worth it. Because for the most part, once I've been hurt and I've lost interest emotionally... it's not coming back.

Thanks for the info.