dom/sub/versatile virgo...?

Oooooh well something filthy for you to get your teeth into.

When it comes to sexual style s, I'd like you to tell me about how you consider yourself to be. I know the sign of service ultimately make you think that Virgoan's are generally submissive in bed, but I was wondering if this is really the case?

The Virguy I like seems to exudes a sexual aggression that I hope manifests itself in a dominant attitude in the bedroom...

Would anyone like to comment?

I'm pretty much dominant, but I have no problem when the woman takes the lead. I rather enjoy it.

So I'd say we are versatile, and like it's been mentioned in jest before, the idea of being raped is quite appealing, hahahaha.

I'm dominating...No means yes, and yes means yes. When she says stop, I don't stop, and i go faster and harder. If she's on top, I still call the shots. She moves, and i force, so I never allow myself to just flop like a robot. I don't care about reaching the climax because if somebody was to get the clothes off me then that person deserves a reward, and they will get what they want unless they aren't much about long plowing and more about short burst. I don't respond to "do this" or "do that". What matters most to me, which applies to all things in life, is the passion and effort that is put into the activity.


Virgos are naturally aggressive, but they hold back on speific people because they don't want themselves to be thought as sexual masichost because in their minds it is perverted of them to be expressing themselves in such a way, but if you are one of the people they are comfortable with then you got yourself one extremely kinky person...thats if you can get him to have sex with you.

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
I don't care about reaching the climax because if somebody was to get the clothes off me then that person deserves a reward, and they will get what they want unless they aren't much about long plowing and more about short burst.

Yeah, I forgot to mention this.

I'm all about pleasing the woman. My climax is null and void, her climax is everything.

Posted by sorti-fantastic poney
I'm dominating...No means yes, and yes means yes. When she says stop, I don't stop, and i go faster and harder. If she's on top, I still call the shots. She moves, and i force, so I never allow myself to just flop like a robot. I don't care about reaching the climax because if somebody was to get the clothes off me then that person deserves a reward, and they will get what they want unless they aren't much about long plowing and more about short burst. I don't respond to "do this" or "do that". What matters most to me, which applies to all things in life, is the passion and effort that is put into the activity.


Virgos are naturally aggressive, but they hold back on speific people because they don't want themselves to be thought as sexual masichost because in their minds it is perverted of them to be expressing themselves in such a way, but if you are one of the people they are comfortable with then you got yourself one extremely kinky person...thats if you can get him to have sex with you.

Well damn. If my virguy wasn't right in front of me, I'd think he wrote this. I tease him about being a little freak,but I totally enjoy it. He's a great teacher too.

My virgo guy doesn't seem to care to much about having sex. I mean, when we're having it, it's all like you all said up there - it's GREAT!

Just, we've had a go of it once in the last two weeks. I tried talking to him about it, but he didn't have too much to say on the topic...

Do you all have lower sex drives? I know mine is a little over the top sometimes, but I haven't been demanding it either. I'm not sure what to do?

hummm that sounds crazy to me satori but after thinking about it your right but its not bc were not aggressive its bc we are to aggressive when it comes to sex. Some women have broken up with me bc we had to much sex i'm still aggressive but now i just let the women lead sometimes so she won 't feel like she is being used for sex. I heard the same thing about scorpio men after a well they stop being aggressive maybe this is why like me hmmmm who knows thats my reason.

^^^ Main reason, most women see that many virgos try their best at pleasing them in the sack, but they can't do that any time else where.


Besides, Satori knocked a thump on my head. Most virgos usually burn and crash with taurus...Actually most fixed signs kind of fail with their own mutual signs...If you want to generalize.

Aqua and gemini are always fighting because of gemini's need to flirt and be so changing.
Leos are always trying to control the sag's freedom loving personality.
Scoprio trys their best at controlling the mind, body and soul of the pisces.
Taurus attempts to create the virgo within the image they want the virgo to become.

Although i'm over-generalizing, but these are some of the MAJOR reasons why it shatters.


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To answer this question

"Do you all have lower sex drives? I know mine is a little over the top sometimes, but I haven't been demanding it either. I'm not sure what to do?"

Well, like every man, I have a normal sex drive at first, but I can become overbearing with sex as the relationship progresses but I learned not to that and learned to keep it at a good minimum of several times a week, so my gal and i can enjoy other things than a 10 to 20 minute session of sex.

I guess if a virgo finds himself beginning to turn the relationship into something that is extremely sexual then their insecurity will force them to stop the physical activity they are having with their lover, so the lover won't start thinking that its harming the relationship, but as their opposite pisces, they tend to do things for their lover without actually consulting it with them, which leaves the girlfriend or boyfriend wondering why they became so aloof all of a sudden. You should really force him to explain himself why he made himself do so or at least say that its okay...MOST VIRGOS NEED VERBAL CONFRONTATION, which probably explains tubbys response to them not being so passionate, but she's wrong in several ways, but its her perspective so whatever.

Yeah my home girl and other women i know who date scorpio men say the same thing I have scorpio rising so their reason could be the same but virgos and scorpio are very similar sexually the difference is u can sex how sexual a scorpio is virgo not so much unless u look deep into us. Virgo women look like they are not into sex ether but now I just assume they are all freaks and im always right lol same for us virgo guys lol.

Satori, I read on that cafe-astrology site that the sexual tension between people is with the venus-mars placements. If your venus is trine with your lovers mars then the sex should be magnetic and its vise-versa for your man. Yet if his venus isn't trine with your mars then you are more likely to fall out of the passion quicklier as from what they say...Its been away since i've read that so you can look it up.

Supposibily the main reason there are charts is to give a deeper look into the person at how they perform in all aspects in life and if your good at comparing charts then you would find it much more easier for you to pin-points problems and yatta yattta...

Ex:

1. If you have a water sign sun, such as scorpio, but your main chart is filled with a great deal amount of air placement, and you meet a taurus who is an earth sign, but he has a great deal amount of fire placements with his chart, and you two were to meet, it would be an instant sexual curiosity that would end very shortly...

This type of attraction is the "What could have" sort of attraction.

BUT!

2. If you have a water sign, such as scoprio, but your main chart is filled with a great deal amount of air signs, and you meet a taurus who is an earth sign, but he has a great deal amount of AIR placements within his chart, and you two met, it would not only have sexual attraction but sexual understanding and a bond that doesn't involve sex...

Something that i learned from this God forsaken place...Alright back to work.

"I guess if a virgo finds himself beginning to turn the relationship into something that is extremely sexual then their insecurity will force them to stop the physical activity they are having with their lover, so the lover won't start thinking that its harming the relationship, but as their opposite pisces, they tend to do things for their lover without actually consulting it with them, which leaves the girlfriend or boyfriend wondering why they became so aloof all of a sudden"

That might be it - I mean, it makes some sense. He and I were having a great night and I asked him flat out if he wanted to "get it on" but he said that he wouldn't feel right about it because he couldn't stay over that night. He isn't too comfortable talking about "sex" anything, but he seems very comfortable with whatever he's doing when he's actually doing it.

It can't be a crime to want him more, but I fear I hurt his feelings or something by confronting him. He said I was making him feel kinda bad about it, I assured him that wasn't my intention, just to talk about it, but he completely clammed up.

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That might be it - I mean, it makes some sense. He and I were having a great night and I asked him flat out if he wanted to "get it on" but he said that he wouldn't feel right about it because he couldn't stay over that night. He isn't too comfortable talking about "sex" anything, but he seems very comfortable with whatever he's doing when he's actually doing it.

Many virgos are extremely conservative, and they may say that they aren't because in their mind they rather "commit the act" rather than "speak of a possible one".

It can't be a crime to want him more, but I fear I hurt his feelings or something by confronting him. He said I was making him feel kinda bad about it, I assured him that wasn't my intention, just to talk about it, but he completely clammed up.

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Well i have to admit, when i first started to plowing (>=D), and I was usually very confident with what i did, so i decided to say some crazy things to spice it up, and i remember my ex laughing and telling me that "I'm so _____", so i frozed up and stopped, but that was in the beginning...I've eased up over the years, haha.

(^^^^ Ian, heres some good evidence in case we ever discuss another argument with my love affairs...)

Although a virgo may not look like they are sensitive to verbalization, they ususally are.

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"Scoprio trys their best at controlling the mind, body and soul of the pisces."

🙂 aint that the truth

Haven't heard from you in a short while. How have you been seavixen 😄

oh boy! i hope the virguy i'm digging is a total freak in the sack, and from what sorti says, i hope the sex only increases over time! that's excellent news for someone like me! well, if it ever gets that far anyway...

Yeah...I have to admit the guys is a HUNK.

Hahaha, oh nice, now we can really get into detail about this topic...*dun dun dun*

Haha, yeah this sort of stuff does bring back some very good memories as well haha. *Smirk*

I like the new picture seavixen 😉 Looking good.

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Are there any other Virgos that use this time to just be able to let loose and release some of the emotional tension, not just sexual?

I dont need sexual activity to release emotional tension, but if a woman pokes fun at my sensivity then her ass isn't going to see anything further from me. If a virgo ever reveals his vulnerable side then that means you are golden so don't ruin the only chance he gives you because if you do such a thing to him he'll lock himself up and leave with you guessing what you did wrong, but i find it better to tell them straight-forward than walk away. 😄

Maybe its just the fire thats in my chart, but ah well. I would like to see any reactions from the other guys.

so with me its complicated. Kind of. I enjoy having a lot of sex. when i have a boyfriend I pretty much want to at least once a day. I love mornings and late night sexy time.

I will only provoke it a little and if the guy doesn't take it from there im extremely disappointed but I will hold it in and let it go. So yea im dominant in the ways of perusing it. But as for in the act, I REALLY prefer feeling used or treated like a prostitute, but i want praise for it also. and only if its someone I trust.

Then there are times when I feel superior sexually to the guy and i will run the show...and thats when I get the most compliments but its just not as fun.. or rather It just doesn't physically feel as good.