Experience with a Virgo man.....I am so confused.

I'll keep this short- I was seeing a Virgo man for about a year; off and on. He was in the process of being separated from his wife. We had our fling; I guess if that's what you can call it. Suddenly he just backed off. I took it as he was done and probably working things out with his wife. I didn't make any attempt to contact him. When we first started dating I would go out of my way to talk to him than I stopped. I realized it was not worth it. Anyway, we didn't talk for almost three months; I kind of just stopped thinking about him. Until I get the phone call at 12am saying how badly he wants to see me and misses what we had. When I saw him, he did say he was working things out with his wife but again things have been bad. Again after that, no contact for over a month. My question is, why won't he just stay away? I admit it was wrong of me to see him that night but I do really care for him. He just doesn't seem to let go of me. He said his wife bores him and that she just doesn't understand him. I feel like when she puts him down he comes to me to build him back up. He tells me he misses what we had and how special it was/..that he thinks about me a lot still. One of the last times I saw him, he said to me "what do you want with us? are you wanting to give up on us" and "you want me to love you,,if i do my entire life is going to change and be complected) he has two very young children also..He would get so damn needy and insecure than blow me off for months! is this normal?

I was surprised by how naive i was. I really liked him a lot. We were friends/co workers for 2 years before I left and this happened. The more I seem to act like I don't care, the more he comes back..Is this how virgo men are? I don't get why he won't just stay away from me for good..

Please offer advice..Thanx

Posted by TotalLeoChick
I'll keep this short- I was seeing a Virgo man for about a year; off and on. He was in the process of being separated from his wife. We had our fling; I guess if that's what you can call it. Suddenly he just backed off. I took it as he was done and probably working things out with his wife. I didn't make any attempt to contact him. When we first started dating I would go out of my way to talk to him than I stopped. I realized it was not worth it. Anyway, we didn't talk for almost three months; I kind of just stopped thinking about him. Until I get the phone call at 12am saying how badly he wants to see me and misses what we had. When I saw him, he did say he was working things out with his wife but again things have been bad. Again after that, no contact for over a month. My question is, why won't he just stay away? I admit it was wrong of me to see him that night but I do really care for him. He just doesn't seem to let go of me. He said his wife bores him and that she just doesn't understand him. I feel like when she puts him down he comes to me to build him back up. He tells me he misses what we had and how special it was/..that he thinks about me a lot still. One of the last times I saw him, he said to me "what do you want with us? are you wanting to give up on us" and "you want me to love you,,if i do my entire life is going to change and be complected) he has two very young children also..He would get so damn needy and insecure than blow me off for months! is this normal?

I was surprised by how naive i was. I really liked him a lot. We were friends/co workers for 2 years before I left and this happened. The more I seem to act like I don't care, the more he comes back..Is this how virgo men are? I don't get why he won't just stay away from me for good..

Please offer advice..Thanx

I have a Leo friend who kind of going through the same thing. I would say you should confront him and ask him what hes trying to do. Also if you like him and he is serious about leaving his wife then you should tell him. But I wouldnt advise that you pursue something with a married man no matter how sweet his words are. If he's still married to her legally then he still is trying with her however thats my opinion. At the end of the day you're going to do what you want to do anyway just try to keep your brain and heart separate!

@trashedbliss- Thank you. I am letting it go and trying to move on. I guess I can't help how I feel about him. He just never seems to leave me alone!He always comes back! -_-

Posted by TotalLeoChick
@trashedbliss- Thank you. I am letting it go and trying to move on. I guess I can't help how I feel about him. He just never seems to leave me alone!He always comes back! -_-

Ha ha! My best friend is a Leo and she does that (-_-) all the time haha.
Anyway someone can only come back into your life if you let them....Im just saying... lol. On a scale of 1-10 how much shame or how much are you willing to put your heart out there? Keep in mind...that it can be crushed!

Posted by TotalLeoChick

... I get the phone call at 12am saying how badly he wants to see me and misses what we had. When I saw him, he did say he was working things out with his wife ... after that, no contact for over a month.

My question is, why won't he just stay away?

Because you are an easy fuck with no strings attached

Posted by TotalLeoChick

He just doesn't seem to let go of me.

Why would he let go of you, considering your spread your legs to him no matter what time of night he calls, and even after him ignoring your for months.

He's not stupid .. he knows where to go to get a nut.

Are you daft?

Posted by TotalLeoChick

He would get so damn needy and insecure than blow me off for months! is this normal?

Of course it's normal behaviour for a man to treat his whore the way he treats you, because that's what you are.

He gets needy = he's horny, so plays all gooey to get you to open your legs
He nuts in his whore/you = now he's set for a couple months until he needs to fuck you.

Again ... is there something wrong with you in that this concept evades the ability of your mind to reason?

Posted by TotalLeoChick

I was surprised by how naive i was.

If you still don't get this .. then it isn't a past tense situation .. it's current.

Posted by TotalLeoChick

The more I seem to act like I don't care, the more he comes back..Is this how virgo men are? I don't get why he won't just stay away from me for good..

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The more you act like you don't care (which is a deception on your part, since you do care), the easier it is for him to continue dipping in your snatch. Men adore for their whores to not care, why, maybe he'll invite a friend and have a threesome since you present to him you don't care while opening your legs to him whenever he wants.

Of Virgo men are like that .. all men are like that?

How can you possibly be an adult and not know this?

Why would any man stay away from you for good, or any reason .... you're easy.