Great weekend = distance— Why??

Would love to hear some feedback as to why virgo guy would become quiet/distanced after great, very affectionate long weekends together? He always seems a little disappointed/unhappy when I leave. We don't see each other during the week so texting/phone calls are our only communication which for several days becomes almost non existent. Curious as to why he may do this.

Posted by jd
Would love to hear some feedback as to why virgo guy would become quiet/distanced after great, very affectionate long weekends together? He always seems a little disappointed/unhappy when I leave. We don't see each other during the week so texting/phone calls are our only communication which for several days becomes almost non existent. Curious as to why he may do this.

I guess you didn't believe me in the first thread you made here.

You are both going through a divorce, he has kids involved in that and is separated. You also admitted you are trying to rush things in that first thread.

You are still asking "why". Go back and re-read the old thread to refresh your memory.

I guess you didn't believe me in the first thread you made here.

You are both going through a divorce, he has kids involved in that and is separated. You also admitted you are trying to rush things in that first thread.

You are still asking "why". Go back and re-read the old thread to refresh your memory.




Yes I do recall the original post. We saw each other last weekend. I have been non pushy actually being very chilled, not texting etc. I am simply just trying to understand why he or these men can go from being so attentive to blah? I get our situation but in my mind I don't get why they can not think about you for a minute and say hey so at least your not feeling like wtf? To me it seems a little selfish and rude and gives the impression that while your not there it's ok to be like this.

I am asking more about Virgo's in general. Is this type of behavior very common for them? Wanting to know virgo traits

Posted by jd

I get our situation but in my mind I don't get why they can not think about you for a minute and say hey so at least your not feeling like wtf? To me it seems a little selfish and rude and gives the impression that while your not there it's ok to be like this.

I am asking more about Virgo's in general. Is this type of behavior very common for them? Wanting to know virgo traits

What's really selfish and rude is you don't "get it". He has three young kids involved in this separation/divorce. You are 40 and carrying yourself like a young 20 year old fresh out of college. You come across desperate and want to dominate, rush and demand from this Virgo. It's not going to work if you continue to do that.

Regarding Virgos in general, who are not newly separated, about to be divorced and ran through a financial hell or separated from their kids, are generally pretty decent. If their life is smooth, they are settled and stable they are very capable of communicating and establishing a relationship with someone. However if they feel pushed or sense neediness...they are immediately turned off. You need to follow his flow, acknowledge them, let them know you are interested without smothering them.

Perhaps he wants a little time to himself. Working all week then having to entertain you all weekend is probably a bit tiring. Give him a break.