Have you ever cheated on your partner? (Page 2)

The thing that made me very angry was him still looking at my pictures, which I have now removed. I was hoping he will be faithful to that new cap, I feel he was toggling between the two of us to determine which one was the best, by using both of us against each other. I cut down his luxury of "choice", now he does not have multiple options/backup plans, now he must have her as he will never have me in this life... The more I think about his sick ways and head games, the more I learn about how his mind must have been working for his own benifits. I feel it would be dangerous to be around with a person like him as you would never know what might be going thru his head, at any point that person can change.

mmmm, very strange indeed

I am thinking something unusual, I re-read his sister's email. Per that,not only the other cap's birthdate matches to that of mine but also the month and year!!!!!!

I am thinking if he is seeing me in her? In that case, what ever is going on, can it be considered honest? I mean, if he is physically with her, but thinking of me that is not good for that cap, him or me!! God knows why the hell this mess is happening?

How should I handle this? Is he lost? Is this a test of time? Do I need to do any thing or just sit back and watch the show? At times, he has been like a stupid kid/boy instead of a man and we had to work thru it in the past. I am not sure about his heart, I feel I was too quick to break it off but could not bare games. I think I need to get out of town for a long long time...

I am not sure about his heart, I feel I was too quick to break it off but could not bare games. I think I need to get out of town for a long long time...



Girl, you are sure of his heart, its yours that is broken and hurt. and rightfully so. The feeling of wanting to "disappear" "run" make him realize he is "loosing you" (ha, he already lost you), the fact that he no longer reciprocates your feelings does not change yours, those are all normal and part of the process, time you see him for what he is "not interested in you currently and may never be again" its up to you if you allow anything in the future. You should do nothing and quite worrying about the girl he is with and comparing yourself to her, she is not you, you are not her, or he would still be where he was, w/you and he is not. Sorry but its true, i wish someone would be straight w/me when i went through it, you are going through normal pain, hurt, and separation, the after effects of a relationship went wrong. bad break up. sorry you are in this place

PGA: Thanks for the truth, that's exactly what I needed to hear I guess. I have never been this unstable in my entire life. I just deleted the email and blocked all of them. What a peace of mind!

I always like the truth, no matter how hard it could be!

Strange, you are welcome, anytime you need to vent/release, i am here.........that is exactly how i got to this board myself.

Virgotome:
********I have to say after reading some of these posts by the cheaters, or the women who screw married men and wonder why they are now the baggage and actually think they have the right to question the married man's behavior now is a pleasure. One can only hope they are as miserable as the wife who they helped betray. Makes me sick to read this crap. Yet the philosophy - knowledge is power - prevails.

For those who cheated and truly regretted that mistake with true empathy, good for you. The loyal and honest way is the way to go. The rest...you get what you deserve.


######I fit in all the above descriptions. I hate what I did, I cant take it back (best believe w/a quicknessI would) I will never NEVER do it again nor have I. and I got what I deserved, and then some, as I should have.