he wont speak to me :(

Okay so everyone I'm a Capricorn and I really like this Virgo. We have known each other for about 3 years. We were starting to get closer and he told me he had missed me when it had only been like a week. He also said he had been thinking about me. And he really liked me on the DL. I asked him what the DL was for and he says he has to act different in front of the guys because they're the guys..??.. anywaiz we just got really close that night (my birthday hangout) . Like everything was changing right before my eyes. It kind of reminded me of the first time we went out and I felt " high love".. anyway the night of my birthday hangout was the last time I seen him in person ( January 11). He kept asking me when we were going to see each other.But it wasn't a good time because I was packing to move. He did that for a month. We stopped talking and haven't spoken since. I cut off all ways of contact and left him with my permanent number if he wanted to reach me. Well NOTHING. I even dismissed his friends from my life.I had known them abt as long as I had known him. We all hung out. But those were his friends from the beginning.So months have gone by when his best friend ( one of the people I dismissed from my life) text me. I don't understand why. Any thoughts or advice.—? From ANY and ALL signs. EXPECIALLY VIRGOS
Thanks 🙂

Why the hell did you make 4 posts about this?

And it's ESPECIALLY. No x in that word.

He wanted to see you. You kept blowing him off because you were too busy packing.

Are you dense? It's no real shocker why he hasn't bothered. You gave him the "fuck off" vibe. "Dismissed" these people from your life? Get over yourself. You did this to yourself, m'dear. Reread what you wrote because you even answered your own question.

Yes we were. I stopped talking to him because of a bunch of drama his friends started.His friend contacted me saying he hasn't heard from me in a while and would like to see me. I found out later on more so everyone wanted to see me. He asked why I had gotten mad and cut off contact. N basically I told him it was thee excessive partying and the people they hung out with.

What are you asking, really?

You may want to be bit more specific.

Are you asking....

1) Why the man you brushed off doesn't want to remain friends after you gave him the Hee-Haw?

-OR

2) A way to 'fix' or 'reconcile' a courtship you did not wish to pursue.

A direct question should give you more precise responses from the Virgos on this forum.

Good Luck...

Posted by Lenore0908
Oh i saw why you cut off contact. lol

yeah, he is wondering why you cut him off. It's not polite to cut people off like that. It's best to just reduce contact and stop seeing them. But cutting people off that didn't really do you wrong is kind of mean. It leaves them wondering why.

It's a form of abuse to be honest.

+1

Everythings fine now. We talked it out and things are looking better than ever