virgo is ignoring you

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by iteza on Saturday, March 21, 2020 and has 20 replies.

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@iteza
6 Years

my LDR virgo is so confusing. everything was perfect and now he is reading my messages but won't reply for 4 days now.

is that a sign he wants to break up?

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@Gem03
9 Years

Life happens and rn there is an apocalypse but everyone is in their homes with their phones and laptops. If someone doesn't respond in a day then they don't talk to you

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@Gem03
9 Years

Posted by Gem03

Life happens and rn there is an apocalypse but everyone is in their homes with their phones and laptops. If someone doesn't respond in a day then they don't talk to you

then they dont wanna talk to you***

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@CreativeCap
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Either His interest is lowering Or the relationship is not a priority for him now. Wait for him to contact you first, give sometime to respond, then address the issue

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@Capilance
6 Years

Posted by iteza

my LDR virgo is so confusing. everything was perfect and now he is reading my messages but won't reply for 4 days now.

is that a sign he wants to break up?

Hum...basic Virgo communication mode.😆

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@SeaLion
8 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by iteza

Posted by SeaLion

Posted by sweetpea2977

Posted by iteza

yeah after 2 weeks he contacted me again. I've stressed him too much lol

AFTER 2 weeks?!?! 🙄

Typical Virgo timing. I've got mine down to 1 week. He can't stand not talking to me for longer then that.

tell me your secret 😄

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I resist the urge to text him, and when he complains I tell him I know he likes his space, which in turn opened more dialogue. 🤷‍♀️ I've noticed when we dont talk for a few days now he will send me some kind of photo or weird meme just to let me know he is still alive.

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@Tenpxd
7 Years500+ Posts

Put your foot down, and break up with him via text, tell him it’s not okay to ignore you and tell him you won’t force him to be with your or speak to you. Wish him well.

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@TMV
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Is that a sign he wants to break up?

Yes, and no. No because they may be conflicted in the sense that they enjoy your company and don't necessarily want to lose that or they aren't ready to lose it. Yes in the sense that you aren't important enough in that moment to bother replying to. I've ghosted some of my best friends without any intention of not being friends anymore. But if it's someone that I genuinely want to talk to, they'll always have a reply in a timely manner. Taking that into account with a romantic relationship, you're definitely on the waning side of things. The honeymoon phase is long over with and so is the excitement.