Help! VIRGO GUY say this to me and..

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by happyAqua17 on Tuesday, November 27, 2012 and has 4 replies.

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@happyAqua17
13 Years

Posted by happyAqua17

He said he misses me, his thinking of me,, and after that he stop messaging me. What is that?

I asked him if he mean it and he said "yes, otherwise i wouldn't say that" but where is he?

DISAPPEAR..😢

By the way im AQUA

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@happyAqua17
13 Years

Posted by RomancingA
It's called hook and drag....it's not a Virgo thing, it's a man thing. You are being preserved for future uses.

It's your call......go for it or walk away from it. Id stop contacting him...wait it out, even after first contact.

thanks RomancingA for your reply.

well maybe i was not able to tell you the whole story.its not our first time to contact each other. We've been seeing each other for the last 4 months. We have good bonding also. we do activities together like bicycling and travel.we have common interest. but sometimes, His like this on and off..

But everytime i start ignoring him, he will initiate a lot, to the point i ended talking to him again.

i just dont understand how he just diappear. I know i dont smother him, i dont initiate text to him as well.

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@FUM
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by RomancingA
It's called hook and drag....it's not a Virgo thing, it's a man thing. You are being preserved for future uses.

It's your call......go for it or walk away from it. Id stop contacting him...wait it out, even after first contact.

Hook & drag!!! ROFL 😄 I will remember this expression. Excellently said!

HAPPY Aqua, don't romantisize him... he is not in love with you. It's a form of tactic some desperate/single guys use on women.

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@happyAqua17
13 Years

Posted by rachelsnow12
Hi HappyAqua, so just to clarify "But everytime i start ignoring him, he will initiate a lot, to the point I ended talking to him again."

So, are you doing the disappearing act as well when he bombards you with his texts/calls? If so, perhaps he is just playing along?

Nope. when he's not messaging me, i dont text him frequent. once in a while i message for a casual greet.

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@happyAqua17
13 Years

Posted by FUM

Posted by RomancingA
It's called hook and drag....it's not a Virgo thing, it's a man thing. You are being preserved for future uses.

It's your call......go for it or walk away from it. Id stop contacting him...wait it out, even after first contact.

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Hook & drag!!! ROFL 😄 I will remember this expression. Excellently said!

HAPPY Aqua, don't romantisize him... he is not in love with you. It's a form of tactic some desperate/single guys use on women.