HMMMM...

I went on ONE date with a virgo man two days ago. OMG, Now he doesnt stop calling, he calls me sweetheart and than hired me on in his buisness so i could make extra money and not worry about anything. I Didnt think Virgos moved this fast. And no, we didnt have sex. I told him i like to wait, and i dont have sex on the first date. Which i dont. We can talk for hours. I Have been on a few other dates, but he makes me feel confident and relaxed. Soooo, Are Virgo men known to spoil someone they like during the dating period? If a virgo man does, how should one take it as?

What's his story? Recently divorced? Backstory might give some insight. Otherwise I probably operate sorta like this guy does. Impatient, know what we want and go for it, flattery/compliments, gentleman, funny. Any of this sounding like him? Know when his B-Day is?

OP3CRIMSIN You described him perfct LOL.. His birthday is September,2 :-)

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
LOL he probably has a lots of Leo in his chart, like moi 😛

Agreed.

Remember when you bought me gifts, and told me how much you wuved me?

Posted by CancerianGoddess
OP3CRIMSIN You described him perfct LOL.. His birthday is September,2 :-)

First decan virgos are always working fast whenever they see somebody they want. 🙂

I Admit i like it, hes so charming,smart and suave. A complete gentleman. Makes me feel secure and more feminine.

I see two possibilities in the way he's acting towards you and communicating. 1.)He actually likes you how much he says, and 2.)He's likes you, but he sees you as security. If he is in fact recently divorced or out of a relationship, he misses the security of having that significant other, mix that with a little impatience and he works fast to obtain that security he once had. He's kinda using you, yet he likes you either way and don't have to worry about that. Regardless of your standards of waiting for sex, withholding it from him may make him work for it, or more likely might backfire and he will see no immediate goal and lose interest all together. I/We seem to work better through positive influences. We need to be stroked, loved, and constantly reminded how much we matter. I'm learning that's naturally built-in insecurity and lack of confidence that we can evolve through over time. Lemme know what you think.

Well some crap just happened to me today,. He has a friend and i have a single friend. Well first off as a cancer i am kinda secretive untill i am exclusively dating someone than they know pretty much everything. Anyways.. Virgo mans single friend doesnt have a cell phone so he let my single friend talk to his on virgo mans phone. They been conversing for a little bit now and so anyways. Virgo man called me this afternoon, after about 10min of talking he says "Hang on sweetie someone is beeping in" he gets back on the phone with me and says "Hey, i have someone on the other line, i am gonna put it on 3-way. I want you to listen but not say anything" I am like,.. Okayyyyy... So he clicks over. Its MY friend. She told my virgo guy "Yea well like i said, i feel sorry for jenn she is single with kids and i think she is a bad mom because her kids dont get to shop at the mall or go to the private schools like my other friends kids do" than he said "Oh so she has kids i didnt know" and blah blah and she tells him EVERYTHING that i wasnt ready to yet,because he was just someone i wasnt sure it was going anywhere yet. I was PISSSSSSED. Than he said "I Dont think your a very good friend talking about her that way and i think you should lose my number and stay away from my friend" When i asked her, she was like, well you should of said everything on your first date. Ugh....... But i was suprised he was really understanding and is still talking to me. Are most virgos understanding?

Virgo man hasnt called or texted in 3 days. He left his job too. He just vanished into thin air. Sooooo, i dont think i will purusue him anymore. I have a date with an Aries man tommarow, back to my old roots. I still love ya virgos though. After all,. I have virgo rising :-)

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Virgo man hasnt called or texted in 3 days. He left his job too. He just vanished into thin air. Sooooo, i dont think i will purusue him anymore. I have a date with an Aries man tommarow, back to my old roots. I still love ya virgos though. After all,. I have virgo rising :-)

Honestly, that was strange...he just disappeared? Good thing you didn't let him rush you. Good luck with your Aries guy!

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Virgo man hasnt called or texted in 3 days. He left his job too. He just vanished into thin air. Sooooo, i dont think i will purusue him anymore. I have a date with an Aries man tommarow, back to my old roots. I still love ya virgos though. After all,. I have virgo rising :-)

I wouldn't be surprised if he contacts you soon enough. I bet he's digesting all the info and gaming out the repercussions of getting serious with a woman and her kids. There's nothing wrong with that. He may decide that's not where he wants to go in life, but I bet he at least is spending some time thinking about it.

3 days is 3 minutes to a virgo.

Posted by Amandus
3 days is 3 minutes to a virgo.

High-five

LOL So true.

CGoddess don't kick him to the curb yet. They tend to do that often; especially in the early stages of a relationship. Or he could analyzing some things that may not have anything to do with you. You never know. Just go slow with him and see how it goes.

Too right. Have the Massengill stamp ready for her forehead. *crooked finger* Bring her over here CG.

LOL No she isnt my friend anymore, and P.S. He STILL hasnt called! In fact i just tried calling it today and he changed it! owell..

DAMMIT! *shaking fist at sky*