How do I handle the actual break up?

So if in the me the next few days we finally talk to "break up" what's the best way to handle it face to face? He will be expecting me to ball my eyes out about it, but since I secretly know its coming I think I could probably hold myself together? I want to leave him on an impressed note cause he has only seen me upset in the last week or so, so it would shock him. Should I say much? Or leave all the talking up to him? To be honest I am in hope that he will realise what he had and come back to me
(Doubt ill go back go him, but I will be able to deal with the breakup more if I know he regrets it. I don't give a fuck if that's selfish of me.)

Also, should I wait until after retrograde? I know it sounds crazy but looking back, all of the times we almost broke up was DURING a retrograde and all our good patches were inbetween. It's okay, I have finally accepted that we just aren't meant to be, I'm fine with that but it is interesting how all the shiit times have been during a retrograde. His mercury is in virgo Aswell, and moon on Capricorn. Does anyone else find this interesting?

Also can people please just answer the above questions instead of expanding it and telling me how happy ill be etc etc. I'm okay now.

You are over thinking this whole thing. Stop thinking about it. Do what you want now.

No I'm a scorpio, I will over think and I won't stop until I get answers.

Posted by scorpio24


Also can people please just answer the above questions instead of expanding it and telling me how happy ill be etc etc. I'm okay now.

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You cant rehearse it...it will play out how its supposed to.

You took your stuff and returned his key, but now you are saying that the stuff you took will not be super noticeable, you made a decision and it was the right one, but now the thought of not talking to him is eating at you, you want to impress him and surprise him, be consistent, he is obviously avoiding you so do the same, don't talk to him about it...

Personally I like to break up over the phone. Easier and you don't lose your resolve. There really is no reason to see the person face to face.

I don't understand wanting to impress him.

If I were you I wouldnt even meet up with him, you know whats up, so whats the point. A breakup is still a breakup & what he has to say or his reasons are not important. I'm not you, so do as you see fit.

His moons in cap? Oh yea those can be some tough cookies

Posted by scorpio24
No I'm a scorpio, I will over think and I won't stop until I get answers.

lol I'm an Aries, I'm the same. 🙂