I met a guy on a dating site. He lives like a hour away. He is a doctor and also going to school to do another residency to become ICU doctor. We've been chatting for almost 3 weeks but he hasn't made any plans to meet up. He asked me out the first week we started talking and he had to cancel it cuz of a meeting. We also FaceTime and he ask me a lot of god questions. Seemed very interested in the beginning. But lately he cut back his calling and texting. I don't wanna come needy so I don't really text or call him. He is pretty consistent with his short messages like. Just usually say hi and nothing much and when I respond to his text I almost never get a reply back. It's starting to bother me now. He tells me he will call me at night but last 3 times he didn't call when he said he would. I asked him if he is interested getting to know me or just wasting my time. He promised he is very much interested. He is just busy with his board exam which is in august. So he is giving me mix signals. Like send me short text consistently but nothing more than that. And if we do speak on phone then we usually have a great conversation and a very positive attitude and a good vibe I get from him. Do Virgo take their sweet time? He told me he doesn't wanna date someone for a year. We both r in 30s and looking to settle down. He ask me a lot of questions which make me think he is interested but him not texting back or not calling when he says he will throwing me off. Is this guy interested ?
How does Virgo man show interest?

He is a doctor AND he is a Virgo. Expect to be ignored.
Is he the only interesting guy on the internet dating site?
Is he the only interesting guy on the internet dating site?

The virgo guy that I met asked me out the first time we talked. He never calls..only text. However, he does keep in contact and always plans things for us. If a virgo cares for you then prepare to be criticized. My virgo sounded exactly like my parents when he criticized me. Dont try to do it back to them though..they hate that..lol
Me and the virgo guy sometimes go 2 to 3 weeks without talking to each other..which is fine for me. My ex boyfriend who was a Cancer...use to call me every single day..and it became suffocating. Virgos are sometimes known to disappear like that. However, most Virgos are very upfront like mines was. If he wants to go out with you he would have asked by now. Even if it is just to hang out for a little while.
If I were you..I would draw back like he has. Disappear on him like he is disappearing on you. Dont respond to his text or calls so fast..he will come back if he is interested. Also, Virgo's do not like clingy or emotional people...so never come off as that way.
Me and the virgo guy sometimes go 2 to 3 weeks without talking to each other..which is fine for me. My ex boyfriend who was a Cancer...use to call me every single day..and it became suffocating. Virgos are sometimes known to disappear like that. However, most Virgos are very upfront like mines was. If he wants to go out with you he would have asked by now. Even if it is just to hang out for a little while.
If I were you..I would draw back like he has. Disappear on him like he is disappearing on you. Dont respond to his text or calls so fast..he will come back if he is interested. Also, Virgo's do not like clingy or emotional people...so never come off as that way.

He is controlling the relationship making everything on his terms. Also he is a busy doctor who honestly won't have time to keep assuring you your position.
Date other people don't put your eggs in one basket until he confesses how much he wants you.
I've heard a lot lately that virgo men has dating websites even when they are a great catch. Either it's boredom or they really want to make sure they find the one (wife) she can be anywhere so he keeps his options open.
Date other people don't put your eggs in one basket until he confesses how much he wants you.
I've heard a lot lately that virgo men has dating websites even when they are a great catch. Either it's boredom or they really want to make sure they find the one (wife) she can be anywhere so he keeps his options open.

Posted by Scruffles
I think you're being Catfished.
What is he doing on a dating site when he allegedly has no time whatsoever to court and date you?
To answer your question, Virgo, Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius, and Pisces men show interest by contacting you and wanting to spend time with you.
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Thanks for replying me guys.
Cluelesscancer - i don't think you read my message carefully. Like I said we both want to settle down and he doesn't want to date someone for a long time. I am not being needy. I'm just questioning his actions cuz they don't match his words. Like some said why is he on a dating site if he is such a busy doctor.
Cluelesscancer - i don't think you read my message carefully. Like I said we both want to settle down and he doesn't want to date someone for a long time. I am not being needy. I'm just questioning his actions cuz they don't match his words. Like some said why is he on a dating site if he is such a busy doctor.
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