How to deal with Venus in Virgo man?

How to approach him when he does everything to keep distance between us?
How to date him and make him happy?

Whats his sun sign?

if he really is doing "everything" to keep distance, he isn't interested in you.

venus in virgo men can be coy and shy and passive, but they won't just avoid you.

We are in some kind of open relationship, there is magic attractions between us, but he does not allow me to come closer to him ... he prefers to be alone, doesn't like commitment

He's a cancer, cancer rising,moon in libra. I am aries, scorpio rising, moon i aqarius, venus in aries

lol. No. You are a plaything that chooses to think you matter. The magic attraction is bullshit. Cancer sun and libra moon? And a virgo venus on top of it? Hahahahaha

aries chicks like a challenge, but you can't win them all. Sometimes it's best to walk away.

Could you be more specific in explaining, please? What that combination (sun cuncer, cancer rising, libra moon and venus in virgo) mean?

I too have the V in V and I wouldn't plain avoid you if I was even remotely interested in you! We are cautious and calculated but I would at least flirt in an extremely casual way, almost to the point you didn't know I was flirting with you. Little physical pokes or taps or requesting hugs, offering to help with anything you need, modest compliments. Hope any of this has helped.

Thanks for help! Maybe I was not clear enough, we are in open relationship, but he keeps an emotional distance!