how to get virguy to propose?

i've been dating this virguy for over a year and i myself am a virgo. but although he says everything going great and yes, our relationship is good, he still is weird about marriage. i brought it up once a few months ago and he just doesn't really talk much about it. then a couple weeks ago i accidently sent a text to him meant for someone else that said "no ring yet 😢" so now he teases me about it. but it's kinda mean because he jokes and teases about how i want a ring. but i really do! i mean, come on it's been a year and we've never had sex and i love him. what more does he need? so does anyone know why he isn't wanting marriage? am i doing something wrong? i don't think it's because i'm being too pushy. i'm not really. it's normal to talk about a possible future together after a year of dating right?

"i mean, come on it's been a year and we've never had sex and i love him."

"what more does he need?"


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Now I am confused too?.!

Normally, Virgos tend to ANSWER THE QUESTIONS.. NOT ASKING because they already KNOW the ANSWER?

If you are a Virgo, then you already know how and what.. RIGHT..??

Or am I just assuming that you are not a Virgo..??

"we've never had sex"

Has any verbage referencing the absence of this rather important aspect ever accidently get text messaged?

"is a 'code word' used, so as not to 'spoil' the consistency of lack thereof."

HAHAHAHAHAHA .. I just they could just have passing sex .. you know, your passing each other on freeway, lean your head out the window and yell, "Fuck You."

"i mean, come on it's been a year and we've never had sex and i love him. what more does he need?"


More time I suppose. If he's withholding sex from you and you do not know/understand 'why?', then that might be the reason he has not proposed marriage to you yet.

well, we haven't had sex for religious reasons but we've done pretty much everything else. the problem is not that he's not satisfied. okay, but still.... are virgo's usually so afraid of commitment?

can we not focus on the sex for just one second? that's not even the important thing here. he's touched my boobies, i've touched his weaner, it's all good. he assures me everything's going good in our relationship and i know he's thought about marriage with me. oh whatever, no one here has ever had a virgo-virgo relationship so you don't know nothin. why do i bother?

"He is probably analysing your every move and trying to picture you as a wife so if you aren't on best behaviour all the time forget it."

Well said, Cgilwl.

And, Virgorox, do you fully hold to the same religious beliefs as he does? Could it be that his faith in you needs more time to mature? Age?

I like Scopio's new look .. she's a cute dachund (sp) .. that droopy look in the face that says you just have to love this little adorable pooch.

he must be thinking about it...but give him time to think...if you really love this guy and you see yourself spending the rest of your life with him...what is a year and half in the big picture of many years together?

see...and you know how we are...big decisions are really BIG...like marriage is HUGE...

"That is the first time I've ever seen an ocean change colour overnight."

Is that good or bad?

From my Virgo's perspective .. any woman who waits an unreasonable amount of time for him would be deemed unworthy because she lacks self-respect .. meaning, because he feels he isn't worthy to be loved by any woman, so if she waits for a loser, then she must be one too.

Doesn't make sense .. I don't even try to work it out anylonger .. just shut up and nod head .. maybe I was a bobble-head in my previous life and that's why I do it so good now.

"I dont think someone can fall for me and wait on and on for long period of time. this will confuse me"


lol, yes, this seems to be a common trait. And what it really is .. the male Virgo doesn't feel adequate, isn't good enough to love, feels inferiour .. so, if someone waits for him, then he is confused about her self-esteem, her self-worth, her self-confidence .. for, why would she wait for someone like him?

You didn't go into this detail, but, I've heard it many times .. that is what it means, and I don't know why.

Why do you guys feel so low about yourselves?

"Why, why is my cup empty? Why is my vessel broken?"
"Your cup is full, my child."
"Why can't I find a way to fill my cup?"
"Look inside. Your cup is already full."
"Why can't I see it, then?"
"Open your eyes, my child."
"Why can't I feel it, then? Why am I not full?"
"Because you already believe that it is empty."

"It's good!

Variety is the spice of life!"

BAM!...(...like chef Emeril Lagasse.)

Thanks, DC.

"yes you look pretty in pink"

🙂 Thank you, CG.

Scopio .. I'm sorry, was it what I said?

I'm just babbling, not meaning you in any way.

Hope you feel better 🙂