How to read virgo men??

Hey y'all. Can someone give a summary on how to read virgo men?? lol. What even is with this sign....

My virgo interest came at me hot and quick, flirted, did all the things for a few MONTHS, and then backed off out of nowhere. When I confronted him about it he told me hes trying to take it slow and figuring things out still/where he wants this to go?? I was like k you do you and left him alone (we work in the same building so we'd see each other in a specific area usually) and avoided him. He also seemed to avoid me.

After about 2 weeks he comes back around specifically where he knew I'd be and is just standing at a distance observing my reactions. I smiled casually at him, and kept it pushing...and now hes legit just around again and it's annoying me. What does he even want?? For me to be like "omg you chose me yass my prince!!" —??

Virgos are a piece of work lol

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Hey y'all. Can someone give a summary on how to read virgo men?? lol. What even is with this sign....

My virgo interest came at me hot and quick, flirted, did all the things for a few MONTHS, and then backed off out of nowhere. When I confronted him about it he told me hes trying to take it slow and figuring things out still/where he wants this to go?? I was like k you do you and left him alone (we work in the same building so we'd see each other in a specific area usually) and avoided him. He also seemed to avoid me.

After about 2 weeks he comes back around specifically where he knew I'd be and is just standing at a distance observing my reactions. I smiled casually at him, and kept it pushing...and now hes legit just around again and it's annoying me. What does he even want?? For me to be like "omg you chose me yass my prince!!" —??

Virgos are a piece of work lol

That's exactly what he wants.

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Hey y'all. Can someone give a summary on how to read virgo men?? lol. What even is with this sign....

My virgo interest came at me hot and quick, flirted, did all the things for a few MONTHS, and then backed off out of nowhere. When I confronted him about it he told me hes trying to take it slow and figuring things out still/where he wants this to go?? I was like k you do you and left him alone (we work in the same building so we'd see each other in a specific area usually) and avoided him. He also seemed to avoid me.

After about 2 weeks he comes back around specifically where he knew I'd be and is just standing at a distance observing my reactions. I smiled casually at him, and kept it pushing...and now hes legit just around again and it's annoying me. What does he even want?? For me to be like "omg you chose me yass my prince!!" —??

Virgos are a piece of work lol

That's exactly what he wants.

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lmaoo for real— What?! I just cant even... he hasnt said a word to me, hes just now watching me from a distance and im legit like — . I refuse to say anything right now cause i legit dont trust hes not gonna back off again lmfao

LOL I would really like to know where this goes

I am in the same situation. Mine casually started texting me after a couple of weeks and is still very responsive whenever I need help with anything but I still have no idea if he is interested in continuing to date or not.... but then again whatever

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LOL I would really like to know where this goes

I am in the same situation. Mine casually started texting me after a couple of weeks and is still very responsive whenever I need help with anything but I still have no idea if he is interested in continuing to date or not.... but then again whatever

omg girl you are in for a TREAT. Lemme tell you how this goes. Mine texted me daily for about 3 months, flirting, asking me out etc. Then one day when everything was so good, he went ghost. Yours probably will pull away a few times too to overthink. Dont let it stress you out. He'll come back, stay your true badass self.

Me being the person I am, I confronted my virgo, cause bro you dont have to ghost me to figure out~ things.... we didnt even go on a date yet why are we talking DTR right now? Ya. So I gave him the precious space he wanted and he expected me to reach out I guess but I didnt and now he came back around but hasnt said a thing, is just awkwardly at a distance. I'm like — So now I'm ignroing him.

My guess is he'll like wander off from me cause hes very passive and never one to be bold. 😢

Virgo males arent very brave when it comes to confrontation if they cant read you well, lol. They love observing people but if you keep switching up or doing unexpected things they panic

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LOL I would really like to know where this goes

I am in the same situation. Mine casually started texting me after a couple of weeks and is still very responsive whenever I need help with anything but I still have no idea if he is interested in continuing to date or not.... but then again whatever

omg girl you are in for a TREAT. Lemme tell you how this goes. Mine texted me daily for about 3 months, flirting, asking me out etc. Then one day when everything was so good, he went ghost. Yours probably will pull away a few times too to overthink. Dont let it stress you out. He'll come back, stay your true badass self.

Me being the person I am, I confronted my virgo, cause bro you dont have to ghost me to figure out~ things.... we didnt even go on a date yet why are we talking DTR right now? Ya. So I gave him the precious space he wanted and he expected me to reach out I guess but I didnt and now he came back around but hasnt said a thing, is just awkwardly at a distance. I'm like — So now I'm ignroing him.

My guess is he'll like wander off from me cause hes very passive and never one to be bold. 😢

Virgo males arent very brave when it comes to confrontation if they cant read you well, lol. They love observing people but if you keep switching up or doing unexpected things they panic

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Omg! we had been dating for about 3 months too when we got upset about something I said and started pulling away. I did confront him, or more like explained my side of the story and when he went ghost. But then he did start speaking again normally within a few weeks but sadly no more dates or hookups can't even tell if he is interested anymore. Imma just keep it casual and see where this goes. They are nice guys just sort of stupid at times.

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LOL I would really like to know where this goes

I am in the same situation. Mine casually started texting me after a couple of weeks and is still very responsive whenever I need help with anything but I still have no idea if he is interested in continuing to date or not.... but then again whatever

omg girl you are in for a TREAT. Lemme tell you how this goes. Mine texted me daily for about 3 months, flirting, asking me out etc. Then one day when everything was so good, he went ghost. Yours probably will pull away a few times too to overthink. Dont let it stress you out. He'll come back, stay your true badass self.

Me being the person I am, I confronted my virgo, cause bro you dont have to ghost me to figure out~ things.... we didnt even go on a date yet why are we talking DTR right now? Ya. So I gave him the precious space he wanted and he expected me to reach out I guess but I didnt and now he came back around but hasnt said a thing, is just awkwardly at a distance. I'm like — So now I'm ignroing him.

My guess is he'll like wander off from me cause hes very passive and never one to be bold. 😢

Virgo males arent very brave when it comes to confrontation if they cant read you well, lol. They love observing people but if you keep switching up or doing unexpected things they panic

Omg! we had been dating for about 3 months too when we got upset about something I said and started pulling away. I did confront him, or more like explained my side of the story and when he went ghost. But then he did start speaking again normally within a few weeks but sadly no more dates or hookups can't even tell if he is interested anymore. Imma just keep it casual and see where this goes. They are nice guys just sort of stupid at times.

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yeah hes probably still overthinking it, give him time if you do like him, just be consistent on your own end and he'll come around. Mine has pulled away in the past too if I wasnt acting how he wanted...if i was distant or busy he'd just stop replying to my text so i'd have to go chase him down and then he'd act normal again. That kinda behavior irks me so I dont have the patience for it lol

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LOL I would really like to know where this goes

I am in the same situation. Mine casually started texting me after a couple of weeks and is still very responsive whenever I need help with anything but I still have no idea if he is interested in continuing to date or not.... but then again whatever

omg girl you are in for a TREAT. Lemme tell you how this goes. Mine texted me daily for about 3 months, flirting, asking me out etc. Then one day when everything was so good, he went ghost. Yours probably will pull away a few times too to overthink. Dont let it stress you out. He'll come back, stay your true badass self.

Me being the person I am, I confronted my virgo, cause bro you dont have to ghost me to figure out~ things.... we didnt even go on a date yet why are we talking DTR right now? Ya. So I gave him the precious space he wanted and he expected me to reach out I guess but I didnt and now he came back around but hasnt said a thing, is just awkwardly at a distance. I'm like — So now I'm ignroing him.

My guess is he'll like wander off from me cause hes very passive and never one to be bold. 😢

Virgo males arent very brave when it comes to confrontation if they cant read you well, lol. They love observing people but if you keep switching up or doing unexpected things they panic

Omg! we had been dating for about 3 months too when we got upset about something I said and started pulling away. I did confront him, or more like explained my side of the story and when he went ghost. But then he did start speaking again normally within a few weeks but sadly no more dates or hookups can't even tell if he is interested anymore. Imma just keep it casual and see where this goes. They are nice guys just sort of stupid at times.

yeah hes probably still overthinking it, give him time if you do like him, just be consistent on your own end and he'll come around. Mine has pulled away in the past too if I wasnt acting how he wanted...if i was distant or busy he'd just stop replying to my text so i'd have to go chase him down and then he'd act normal again. That kinda behavior irks me so I dont have the patience for it lol

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I have been told this so many times! thankfully I am not really looking for anything serious right now so I am OK with being patient and just seeing where this goes lol.

How long were you guys together btw?

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LOL I would really like to know where this goes

I am in the same situation. Mine casually started texting me after a couple of weeks and is still very responsive whenever I need help with anything but I still have no idea if he is interested in continuing to date or not.... but then again whatever

omg girl you are in for a TREAT. Lemme tell you how this goes. Mine texted me daily for about 3 months, flirting, asking me out etc. Then one day when everything was so good, he went ghost. Yours probably will pull away a few times too to overthink. Dont let it stress you out. He'll come back, stay your true badass self.

Me being the person I am, I confronted my virgo, cause bro you dont have to ghost me to figure out~ things.... we didnt even go on a date yet why are we talking DTR right now? Ya. So I gave him the precious space he wanted and he expected me to reach out I guess but I didnt and now he came back around but hasnt said a thing, is just awkwardly at a distance. I'm like — So now I'm ignroing him.

My guess is he'll like wander off from me cause hes very passive and never one to be bold. 😢

Virgo males arent very brave when it comes to confrontation if they cant read you well, lol. They love observing people but if you keep switching up or doing unexpected things they panic

Omg! we had been dating for about 3 months too when we got upset about something I said and started pulling away. I did confront him, or more like explained my side of the story and when he went ghost. But then he did start speaking again normally within a few weeks but sadly no more dates or hookups can't even tell if he is interested anymore. Imma just keep it casual and see where this goes. They are nice guys just sort of stupid at times.

yeah hes probably still overthinking it, give him time if you do like him, just be consistent on your own end and he'll come around. Mine has pulled away in the past too if I wasnt acting how he wanted...if i was distant or busy he'd just stop replying to my text so i'd have to go chase him down and then he'd act normal again. That kinda behavior irks me so I dont have the patience for it lol

I have been told this so many times! thankfully I am not really looking for anything serious right now so I am OK with being patient and just seeing where this goes lol.

How long were you guys together btw?

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We're not together lol. I mean I care about him but right now things are not great. I legit was pretty much everything you could want in a partner for him and he ghosted me and wasnt sure where he wanted things to go?? I take that personally lol.

You seem sweet, I'm sure he'll come around, they require a LOT of patience, theyre super sensitive and hot and cold a lot.

I feel like efficiently dealing with Virgo entails:

-Living your best life in their absence (authentically)

-Not taking their distance personally

-Subtle intitiations - you're open to him, but solid if he doesn't show up.

-Don't sweat him, but be upfront with your expectations. I think Virgos are straight shooters.

-You're the prize - keep that in mind so he will too.

I feel these are general dating rules though.

When the Virgo guy I talk to becomes unresponsive, I keep cool. Partially because a loveeeee a slow pace almost as much as I loveeee my own personal space. I don't bother him at all.

The other part comes from understanding that people have their own lives and paces to keep, and their has to be a level of respect for that.

This usually lasts a few days and he is always pretty upfront in his intentions + reassuring. But in no way are we official and it's good to remember that at that stage, no one really owes you anything, not even an explanation for their actions.

Just live your life. I know that's hella cliche but he'll come around. I feel like initiating anything will make him feel pressured and have him to believe you are like pity in his hands..which is a nawwww dogs.

He will come back when he realizes his overthinking wasn't necessary and misses you, unless he reaches some sort of conclusion during this hiatus, in which, you couldn't have done anything to change anyway.

Whatever's gonna be will be 🤸🏽‍♀️

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LOL I would really like to know where this goes

I am in the same situation. Mine casually started texting me after a couple of weeks and is still very responsive whenever I need help with anything but I still have no idea if he is interested in continuing to date or not.... but then again whatever

omg girl you are in for a TREAT. Lemme tell you how this goes. Mine texted me daily for about 3 months, flirting, asking me out etc. Then one day when everything was so good, he went ghost. Yours probably will pull away a few times too to overthink. Dont let it stress you out. He'll come back, stay your true badass self.

Me being the person I am, I confronted my virgo, cause bro you dont have to ghost me to figure out~ things.... we didnt even go on a date yet why are we talking DTR right now? Ya. So I gave him the precious space he wanted and he expected me to reach out I guess but I didnt and now he came back around but hasnt said a thing, is just awkwardly at a distance. I'm like — So now I'm ignroing him.

My guess is he'll like wander off from me cause hes very passive and never one to be bold. 😢

Virgo males arent very brave when it comes to confrontation if they cant read you well, lol. They love observing people but if you keep switching up or doing unexpected things they panic

Omg! we had been dating for about 3 months too when we got upset about something I said and started pulling away. I did confront him, or more like explained my side of the story and when he went ghost. But then he did start speaking again normally within a few weeks but sadly no more dates or hookups can't even tell if he is interested anymore. Imma just keep it casual and see where this goes. They are nice guys just sort of stupid at times.

yeah hes probably still overthinking it, give him time if you do like him, just be consistent on your own end and he'll come around. Mine has pulled away in the past too if I wasnt acting how he wanted...if i was distant or busy he'd just stop replying to my text so i'd have to go chase him down and then he'd act normal again. That kinda behavior irks me so I dont have the patience for it lol

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I'm seeing a virgo moon atm and I feel the exact same way.... When I act a bit distant, next time I text him, he will not reply lol. I have to double text him to get a reply. 🙄 But once he's over it, it's normal again. He is a sag sun sag mars so it's so confusing because sags are supposed to be forthright but I feel like he is so cautious and reserved like a virgo. I have to read between the lines a lot. I just wonder if he will ever get comfortable enough to communicate more openly? How long does it take for a virgo to build that trust? I'm fine with people telling me what they want or need and I'm not easily offended at all.

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LOL I would really like to know where this goes

I am in the same situation. Mine casually started texting me after a couple of weeks and is still very responsive whenever I need help with anything but I still have no idea if he is interested in continuing to date or not.... but then again whatever

omg girl you are in for a TREAT. Lemme tell you how this goes. Mine texted me daily for about 3 months, flirting, asking me out etc. Then one day when everything was so good, he went ghost. Yours probably will pull away a few times too to overthink. Dont let it stress you out. He'll come back, stay your true badass self.

Me being the person I am, I confronted my virgo, cause bro you dont have to ghost me to figure out~ things.... we didnt even go on a date yet why are we talking DTR right now? Ya. So I gave him the precious space he wanted and he expected me to reach out I guess but I didnt and now he came back around but hasnt said a thing, is just awkwardly at a distance. I'm like — So now I'm ignroing him.

My guess is he'll like wander off from me cause hes very passive and never one to be bold. 😢

Virgo males arent very brave when it comes to confrontation if they cant read you well, lol. They love observing people but if you keep switching up or doing unexpected things they panic

Omg! we had been dating for about 3 months too when we got upset about something I said and started pulling away. I did confront him, or more like explained my side of the story and when he went ghost. But then he did start speaking again normally within a few weeks but sadly no more dates or hookups can't even tell if he is interested anymore. Imma just keep it casual and see where this goes. They are nice guys just sort of stupid at times.

yeah hes probably still overthinking it, give him time if you do like him, just be consistent on your own end and he'll come around. Mine has pulled away in the past too if I wasnt acting how he wanted...if i was distant or busy he'd just stop replying to my text so i'd have to go chase him down and then he'd act normal again. That kinda behavior irks me so I dont have the patience for it lol

I'm seeing a virgo moon atm and I feel the exact same way.... When I act a bit distant, next time I text him, he will not reply lol. I have to double text him to get a reply. 🙄 But once he's over it, it's normal again. He is a sag sun sag mars so it's so confusing because sags are supposed to be forthright but I feel like he is so cautious and reserved like a virgo. I have to read between the lines a lot. I just wonder if he will ever get comfortable enough to communicate more openly? How long does it take for a virgo to build that trust? I'm fine with people telling me what they want or need and I'm not easily offended at all.

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Depends on their maturity level I think. The one I dealt/deal with is immature so its an ongoing thing. If I leave without giving him sufficient attention one day, he wont respond to my texts, so I have to go and initiate something else again. But he'll never admit to it. It's exhausting and dumb. Yet when they disappear they expect you to be fine with it and not bring it up or ask any question like its normal....mmm ok buddy.

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LOL I would really like to know where this goes

I am in the same situation. Mine casually started texting me after a couple of weeks and is still very responsive whenever I need help with anything but I still have no idea if he is interested in continuing to date or not.... but then again whatever

omg girl you are in for a TREAT. Lemme tell you how this goes. Mine texted me daily for about 3 months, flirting, asking me out etc. Then one day when everything was so good, he went ghost. Yours probably will pull away a few times too to overthink. Dont let it stress you out. He'll come back, stay your true badass self.

Me being the person I am, I confronted my virgo, cause bro you dont have to ghost me to figure out~ things.... we didnt even go on a date yet why are we talking DTR right now? Ya. So I gave him the precious space he wanted and he expected me to reach out I guess but I didnt and now he came back around but hasnt said a thing, is just awkwardly at a distance. I'm like — So now I'm ignroing him.

My guess is he'll like wander off from me cause hes very passive and never one to be bold. 😢

Virgo males arent very brave when it comes to confrontation if they cant read you well, lol. They love observing people but if you keep switching up or doing unexpected things they panic

Omg! we had been dating for about 3 months too when we got upset about something I said and started pulling away. I did confront him, or more like explained my side of the story and when he went ghost. But then he did start speaking again normally within a few weeks but sadly no more dates or hookups can't even tell if he is interested anymore. Imma just keep it casual and see where this goes. They are nice guys just sort of stupid at times.

yeah hes probably still overthinking it, give him time if you do like him, just be consistent on your own end and he'll come around. Mine has pulled away in the past too if I wasnt acting how he wanted...if i was distant or busy he'd just stop replying to my text so i'd have to go chase him down and then he'd act normal again. That kinda behavior irks me so I dont have the patience for it lol

I'm seeing a virgo moon atm and I feel the exact same way.... When I act a bit distant, next time I text him, he will not reply lol. I have to double text him to get a reply. 🙄 But once he's over it, it's normal again. He is a sag sun sag mars so it's so confusing because sags are supposed to be forthright but I feel like he is so cautious and reserved like a virgo. I have to read between the lines a lot. I just wonder if he will ever get comfortable enough to communicate more openly? How long does it take for a virgo to build that trust? I'm fine with people telling me what they want or need and I'm not easily offended at all.

Depends on their maturity level I think. The one I dealt/deal with is immature so its an ongoing thing. If I leave without giving him sufficient attention one day, he wont respond to my texts, so I have to go and initiate something else again. But he'll never admit to it. It's exhausting and dumb. Yet when they disappear they expect you to be fine with it and not bring it up or ask any question like its normal....mmm ok buddy.

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Soooo true. When they're busy or distant, they expect you to just understand. 🙄 Honestly, I'm having a hard time understanding how much or when they need space or not. Cuz I'm an aqua moon... I can do space. 😂 I saw sag sun sunday, he called me on the phone monday, and on tuesday my moon was like ok time for space. But all of a sudden when I texted him wednesday, he's unresponsive lol. I'm confused... I thought he wanted to take things slow and also focus on work. Besides, we used to go 2 days without texting no problem. As far as I know, nothing had changed.... 🤔 But I can't shake the feeling that he is kinda butthurt right now... Lol

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LOL I would really like to know where this goes

I am in the same situation. Mine casually started texting me after a couple of weeks and is still very responsive whenever I need help with anything but I still have no idea if he is interested in continuing to date or not.... but then again whatever

omg girl you are in for a TREAT. Lemme tell you how this goes. Mine texted me daily for about 3 months, flirting, asking me out etc. Then one day when everything was so good, he went ghost. Yours probably will pull away a few times too to overthink. Dont let it stress you out. He'll come back, stay your true badass self.

Me being the person I am, I confronted my virgo, cause bro you dont have to ghost me to figure out~ things.... we didnt even go on a date yet why are we talking DTR right now? Ya. So I gave him the precious space he wanted and he expected me to reach out I guess but I didnt and now he came back around but hasnt said a thing, is just awkwardly at a distance. I'm like — So now I'm ignroing him.

My guess is he'll like wander off from me cause hes very passive and never one to be bold. 😢

Virgo males arent very brave when it comes to confrontation if they cant read you well, lol. They love observing people but if you keep switching up or doing unexpected things they panic

Omg! we had been dating for about 3 months too when we got upset about something I said and started pulling away. I did confront him, or more like explained my side of the story and when he went ghost. But then he did start speaking again normally within a few weeks but sadly no more dates or hookups can't even tell if he is interested anymore. Imma just keep it casual and see where this goes. They are nice guys just sort of stupid at times.

yeah hes probably still overthinking it, give him time if you do like him, just be consistent on your own end and he'll come around. Mine has pulled away in the past too if I wasnt acting how he wanted...if i was distant or busy he'd just stop replying to my text so i'd have to go chase him down and then he'd act normal again. That kinda behavior irks me so I dont have the patience for it lol

I'm seeing a virgo moon atm and I feel the exact same way.... When I act a bit distant, next time I text him, he will not reply lol. I have to double text him to get a reply. 🙄 But once he's over it, it's normal again. He is a sag sun sag mars so it's so confusing because sags are supposed to be forthright but I feel like he is so cautious and reserved like a virgo. I have to read between the lines a lot. I just wonder if he will ever get comfortable enough to communicate more openly? How long does it take for a virgo to build that trust? I'm fine with people telling me what they want or need and I'm not easily offended at all.

Depends on their maturity level I think. The one I dealt/deal with is immature so its an ongoing thing. If I leave without giving him sufficient attention one day, he wont respond to my texts, so I have to go and initiate something else again. But he'll never admit to it. It's exhausting and dumb. Yet when they disappear they expect you to be fine with it and not bring it up or ask any question like its normal....mmm ok buddy.

Soooo true. When they're busy or distant, they expect you to just understand. 🙄 Honestly, I'm having a hard time understanding how much or when they need space or not. Cuz I'm an aqua moon... I can do space. 😂 I saw sag sun sunday, he called me on the phone monday, and on tuesday my moon was like ok time for space. But all of a sudden when I texted him wednesday, he's unresponsive lol. I'm confused... I thought he wanted to take things slow and also focus on work. Besides, we used to go 2 days without texting no problem. As far as I know, nothing had changed.... 🤔 But I can't shake the feeling that he is kinda butthurt right now... Lol

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Im aqua rising so yeah I require space like no other too haha! and yet the virgo made it seem like I was the one rushing him, hence why we had a weird convo where in my head I was like oh space huh....BET. lmao and basically vanished. I dont play those games. You want space, I'll give you NASA. You cant win with a virgo, so dont play. Do you.

They come around when you're happy on your own and when they cant read you. If you keep running after him he'll start to expect it anytime hes butthurt. The last thing you wanna do is become that person, they'll respect you less and start acting up. Dont do it. Be consistent, be genuine, but do your own thing. You'll get grey hairs or go bald if you try to reason them out, they're frustrating signs trust me. I spent a LONG time analyzing and reading this virgo.

They themselves dont know when they'll need the space, its day by day, they're so MOODY. And overanalyzing all the time. Sometimes they get wrapped up in some hobby that they forget theres people in their world they should be respectful of. He may drop off for many reasons, including that. At their weirdest, he may take your no msg on tuesday as a rejection or you not being into him anymore, theyre THAT sensitive. So just reach out in a way to show you had a good time/care and leave it to him to initiate.

BUT: Do NOT let that become a norm. I spent a long time considering my virgo's feelings/thoughts and righting stuff I thought I did wrong and he didnt take that into account at all, they're a selfish sign tbh. I told mine flat out, I was doing xyz because I didnt want you to think I was disinterested, and he went "I never thought you were disinterested"... a damn LIE. lol. thats when I left him alone cause you must think im stupid af.

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LOL I would really like to know where this goes

I am in the same situation. Mine casually started texting me after a couple of weeks and is still very responsive whenever I need help with anything but I still have no idea if he is interested in continuing to date or not.... but then again whatever

omg girl you are in for a TREAT. Lemme tell you how this goes. Mine texted me daily for about 3 months, flirting, asking me out etc. Then one day when everything was so good, he went ghost. Yours probably will pull away a few times too to overthink. Dont let it stress you out. He'll come back, stay your true badass self.

Me being the person I am, I confronted my virgo, cause bro you dont have to ghost me to figure out~ things.... we didnt even go on a date yet why are we talking DTR right now? Ya. So I gave him the precious space he wanted and he expected me to reach out I guess but I didnt and now he came back around but hasnt said a thing, is just awkwardly at a distance. I'm like — So now I'm ignroing him.

My guess is he'll like wander off from me cause hes very passive and never one to be bold. 😢

Virgo males arent very brave when it comes to confrontation if they cant read you well, lol. They love observing people but if you keep switching up or doing unexpected things they panic

Omg! we had been dating for about 3 months too when we got upset about something I said and started pulling away. I did confront him, or more like explained my side of the story and when he went ghost. But then he did start speaking again normally within a few weeks but sadly no more dates or hookups can't even tell if he is interested anymore. Imma just keep it casual and see where this goes. They are nice guys just sort of stupid at times.

yeah hes probably still overthinking it, give him time if you do like him, just be consistent on your own end and he'll come around. Mine has pulled away in the past too if I wasnt acting how he wanted...if i was distant or busy he'd just stop replying to my text so i'd have to go chase him down and then he'd act normal again. That kinda behavior irks me so I dont have the patience for it lol

I'm seeing a virgo moon atm and I feel the exact same way.... When I act a bit distant, next time I text him, he will not reply lol. I have to double text him to get a reply. 🙄 But once he's over it, it's normal again. He is a sag sun sag mars so it's so confusing because sags are supposed to be forthright but I feel like he is so cautious and reserved like a virgo. I have to read between the lines a lot. I just wonder if he will ever get comfortable enough to communicate more openly? How long does it take for a virgo to build that trust? I'm fine with people telling me what they want or need and I'm not easily offended at all.

Depends on their maturity level I think. The one I dealt/deal with is immature so its an ongoing thing. If I leave without giving him sufficient attention one day, he wont respond to my texts, so I have to go and initiate something else again. But he'll never admit to it. It's exhausting and dumb. Yet when they disappear they expect you to be fine with it and not bring it up or ask any question like its normal....mmm ok buddy.

Soooo true. When they're busy or distant, they expect you to just understand. 🙄 Honestly, I'm having a hard time understanding how much or when they need space or not. Cuz I'm an aqua moon... I can do space. 😂 I saw sag sun sunday, he called me on the phone monday, and on tuesday my moon was like ok time for space. But all of a sudden when I texted him wednesday, he's unresponsive lol. I'm confused... I thought he wanted to take things slow and also focus on work. Besides, we used to go 2 days without texting no problem. As far as I know, nothing had changed.... 🤔 But I can't shake the feeling that he is kinda butthurt right now... Lol

Im aqua rising so yeah I require space like no other too haha! and yet the virgo made it seem like I was the one rushing him, hence why we had a weird convo where in my head I was like oh space huh....BET. lmao and basically vanished. I dont play those games. You want space, I'll give you NASA. You cant win with a virgo, so dont play. Do you.

They come around when you're happy on your own and when they cant read you. If you keep running after him he'll start to expect it anytime hes butthurt. The last thing you wanna do is become that person, they'll respect you less and start acting up. Dont do it. Be consistent, be genuine, but do your own thing. You'll get grey hairs or go bald if you try to reason them out, they're frustrating signs trust me. I spent a LONG time analyzing and reading this virgo.

They themselves dont know when they'll need the space, its day by day, they're so MOODY. And overanalyzing all the time. Sometimes they get wrapped up in some hobby that they forget theres people in their world they should be respectful of. He may drop off for many reasons, including that. At their weirdest, he may take your no msg on tuesday as a rejection or you not being into him anymore, theyre THAT sensitive. So just reach out in a way to show you had a good time/care and leave it to him to initiate.

BUT: Do NOT let that become a norm. I spent a long time considering my virgo's feelings/thoughts and righting stuff I thought I did wrong and he didnt take that into account at all, they're a selfish sign tbh. I told mine flat out, I was doing xyz because I didnt want you to think I was disinterested, and he went "I never thought you were disinterested"... a damn LIE. lol. thats when I left him alone cause you must think im stupid af.

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Lmao. Girl, I relate so much to your fustration right now. Your virgo and my virgo moon sound so similar. I used to date a cancer sun virgo moon also that had me running in circles trying to explain myself to him lol. I don't do that anymore. With sag sun, I asked him "is anything wrong" he said "everything's fine". Ok. That's the end of conversation about that for me. 🤷

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LOL I would really like to know where this goes

I am in the same situation. Mine casually started texting me after a couple of weeks and is still very responsive whenever I need help with anything but I still have no idea if he is interested in continuing to date or not.... but then again whatever

omg girl you are in for a TREAT. Lemme tell you how this goes. Mine texted me daily for about 3 months, flirting, asking me out etc. Then one day when everything was so good, he went ghost. Yours probably will pull away a few times too to overthink. Dont let it stress you out. He'll come back, stay your true badass self.

Me being the person I am, I confronted my virgo, cause bro you dont have to ghost me to figure out~ things.... we didnt even go on a date yet why are we talking DTR right now? Ya. So I gave him the precious space he wanted and he expected me to reach out I guess but I didnt and now he came back around but hasnt said a thing, is just awkwardly at a distance. I'm like — So now I'm ignroing him.

My guess is he'll like wander off from me cause hes very passive and never one to be bold. 😢

Virgo males arent very brave when it comes to confrontation if they cant read you well, lol. They love observing people but if you keep switching up or doing unexpected things they panic

Omg! we had been dating for about 3 months too when we got upset about something I said and started pulling away. I did confront him, or more like explained my side of the story and when he went ghost. But then he did start speaking again normally within a few weeks but sadly no more dates or hookups can't even tell if he is interested anymore. Imma just keep it casual and see where this goes. They are nice guys just sort of stupid at times.

yeah hes probably still overthinking it, give him time if you do like him, just be consistent on your own end and he'll come around. Mine has pulled away in the past too if I wasnt acting how he wanted...if i was distant or busy he'd just stop replying to my text so i'd have to go chase him down and then he'd act normal again. That kinda behavior irks me so I dont have the patience for it lol

I'm seeing a virgo moon atm and I feel the exact same way.... When I act a bit distant, next time I text him, he will not reply lol. I have to double text him to get a reply. 🙄 But once he's over it, it's normal again. He is a sag sun sag mars so it's so confusing because sags are supposed to be forthright but I feel like he is so cautious and reserved like a virgo. I have to read between the lines a lot. I just wonder if he will ever get comfortable enough to communicate more openly? How long does it take for a virgo to build that trust? I'm fine with people telling me what they want or need and I'm not easily offended at all.

Depends on their maturity level I think. The one I dealt/deal with is immature so its an ongoing thing. If I leave without giving him sufficient attention one day, he wont respond to my texts, so I have to go and initiate something else again. But he'll never admit to it. It's exhausting and dumb. Yet when they disappear they expect you to be fine with it and not bring it up or ask any question like its normal....mmm ok buddy.

Soooo true. When they're busy or distant, they expect you to just understand. 🙄 Honestly, I'm having a hard time understanding how much or when they need space or not. Cuz I'm an aqua moon... I can do space. 😂 I saw sag sun sunday, he called me on the phone monday, and on tuesday my moon was like ok time for space. But all of a sudden when I texted him wednesday, he's unresponsive lol. I'm confused... I thought he wanted to take things slow and also focus on work. Besides, we used to go 2 days without texting no problem. As far as I know, nothing had changed.... 🤔 But I can't shake the feeling that he is kinda butthurt right now... Lol

Im aqua rising so yeah I require space like no other too haha! and yet the virgo made it seem like I was the one rushing him, hence why we had a weird convo where in my head I was like oh space huh....BET. lmao and basically vanished. I dont play those games. You want space, I'll give you NASA. You cant win with a virgo, so dont play. Do you.

They come around when you're happy on your own and when they cant read you. If you keep running after him he'll start to expect it anytime hes butthurt. The last thing you wanna do is become that person, they'll respect you less and start acting up. Dont do it. Be consistent, be genuine, but do your own thing. You'll get grey hairs or go bald if you try to reason them out, they're frustrating signs trust me. I spent a LONG time analyzing and reading this virgo.

They themselves dont know when they'll need the space, its day by day, they're so MOODY. And overanalyzing all the time. Sometimes they get wrapped up in some hobby that they forget theres people in their world they should be respectful of. He may drop off for many reasons, including that. At their weirdest, he may take your no msg on tuesday as a rejection or you not being into him anymore, theyre THAT sensitive. So just reach out in a way to show you had a good time/care and leave it to him to initiate.

BUT: Do NOT let that become a norm. I spent a long time considering my virgo's feelings/thoughts and righting stuff I thought I did wrong and he didnt take that into account at all, they're a selfish sign tbh. I told mine flat out, I was doing xyz because I didnt want you to think I was disinterested, and he went "I never thought you were disinterested"... a damn LIE. lol. thats when I left him alone cause you must think im stupid af.

Lmao. Girl, I relate so much to your fustration right now. Your virgo and my virgo moon sound so similar. I used to date a cancer sun virgo moon also that had me running in circles trying to explain myself to him lol. I don't do that anymore. With sag sun, I asked him "is anything wrong" he said "everything's fine". Ok. That's the end of conversation about that for me. 🤷

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Hes analyzing whether he wants a commitment/relationship with you. theyre obtuse and go on a roundabout way when it comes to spending time...they can have an amazing date with you then withdraw to overthink. give him his space then and let him come to you if he said everything's fine. hes just broody and thinking. you go be happy and you'll see he'll come around like nothing happened

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Hey y'all. Can someone give a summary on how to read virgo men?? lol. What even is with this sign....

My virgo interest came at me hot and quick, flirted, did all the things for a few MONTHS, and then backed off out of nowhere. When I confronted him about it he told me hes trying to take it slow and figuring things out still/where he wants this to go?? I was like k you do you and left him alone (we work in the same building so we'd see each other in a specific area usually) and avoided him. He also seemed to avoid me.

After about 2 weeks he comes back around specifically where he knew I'd be and is just standing at a distance observing my reactions. I smiled casually at him, and kept it pushing...and now hes legit just around again and it's annoying me. What does he even want?? For me to be like "omg you chose me yass my prince!!" —??

Virgos are a piece of work lol

Did you reciprocate equally in those months of flirting or did you just go along with it?

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I feel like efficiently dealing with Virgo entails:

-Living your best life in their absence (authentically)

-Not taking their distance personally

-Subtle intitiations - you're open to him, but solid if he doesn't show up.

-Don't sweat him, but be upfront with your expectations. I think Virgos are straight shooters.

-You're the prize - keep that in mind so he will too.

I feel these are general dating rules though.

When the Virgo guy I talk to becomes unresponsive, I keep cool. Partially because a loveeeee a slow pace almost as much as I loveeee my own personal space. I don't bother him at all.

The other part comes from understanding that people have their own lives and paces to keep, and their has to be a level of respect for that.

This usually lasts a few days and he is always pretty upfront in his intentions + reassuring. But in no way are we official and it's good to remember that at that stage, no one really owes you anything, not even an explanation for their actions.

Just live your life. I know that's hella cliche but he'll come around. I feel like initiating anything will make him feel pressured and have him to believe you are like pity in his hands..which is a nawwww dogs.

He will come back when he realizes his overthinking wasn't necessary and misses you, unless he reaches some sort of conclusion during this hiatus, in which, you couldn't have done anything to change anyway.

Whatever's gonna be will be 🤸🏽‍♀️

I swear these guys almost need to be treated as side pieces! The last Virgo, I didn't even care about or really notice the coming and going. It was super open and I never initiated contact. He was pretty consistent until I realized that I didn't like him and made excuses to see him, then finally just told him we were better off as friends.

Now I get a Virgo that I actually like and I have to force myself to chill out and be as distant as I am when I'm not interested in a person. UGH I hate waiting around when I have interest in someone, but I see that with Virgos, you have to.

So I just date casually and hang out with friends and keep my mind occupied so I don't go crazy on this dude.

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I feel like efficiently dealing with Virgo entails:

-Living your best life in their absence (authentically)

-Not taking their distance personally

-Subtle intitiations - you're open to him, but solid if he doesn't show up.

-Don't sweat him, but be upfront with your expectations. I think Virgos are straight shooters.

-You're the prize - keep that in mind so he will too.

I feel these are general dating rules though.

When the Virgo guy I talk to becomes unresponsive, I keep cool. Partially because a loveeeee a slow pace almost as much as I loveeee my own personal space. I don't bother him at all.

The other part comes from understanding that people have their own lives and paces to keep, and their has to be a level of respect for that.

This usually lasts a few days and he is always pretty upfront in his intentions + reassuring. But in no way are we official and it's good to remember that at that stage, no one really owes you anything, not even an explanation for their actions.

Just live your life. I know that's hella cliche but he'll come around. I feel like initiating anything will make him feel pressured and have him to believe you are like pity in his hands..which is a nawwww dogs.

He will come back when he realizes his overthinking wasn't necessary and misses you, unless he reaches some sort of conclusion during this hiatus, in which, you couldn't have done anything to change anyway.

Whatever's gonna be will be 🤸🏽‍♀️

I swear these guys almost need to be treated as side pieces! The last Virgo, I didn't even care about or really notice the coming and going. It was super open and I never initiated contact. He was pretty consistent until I realized that I didn't like him and made excuses to see him, then finally just told him we were better off as friends.

Now I get a Virgo that I actually like and I have to force myself to chill out and be as distant as I am when I'm not interested in a person. UGH I hate waiting around when I have interest in someone, but I see that with Virgos, you have to.

So I just date casually and hang out with friends and keep my mind occupied so I don't go crazy on this dude.

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That's so frustrating. 😢 I hate virgo men lol. The virgo in my situation pursued me hardcore, when I finally expressed interest, he reversed and was all "im still figuring things out" and stuff, as if he hadnt just flirted his butt off/stalked me/asked me out for 3 months....made it seem like i was odd for assuming there was a romantic connotation to our interactions— LOL. You cant win with these dudes, dont play haha.

I gave this guy space and now hes hanging around again, dressing really nice and stuff, like what do you want bro— you didnt know if you wanted me remember— chiiile. I wanna slap them.

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Hey y'all. Can someone give a summary on how to read virgo men?? lol. What even is with this sign....

My virgo interest came at me hot and quick, flirted, did all the things for a few MONTHS, and then backed off out of nowhere. When I confronted him about it he told me hes trying to take it slow and figuring things out still/where he wants this to go?? I was like k you do you and left him alone (we work in the same building so we'd see each other in a specific area usually) and avoided him. He also seemed to avoid me.

After about 2 weeks he comes back around specifically where he knew I'd be and is just standing at a distance observing my reactions. I smiled casually at him, and kept it pushing...and now hes legit just around again and it's annoying me. What does he even want?? For me to be like "omg you chose me yass my prince!!" —??

Virgos are a piece of work lol

Did you reciprocate equally in those months of flirting or did you just go along with it?

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I reciprocated! lol. He seemed fine and so into it the whole time and then out of nowhere distanced himself. Literally the day before he ghosted, he was texting me a lot and we were flirty etc then ghost. He did this several times in a row until I had enough. I ofc asked him about it and he told me hes "figuring things out and where he wants it to go".... I was like k you do that, bye... and I left him alone.

He knows where I am at a specific hour/days of the week, so he avoided me during that time for almost 3 weeks. And then now he has come back around during that time and is just there. The first time he showed up he was watching from a distance cause he didnt know how I'd react, I just waved and smiled. He's still hanging around but hasnt initiated a convo. I just wave and leave lmao. He's also dressing nice and wearing his nice perfume he used to wear when he initially started pursuing me, but I'm trying not to read into that. He's a damn fool. I dont even know what he wants?? a nice friendship?

He's passive so unless I open myself up to it again we just gonna be waving from a distance I guess.

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I feel like efficiently dealing with Virgo entails:

-Living your best life in their absence (authentically)

-Not taking their distance personally

-Subtle intitiations - you're open to him, but solid if he doesn't show up.

-Don't sweat him, but be upfront with your expectations. I think Virgos are straight shooters.

-You're the prize - keep that in mind so he will too.

I feel these are general dating rules though.

When the Virgo guy I talk to becomes unresponsive, I keep cool. Partially because a loveeeee a slow pace almost as much as I loveeee my own personal space. I don't bother him at all.

The other part comes from understanding that people have their own lives and paces to keep, and their has to be a level of respect for that.

This usually lasts a few days and he is always pretty upfront in his intentions + reassuring. But in no way are we official and it's good to remember that at that stage, no one really owes you anything, not even an explanation for their actions.

Just live your life. I know that's hella cliche but he'll come around. I feel like initiating anything will make him feel pressured and have him to believe you are like pity in his hands..which is a nawwww dogs.

He will come back when he realizes his overthinking wasn't necessary and misses you, unless he reaches some sort of conclusion during this hiatus, in which, you couldn't have done anything to change anyway.

Whatever's gonna be will be 🤸🏽‍♀️

I swear these guys almost need to be treated as side pieces! The last Virgo, I didn't even care about or really notice the coming and going. It was super open and I never initiated contact. He was pretty consistent until I realized that I didn't like him and made excuses to see him, then finally just told him we were better off as friends.

Now I get a Virgo that I actually like and I have to force myself to chill out and be as distant as I am when I'm not interested in a person. UGH I hate waiting around when I have interest in someone, but I see that with Virgos, you have to.

So I just date casually and hang out with friends and keep my mind occupied so I don't go crazy on this dude.

That's so frustrating. 😢 I hate virgo men lol. The virgo in my situation pursued me hardcore, when I finally expressed interest, he reversed and was all "im still figuring things out" and stuff, as if he hadnt just flirted his butt off/stalked me/asked me out for 3 months....made it seem like i was odd for assuming there was a romantic connotation to our interactions— LOL. You cant win with these dudes, dont play haha.

I gave this guy space and now hes hanging around again, dressing really nice and stuff, like what do you want bro— you didnt know if you wanted me remember— chiiile. I wanna slap them.

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They are definitely funny creatures. There is a lot of they can be a particular way (whether it's loving or cruel) but you can't.

The Virgo I'm seeing says so much nice things to me and If I mimic him and do it back, he needs space. So I'm gonna start keeping my mouth shut now. We will see how long I continue to hang in there with him. I'm super annoyed at not seeing him as often as I want.

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I feel like efficiently dealing with Virgo entails:

-Living your best life in their absence (authentically)

-Not taking their distance personally

-Subtle intitiations - you're open to him, but solid if he doesn't show up.

-Don't sweat him, but be upfront with your expectations. I think Virgos are straight shooters.

-You're the prize - keep that in mind so he will too.

I feel these are general dating rules though.

When the Virgo guy I talk to becomes unresponsive, I keep cool. Partially because a loveeeee a slow pace almost as much as I loveeee my own personal space. I don't bother him at all.

The other part comes from understanding that people have their own lives and paces to keep, and their has to be a level of respect for that.

This usually lasts a few days and he is always pretty upfront in his intentions + reassuring. But in no way are we official and it's good to remember that at that stage, no one really owes you anything, not even an explanation for their actions.

Just live your life. I know that's hella cliche but he'll come around. I feel like initiating anything will make him feel pressured and have him to believe you are like pity in his hands..which is a nawwww dogs.

He will come back when he realizes his overthinking wasn't necessary and misses you, unless he reaches some sort of conclusion during this hiatus, in which, you couldn't have done anything to change anyway.

Whatever's gonna be will be 🤸🏽‍♀️

I swear these guys almost need to be treated as side pieces! The last Virgo, I didn't even care about or really notice the coming and going. It was super open and I never initiated contact. He was pretty consistent until I realized that I didn't like him and made excuses to see him, then finally just told him we were better off as friends.

Now I get a Virgo that I actually like and I have to force myself to chill out and be as distant as I am when I'm not interested in a person. UGH I hate waiting around when I have interest in someone, but I see that with Virgos, you have to.

So I just date casually and hang out with friends and keep my mind occupied so I don't go crazy on this dude.

That's so frustrating. 😢 I hate virgo men lol. The virgo in my situation pursued me hardcore, when I finally expressed interest, he reversed and was all "im still figuring things out" and stuff, as if he hadnt just flirted his butt off/stalked me/asked me out for 3 months....made it seem like i was odd for assuming there was a romantic connotation to our interactions— LOL. You cant win with these dudes, dont play haha.

I gave this guy space and now hes hanging around again, dressing really nice and stuff, like what do you want bro— you didnt know if you wanted me remember— chiiile. I wanna slap them.

They are definitely funny creatures. There is a lot of they can be a particular way (whether it's loving or cruel) but you can't.

The Virgo I'm seeing says so much nice things to me and If I mimic him and do it back, he needs space. So I'm gonna start keeping my mouth shut now. We will see how long I continue to hang in there with him. I'm super annoyed at not seeing him as often as I want.

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omg yeah thats a weird thing about them. you gotta play I guess or forget him. its almost like they'd rather you are cold to them. the virgo in question with me liked me a lot apparently, but the second I started complimenting/expressing interest back, he backed off and wasnt sure about me— Like wow ok then, we can play that game. You want cold, lets go to the north pole baby.

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I feel like efficiently dealing with Virgo entails:

-Living your best life in their absence (authentically)

-Not taking their distance personally

-Subtle intitiations - you're open to him, but solid if he doesn't show up.

-Don't sweat him, but be upfront with your expectations. I think Virgos are straight shooters.

-You're the prize - keep that in mind so he will too.

I feel these are general dating rules though.

When the Virgo guy I talk to becomes unresponsive, I keep cool. Partially because a loveeeee a slow pace almost as much as I loveeee my own personal space. I don't bother him at all.

The other part comes from understanding that people have their own lives and paces to keep, and their has to be a level of respect for that.

This usually lasts a few days and he is always pretty upfront in his intentions + reassuring. But in no way are we official and it's good to remember that at that stage, no one really owes you anything, not even an explanation for their actions.

Just live your life. I know that's hella cliche but he'll come around. I feel like initiating anything will make him feel pressured and have him to believe you are like pity in his hands..which is a nawwww dogs.

He will come back when he realizes his overthinking wasn't necessary and misses you, unless he reaches some sort of conclusion during this hiatus, in which, you couldn't have done anything to change anyway.

Whatever's gonna be will be 🤸🏽‍♀️

I swear these guys almost need to be treated as side pieces! The last Virgo, I didn't even care about or really notice the coming and going. It was super open and I never initiated contact. He was pretty consistent until I realized that I didn't like him and made excuses to see him, then finally just told him we were better off as friends.

Now I get a Virgo that I actually like and I have to force myself to chill out and be as distant as I am when I'm not interested in a person. UGH I hate waiting around when I have interest in someone, but I see that with Virgos, you have to.

So I just date casually and hang out with friends and keep my mind occupied so I don't go crazy on this dude.

That's so frustrating. 😢 I hate virgo men lol. The virgo in my situation pursued me hardcore, when I finally expressed interest, he reversed and was all "im still figuring things out" and stuff, as if he hadnt just flirted his butt off/stalked me/asked me out for 3 months....made it seem like i was odd for assuming there was a romantic connotation to our interactions— LOL. You cant win with these dudes, dont play haha.

I gave this guy space and now hes hanging around again, dressing really nice and stuff, like what do you want bro— you didnt know if you wanted me remember— chiiile. I wanna slap them.

They are definitely funny creatures. There is a lot of they can be a particular way (whether it's loving or cruel) but you can't.

The Virgo I'm seeing says so much nice things to me and If I mimic him and do it back, he needs space. So I'm gonna start keeping my mouth shut now. We will see how long I continue to hang in there with him. I'm super annoyed at not seeing him as often as I want.

omg yeah thats a weird thing about them. you gotta play I guess or forget him. its almost like they'd rather you are cold to them. the virgo in question with me liked me a lot apparently, but the second I started complimenting/expressing interest back, he backed off and wasnt sure about me— Like wow ok then, we can play that game. You want cold, lets go to the north pole baby.

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I agree. Cold is boring to me so I will see if it's gonna go in that direction. I'm not naturally cold but Virgos do bring it out of me.