i told him i cared and he lost contact with me

hello,

last week i asked my virgo ex why we broke up last year.

he told me he didnt know but was eager to fix things. told me he would write and etc.

he is a freelancer so he was working during holidays and now he has more free time- i must respect that because he is workaholic- and when he has spare time its ok.

so last week he told me he woyld write, inform me, because he has 1 month free then he goes abroad for 2 weeks and comes back here.

after 2 days on a business party he ignored me completly, didnt look into my eyes. i felt terrible but i enjoyed company of others. i was having fun with other friends- he saw that - observed me a few times - i saw that as well.

he started snapchatting and i see he sees my snapchat stories or other messages that i write, he is 'active' i am active. before i wasnt. last week i told him i use snapchat- he created one.

and now i dont know. if he wanna be in touch and he analyses me, tests me or he just wanna remain friends... because he is a free spirit and doesnt wanna get involved in anything.

i am aried he is a virgo. but we both have cap moon and i get very sentimental, sad and melanholic very often- which for him is cool- he likes sensitive girls.

how should i act knowing i told him i cared for him. its his move now to make. he knows i like him. i gave him open door... would he use it/...

Once you're in a virgos system it will take an act of god to rid you out of his heart. Reach an understanding with him and you'll have him locked in . Trust me.??

i told him why didnt we hang out more often, meet up last year. why did we breark up.

he told me he didnt know but told me we could fix those things because he has a month free now. then goes abroad and comes back.

its not like im telling him- nooo only one month im not an option- i wanna take things slow. i can be his friend for now.

he never writes first.

only when i iniciate he write long posts and messages, texts...

and now i dont know- i told him- so write to me whenever you are free, he told me he would and etc it was very kind.

and what

2 days after ignored me completly heheh

i saw there was a tension between us and he felt it as well...when we wre telling this



TabathaDaPisces96 so what do you suggest doing/

he has a lot of female friends which kinda pisses me off.



should i make a move

or wait like 2-3 weeks for him and get rid of him.

i told him gave him open door... on monday we were supposed to meet at a halloween party but he ended up at friends partying and doing tattoos in a studia- and snapchatting

maybe he is into someone else and i just was a play.

and he is focused on parties and someone else. 🙂

no idea. he didnt have to pretend he likes me.

i dont hang out and sleep with 'male friends'.

i need to be in a relation to do it .

probably he is more laid back than me 🙂

no idea.

im moving on 🙂

so why its like a stupid game since 1 year.

like he doesnt want anything from me but he doesnt wanna loose me.

why is that. for me its black or white...

i dont wanna be his friend only because we were dating and i had/still have a crush on him. because on the other hand i wouldnt have hanged out and sleep with him......

i dont do it with 'only friends'.

he is my type since one year i havent found the boy who would recompense him...

maybe he is just being nice.

probably yes, and you are right