The Virgo scowl...

Hi All,

Much ado has been devoted to the soft, penetrating glow in a VirGuy's eyes, but what about the dark, piercing glower of their displeasure. Possessed with inner turmoil that lets you know beyond measure they are not happy at what they are witnessing. It's odd, they won't leave, they remain fixed and miserable. Hunch overI've seen this look or more than one occassion. The VirGuy I know particulary does this when I am dancing, not necessarily suggestively, but my hips do move. With our without a partner, it doesn't matter, I get the glares and the furrowed brows with upturned ends. Now, tell me I don't know the Virgo male spectrum of emotion.

CF36

Hey Strings....

Yes, the "sharp knives" thang is in full effect. He could be concentrating, or more the point, contemplating my demise. I know he's an "ass" man and I do have a pear-shaped one. Not cute, but round, full and proud.

Like most of the damsals here I remain lurking in the midst of the Virgo male mythology. It's the dance of the 7 veils. I SWEAR.

Catfish36

Much ado has been devoted to the soft, penetrating glow in a VirGuy's eyes, but what about the dark, piercing glower of their displeasure.

my brother does this when my man is walking around the house with my robe on. my bro doesn't like my boyfriend, he never liked any of my boyfriends. he is just jealous b/c he has no girl...

Veeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeery interesting Dyr. It's very hard to know what is going on behind those eyes. I get the feeing he really disapproves of me on many levels. As I mentioned, with these rumours flying around he can barely stand the sight of me. Last time I was in his line of sight he turned tail down the other end of the bar. Ihaven't been back in two weeks, one week in Miami. I am planning to go into today although it's not his day but sometimes he shows up on Mondays.

I swear, these rumors are like a scene from 'The Crucible'. If feel like I've been accused of dancing naked with the Devil in the Grove after Midnight. Just call me Goody Proctor.

Desire might be a possibiltiy. When I last saw him perform he said he wished could write this particular song by Prince. I called out the title of the song and he responded "Is that R...., of course it is?" A few days later he put the very song called "The Beautiful Ones" on the jukebox. There a certain guy whose been flirting with me big time but he's married, so we're not knocking boots. (This is a different Married Guy) VirGuy sat and stared at me while smoking his cig as the song was played. I don't know if you know the song but basically Prince is trying to get the girl to make up her mind about who she wants. He truly sounds like he is in agony. I don't know what type of music you like but it's a great song.

CF36

Now you see why you are invaluable to us! I could we ladies get on without you! '-)
CF36

I couldn't agree more that Dy has been an extremely great in helping out the ladies regarding Virgos. With his wisdom I've begun to understand the Virgo guy in my case better but not fully. It has to do with the Virgo guy in my case has issues to deal with also. Besides, he's at sea and I haven't heard from him in a while now. I just hope he isn't ignoring me now because if he is he has no reason to as I haven't done anything to him. It's taken a lot of will power out of me not to check up on him.

A good majority were born under the sign of Virgo. Dy, your key word is "ASK", "so, tonight, ask this VirGuy ANYTHING. And, he will answer Truthfully..."

That may be true, but what gets us women trying to deal with Virgo men is how they withhold information. Sure, you can them questions and they're an open book...but get them to talk about things without being asked, I might as well go to denistry school and get a license to pull teeth!

Read my story as to what happened over the weekend with my ex VirGuy in the "Sex Important" blog....Virgos do lie; sometimes outright; sometimes by ommission, but they do lie.

Sorry, typed so fast while my brain was fluttering over what the VirJerk did this weekend that I had a few typos....



A good majority born under the sign of Virgo do lie. Dy, your key word is "ASK", "so, tonight, ask this VirGuy ANYTHING. And, he will answer Truthfully..."

That may be true, but what gets us women trying to deal with Virgo men is how they withhold information. Sure, you can ask them questions and they're an open book...but get them to talk about things without being asked, I might as well go to denistry school and get a license to pull teeth!

Read my story as to what happened over the weekend with my ex VirGuy in the "Sex Important" blog....Virgos do lie; sometimes outright; sometimes by ommission, but they do lie.

I'm curious - I'm Taurus. What's my downfall, besides being stubborn and opinionated?

Of course I have logic on my side...did you read how I found out the VirJerk lied to me?

"VirJerks" - That's something I've never heard before but it sounds a little funny though.

I totally agree with HP74 about that Virgo's are an open book but you have to ask the things for them to be open. I did this very early on with asking Virgo guys lots of questions because I knew if I didn't ask I wasn't going to find out much. Being an Aquarian, I have asked Virgo guy some pretty shocking questions because I'm always so curious. He told me I could ask him anything to which I did. Since he was so kind in saying I could ask him anything I thought it would be fair (after I had questioned him for a while) to tell him he could ask me anything. Do you know what he wanted to know? He was only interested in knowing how many guys I've been with? I asked him wasn't he interested in asking something other than that but no he wasn't. He really shocked me.

My question to Dy is this: Why does Virgo guy seem to never ask many questions ever? Is it a Virgo trait to not ask much? Does Virgos wait and just let the other person talk and they gather their information that they need from the conversation?

Well that VirJerk of mine did the same thing. He said "Ask my anything", so I did...after about 50 questions, I asked him if he had any for me and he asked "OK, I have a question...are you shaved or trimmed?" Oh my friggin God, my jaw dropped....

I'm sorry but my jaw just dropped reading just what you wrote. What kind of question is that to ask a lady? It sounds very weird of all the things to ask a lady. I don't know. Maybe Dy can help us out?

oh no, he already thinks I'm psycho....i can't tell him that i've been talking about him on a message board...he might send the freak patrol to my house!

Nice thought though....I really liked the guy and maybe I screwed up for doing what I did...but I don't regret finding out what I found out.

Hey Dy, did you read what I had posted at 8:18? Had a few questions.

yes, he claimed to be very sexual....blah blah blah blah blah blah oh and yeah blah....

i figured since he had the audacity to ask me what he asked me, i could ask him about his "little friend"...turns out it is little....hmmm, maybe THAT'S why i never slept with the guy? Things that make you go hmmmm...

Seriously, he was a nice guy or so I thought - I was even going to forgive him for being the person that he is (Lie, Manipulative, Confusing) until he called ME psycho....

Okay, I understand that. You are so adorable Dy with how you explain yourself.

I was just wondering why maybe he doesn't ask questions?
I still ask many questions and have said three different times if there is anything he wants to know he can ask. Don't Virgos ask questions or are they too shy to?

HP74:
"his "little friend"...turns out it is little....hmmm, maybe THAT'S why i never slept with the guy"

You know something that was really interesting. Some guys are shy about their "member". Not every guy is well endowed so they have to make up for it by being stupid.

oh he claimed to make up for doing "something else" ....

yeah, he's a loser. I think he'll end up calling me again...not soon, but in the future....oh what to do, what to do? I think I'll resort to my book of shadows....

HP74,

You better believe Virgo guy in your case will be back. From what I gather about Virgos they disappear and just when you've forgotten about them, they reappear like nothing ever changed. You are like why are they back and the Virgo guy can't understand what the fuss is about because they came back. I've been told with the Virgo guy in my case he ALWAYS comes back. When I asked him why he disappears he told me that is just the way he is. Seems like from what I've read on DXP it's a common thread with Virgos. I don't know since I've never dealt with Virgos before this guy came into my life.

"An Honest & Mature VirGuy may still have trouble asking you a Direct Question, so he may use "oblique queries" that make sense to him, but may sound NUTTY to you..."

Unless of course, he asks you "Are you shaved...", then you'd JUST THINK that he'd be comfortable enough to inquiry what your favorite color is!

Well he did say in so many words that he didn't want to hear from or see me again - part of me believes he meant that, but part of me thinks he'll be back.

There's nothing more sexy than being called a psycho for catching someone in a lie....

Dy,

You are absolute right. Sometimes he talks in riddles and I try to keep up not knowing why he's telling me certain things (like how popular he is with girls which he isn't, some of his one night stands, the partying and other things) and I'm like why is he telling me this. I get lost but I don't let on to being confused. Instead I try to put a positive spin on the conversation which I can tell gets him, mostly, in a better mood. Sometimes he's in a bad mood and I try to cheer him up. Another time he told me I annoyed him because I'm too positive (one of his riddles which I have yet to figure out) which of course sounded very nutty to me.

Yeah, I want to know his Beliefs & Attitudes, but I want to get to know more of him. I've gotten to know very well the sad part and not so much the happy part which I hope one day I'll see.

Oh, I love Gemini's. I also have so much in common with them. The conversations I have with Geminis are so exciting. When I talk with Geminis we go into so many different topics and we both understand what is going on but nobody else can follow.

The person you saw is me in the flesh. You would think I'd be the type to break guys heart because I have no problem catching and keeping guys at all. My problem is I have to first be friends with them and then see how it goes. Usually this goes fine but there have been a few I have fallen for. I'm not even the type to jump in the sack quickly either so I'm a VERY SLOW burner if you know what I mean (something Virgos are also).

I love how you came upon "Seaborne VirGuy". Yeah, I have basically given up because I have to move on. He is just not thinking correctly at all. I don't see what his problem is but he definitely has some issues he has to work through. I know he'll be popping up again that's for sure because he knows I'm his buddy. The one he can talk to and who he doesn't get a reaction from.

Oh, I plan on visiting the States one day. I'm a New Yorker. I miss America though. It's the best place on earth to live in my opinion.

Oh, maybe that Gemini you know has plans on visiting Europe one day. If so you have to let me know then.

Ok, I've gotten 3 phone calls from friends telling me that I need to apologize with the VirGuy and make things right. VirGuys out here: do I do that? Do i do it now while it's still fresh on his mind or do I let it simmer and call in a few days or do i leave him alone?

I don't really remember much of your story. What did you do that you need to apologize for? Not that it really matters.

The bottom line is, are you still interested in him? If so go ahead then, you aren't going to loose anything if you do.

Sure, this may just be some sort of game to score something for him to stroke his ego with, but who cares? Everyone has done something totally embarrassing at some point in their life; you eventualy learn to get over it.

Yes, I'd like an apology, but what I did was pretty deceptive also. I mean, I sent a ficticious email pretending to be someone else and set him up. Is it worth apologizing or just leave it be?

brahn mentions in another blog that VirGuys never forgive....that's why I'm wondering if I should just cut my losses and realize that he and I both screwed up.

lol

Well despite my better judgement and some of yours, I emailed him an apology for what I did....it's now wait and see if I get a response. All I can do now, right?

Nah, Dyr...I don't think he will...I sent the email just to see if he'll "bite". Sounds bad, I know...but this Taurus chic has something up her sleeve.

Yeah, you better believe you will hear from Virgo guy again. He might make you wait a bit and sweat it out while you are wondering what is going on. You WILL hear from him. I guarantee it.

Even if we've only went out on 2 dates?

Hmmm, maybe so...but I'm not in it for the sex....like I said, i have something up my sleeve and it's not to lure him to the bedroom...although us Taurus chics are pretty insatiable!

Absolutely. Virgos never disappear from your life completely. They always pop up when you least expect it. Just when you think they've forgotten you they reappear. I haven't heard from the Virgo guy in my case for almost two weeks now. He told me I'll be hearing from him again. He's at sea also so I think he's busy. I don't hold my breath hearing from him at all. He's even told he never goes away for long and always will take contact. I've given up with him though because it's too much work and he has a lot of issues to deal with.

Well I sent the email just to see if he'll bite. I have a hard time believing he will reappear since we'd only dated for 3 weeks...but if you say he will, then i must start planning my scheme. >

If you want him then yes, you better plan your scheme. I wouldn't want to be somebodies' leftovers though since he probably does have some other girls on the side. Seems like you are really taken with this Virgo guy. I can't blame you. I was the same way. I lost my logical way of thinking when it came to the Virgo guy in my case. He plays a lot of mind games with me but I finally woke up and told myself no more. He is going to learn a few lessons the Aquarian style (nothing mean though as I couldn't do that to anyone). Please be careful with this Virgo guy and keep your feeling in check. I've done so many mistakes regarding the Virgo guy in my case I can't believe how stupid I was but I learnt a lot from it all.

what kind of schemes?

I think his schemes would be "Mind games".

I totally agree with you, Dy. You are very smart.

so get my body and kick me to the curb?

Dy,

Thank you very much. Yes, I am waiting for that one special guy to appear. I know when I see him he will be the ONE.

Dy,

You are sweet. Yes, the Virgo guy in my case has been like no other I have ever encountered. I've learnt a very valuable lesson so some positive came out of it I can tell you that. If Virgo guy gave me anything it was the art of learning PATIENCE.