If Virguy takes a long time to commit..

I always see posts (mind included) about Virguys taking long (years possibly) to commit.

Now, when women on here ask for advice, many ppl say "get a backbone, he's playing you, can't you see he doesnt care..."

But at the same time, Virgos are known to be cautious in love.

My question to Virguys are, if you were not ready to commit to a woman that is ready for you, what would your possible reason(s) be and if you were the girl, what would you do if someone treated you like how you treat her?

I would like to challenge this notion of Virgo Men taking a long time to commit.

It doesn't apply to any of the Virgo Men I know. Unless by commitment you mean marriage...but the transition from just dating to "I want to be with you in an exclusive relationship" happened super fast for all.

My Virgo dad..dated my mother for 2 months before they had the talk...then married her within two years.

My Virgo uncle...met my aunt while working abroad. Same year in August (he met her in spring that year) he took her home to present her to the family. Left no doubt about making it clear this is the woman he was going to marry.

My dad's cousin who is 4 years older than me ...he was either not dating anyone or dating someone on exclusive terms for years.

Other 2 friends of mine...same deal. If anything, it's weird for them to take things lightly or state they are just dating to...spend time.

I'll bow out of the topic now. Hopefully more of the Virguys (lurking or not) can be of help.

marriage maybe .. But as far as you just getting to the next step as in boyfriend/ girlfriend def not slow & if he is stalling theirs a reason for it most Virgos I know over analyze everything .. Maybe their is something about you that he doesn't know if he wants to deal with etc...