If you could "switch" or be more like another sign, what would it be?

I wouldn't change from a Leo

Whats that snake guy called octarus something

Posted by BlackMamba
Why don't you get balls and become a bit more assertive?


Anyways if i was going to be any other sign id want to be either a Sag or a Cap.

Im pretty sure I have a pair of balls, wanna check for me?

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Posted by VirgoMan69

Posted by BlackMamba
Why don't you get balls and become a bit more assertive?


Anyways if i was going to be any other sign id want to be either a Sag or a Cap.

Im pretty sure I have a pair of balls, wanna check for me?

I just hate the contemplative Virgo some of us want to hear your real thoughts. Sometimes a being assertive is needed. It's manly.

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Fair enough, trust me I am very hard on myself in this regard, sometimes when I feel a certain way and want to say something or be a certain way I will have these battles in my head, if I end up not doing anything I end up with regret be pissed at myself for whatever missed opportunity or chance.

Perhaps I will start to force myself, whatever happens will be better than thinking about what ifs, that has been a major downfall for me, too much godamn thinking! Women, opportunities, chances, you name it I have a story for it.

In my mind the man I envision myself wanting to be is much different than the man I am, the man I want to be is fearless about taking chances because he understands fear will make him stronger, he takes risks and does not fear outcomes because he understands you either win or learn, you cant fail, you only learn. He recognizes that life is too short to be wasted on thinking about what ifs and not taking action.

I know that guy is somewhere I just have to bring him out, maybe with a few shots of whiskey perhaps? Ž

This is a hard question to answer, because being a double Pisces with prominent earth in my chart...I really appreciate the balance. All but one of the rest of my planets are in air signs. I think adding more water, earth, air, or even fire would make me more unbalanced. So, I'm actually happy with my natal placements. If I could have more of anything, it would be money. LMBO!!!

Thanks, I know what I have to do, no excuses, I know what I have and am confident in that, perhaps some childhood insecurities still linger with me but I feel them fading as I get older and start to understand people and life more.

You are absolutely right about balance, my brother a virgo as well is curiously the opposite of me, he says whatever is on his mind, no Fks given, thinking wise we are almost the same, same understanding and contemplative mentality but when it comes to taking action and being heard, he is HEARD. Always admired that but his mouth and emotion have gotten him into trouble many times and I just shake my head on the side like.....that could have been avoided.

We both need to learn to be in the middle, we are the same but on opposite spectrums.

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Posted by VirgoMan69
I like the in your face and hold nothing back part of them, as a Virgo I am much more calculated and think everything through, I also dont just say whats on my mind just because, I think of all the possibilities, it would be nice to have some of the more assertive traits that Aries carry..

exactly!

believe me , you're describing me, its not that great.

I think it is, I love bluntness even if some people consider it rude , I think its always better than being a backstabber or passive aggressive. I have my blunt moments but I hate the fact that I think way too much and chose my words before I speak! its also tiring , considering that i talk so much lol.

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I agree, I remember a girl telling me we could never be together because I just wont let her know whats bothering me even though she knows something is up, it sucks but I take it as a learning experience, I wont make that mistake again, I have also missed chances with girls for not being assertive enough, Fk that! Again I learned my lesson, no holding back.

Funnily one thing I have never been passive in is fighting, any guy who has ever talked shit to me has regretted it, always ready to throwdown! Lol