
plutonian_lioness92
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Posted by yazlanThank you for the insight! I am just staring to understand Virgos... so much different than the Pisces I was with.
I'm a Virgo male. Don't worry when he does that. He's opening up and sometimes gets scared because he's not used to. Give him time and he will tell you all the tales about himself. And all that control related stuff is also a creation of his mind, if you are observant and did not notice anything, maybe there isn't. It's just his head talking to him.
He's into you, that's for sure.

Posted by plutonian_lioness92One piece of advice that may come in handy: wait for him to open up. Don't push his sensitive buttons. Just let him know that you are there if he wants to talk. Cheers!Posted by yazlanThank you for the insight! I am just staring to understand Virgos... so much different than the Pisces I was with.
I'm a Virgo male. Don't worry when he does that. He's opening up and sometimes gets scared because he's not used to. Give him time and he will tell you all the tales about himself. And all that control related stuff is also a creation of his mind, if you are observant and did not notice anything, maybe there isn't. It's just his head talking to him.
He's into you, that's for sure.click to expand

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I'm new to these forums. I don't have much experience with Virgos in general & I'm wanting to really understand. Please bear with the length!
I have been seeing a Virgo guy for a few months now, we don't have a label but we are romantically involved. I had just got out of a serious four year relationship & I wasn't ready to get into something serious right away & let it be known, but we've gotten close since.
Our chemistry is amazing. We have an intuitive connection & we both care about each other. I have never been more sexually attracted to a person either. He has genuinely expressed the same feelings. He tells me he trusts me with his life, that he feels comfortable with me, & that I understand him without us speaking. I know for a Virgo to open up like that isn't empty. Overall we usually have a lighthearted and playful relationship with each other.
However, yesterday our text conversation turned a bit deep & I let him know that my feelings for him are getting out of hand in that I am no longer fighting my feelings for him due to the fact that I got out of a relationship to be single (I expressed this because he makes grandiose statements about how much he likes me. I try to follow his lead with opening up because I'm usually so emotionally intense & move quickly). He told me that I have to keep control & expressed something about a power struggle of when I am weak he is strong & vice versa (I never noticed anything like this & I am very observant, maybe a narrative he has created?). Also, he told me that I shouldn't lose control with him because he isn't the right person to do that with. He said his life is unstable & he's been through a lot in his life (he lived in a war-torn country). He didn't go into detail although I gently tried to get some detail. After he said all of this, he said that he didn't even know what he was saying & to forget about it, & changed the conversation to romance.
I guess I am just trying to figure this out, is he trying to protect me from himself because of his baggage that I'm unaware of?
I know Virgos aren't the best at expressing themselves because they have a hard time with composing their thoughts & feels. I am used to being with a very emotional and open Pisces. Any insight on the Virgo mind & this situation is most appreciated.
He has a Taurus ascendant, Pisces moon, Mercury Virgo, Gemini Mars, Leo Venus
Me: Leo sun, Scorpio ascendant, Cancer moon, Leo Mercury, Gemini Mars, Leo Venus