Ok so here is my situation with this virgo guy...I need advice Ok we've been dating on and off for 10/11 months. I'm a young successful taurus, him, not so much but I was willing to help him get on his feet so we could build our future together...BIG MISTAKE of me thinking like that...so one day I got on him for not putting effort into finding a full time job and not trying to progress....you guys knows virgo he didn't like to be criticize, during the argument he started throwing a lot of ish I told him about in my face. So me being the taurus that I am, I snapped and broke up with him. Furthermore, I cut him off, not talking, texting nothing. Then his mother starts calling me, "just to check up on me" any way after 2 weeks, we started talking, we were intimate blah blah then I asked him where our status was, "he said I don't want to be with you or anybody right now, I want to get my life together" but every time we speak or together we act like we are a couple... He reinterated that he still didn't want to be with me so I cut him off again... His mother starts calling me again.... Fast forward 2 months of me not contacting him. Total misery for me but he didn't know that....so his son which I absolutely adore wanted to see me...I went thru his mother to arrange me seeing his son. He had a problem with that which I get... Because he is the parent so I called him. It was cool so I saw his son. First thing that little boy said to me who is 4 yrs old btw is I want you to see my daddy. I'm like oh great, I don't even know how to respond to that so I brushed it off. So I continue enjoying him and went home. I broke down and ended the not speaking terms. Called my ex, now I'm back to square 1, he still feeling the way he does and he also says it's ok for me to date other people bc he doesn't want me to wait on him. Now I know how long it took me to get my life together, and during that time I had a amazing guy to support and help me to keep focus (unfortunately towards the end it didn't work out) and I thought I should that to him but it clearly backfired.
At that time all he did was play video games stay up all night n sleep all morning. I offered him to use my car to fill out apps but he never asked. So I got on him. Ok as far as throwing ish in my face like my past what my exes did to me I'm so insecure I'm a little girl him commenting he is sorry that he has a mother to talk too (my mom died) after me calling him a mama boy bc till this day he tells his mom everything I do mean EVERYTHING. Etc
As far as him not wanting to see me he just don't want to be with me right now he is trying to get it together I must say he finally got a job full time The thing that gets me is that whenever we start talking again he shows me that he misses me by staying on the phone with me making comments about our relationship when were together etc we become intimate etc he tells me that I'm the only one that he intimate with but I'm not sure if i believe him tho n I don't feel it's my place to question him since I'm not his gf. So I don't. I guess my problem is that I need a title so I knows it's real idk but he tells me that I can date other men I'm like how can a man tell a woman he cares about to go date other men I don't get it
Ok we've been dating on and off for 10/11 months. I'm a young successful taurus, him, not so much but I was willing to help him get on his feet so we could build our future together...BIG MISTAKE of me thinking like that...so one day I got on him for not putting effort into finding a full time job and not trying to progress....you guys knows virgo he didn't like to be criticize, during the argument he started throwing a lot of ish I told him about in my face. So me being the taurus that I am, I snapped and broke up with him. Furthermore, I cut him off, not talking, texting nothing. Then his mother starts calling me, "just to check up on me" any way after 2 weeks, we started talking, we were intimate blah blah then I asked him where our status was, "he said I don't want to be with you or anybody right now, I want to get my life together" but every time we speak or together we act like we are a couple... He reinterated that he still didn't want to be with me so I cut him off again... His mother starts calling me again.... Fast forward 2 months of me not contacting him. Total misery for me but he didn't know that....so his son which I absolutely adore wanted to see me...I went thru his mother to arrange me seeing his son. He had a problem with that which I get... Because he is the parent so I called him. It was cool so I saw his son. First thing that little boy said to me who is 4 yrs old btw is I want you to see my daddy. I'm like oh great, I don't even know how to respond to that so I brushed it off. So I continue enjoying him and went home. I broke down and ended the not speaking terms. Called my ex, now I'm back to square 1, he still feeling the way he does and he also says it's ok for me to date other people bc he doesn't want me to wait on him. Now I know how long it took me to get my life together, and during that time I had a amazing guy to support and help me to keep focus (unfortunately towards the end it didn't work out) and I thought I should that to him but it clearly backfired.
What should I do—;(((