He "approached" me first. Befriended me on Facebook (has some friends i knew so i figured why not)also on instagram. 8 mos later...yup that long! He sends me a private message on fb...asking me if im single. We sorta chit chat back and forth for a couple of days. Then nothing for a week,,,doesnt ask me out, just mentions it. Then again, he starts chatting with me again...another couple of days and nothing again. Then he asks if i want to go to his house for dinner, i said no because its not very lady like to go over to his house (im trying to set standards...which later went out the door) anyway. After finally talking on the phone and texting a couple more times, he starts calling me "babe"...which to me was a little weird, but whatever i went with it. The connection over the phone and texts ( i know weird) was very strong and i have a "feeling" about this guy, idk. Anyway, i finally caved and did something really bad...(at least for me, and i have NEVER done this). I went to his house, at like 1 am!! only because he said he was there with his best friends and their kids, which was true. Night went great, we just talked and watched movies. Then his friends left, i should have left, but it felt right to stay. So i did!! and of course we ended up having sex. And although i kept telling him that i felt horrible because i dont do this, and i really dont! He kept assuring me its ok an that he doesnt think badly of me and started telling ME not to dissapear on him. That now that he has me he doesnt want to lose me. Anyway come to find out he's between jobs, and thats why he cant take me out on a date, but was freaking out because he though i might be interested in someone else that can take me out. btw he starts a new job next week. IN any case, that was last sunday and now we are back to just texting, and i told him already that although it was wonderful night I have no intention on starting a purely physical relationship with anyone. That i want to respectfully get to know him. Now, i cant tell if he really likes me or if he is just texting me to keep me at bay in case he wants to sleep with me again. He has a daughter so his attention is obviously not always on me. And he randomly sends me text msgs that say. "hope youre having a wonderful day babe" and then nothing the whole day and then all of a sudden "goodnight babe" but nothing in between. Im confused, does he like me? does he not? IDK....Sorry i know its a lot but i felt like i needed to explain the wh
