Is it possible to change a virgo's mind?

I am almost possible that I STILL have feelings for this virgo man whom I have had intervals this entire past year of a certain cycle; friendly romantic banter, bad vibes behavior, irritating and frustrating misunderstandings and what not. In the past we have both been wrong on our behavior. We were never in a relationship per se, but our chemistry still remains. I think I'm addicted to him. He has forgiven me many times in the past.As I have him. Is it REALLY POSSIBLE TO get a virgo to get their attention once they are scorned several times. And is it possible that a Virgo will EVENTUALLY express their love to you, EVEN if the premise of your interaction from the beginning changes over time. IS it possible to get a virgo to give another chance for love?

No offense but get past the virgo aspect. Don't continue in this situation, there seems to be very little benefit remaining. Go and find someone who will bring out the best in you and vice versa.

I know two Virgo men who both kept going back to relationships with their x-wives, over & over. Even though the relationships every time were not good. They can be that loyal in their hearts when they have loved.

No, it is not possible to change a Virgo's mind because they don't have one to begin with..... Period... I know from experience... They are a living confusion...

Virgo do not live in confusion. If anything they are so analytical and deep that it may be hard for you to understand them. Virgo's are very intellectual people who only are interested in people with strong minds, bodies and souls. Anything less just won't do. They like the cream of the crop and are very choosy of who they want to have in their lives.

Virgo do not live in confusion. If anything they are so analytical and deep that it may be hard for you to understand them. Virgo's are very intellectual people who only are interested in people with strong minds, bodies and souls. Anything less just won't do. They like the cream of the crop and are very choosy of who they want to have in their lives.

Why thinking of getting back after such a long time misunderstanding?
Dear, TIME may change everything.... Even though there's still a feeling in between u... i believe in that
things wont ALWAYS be the same when held back..cos guess that each of u has grown up to be more mature after all these matters, no longer the old self...

Probably he's already started a new life of his own by now,after all u'd done to him.So dont interrupt,u'll mess up his new life only.

If u really want to get back the closeness with him and showing your sorriness and love to him,why not go and try to be a good friend of him?!! try to treat him as good as he deserves and treat him the right way....
I guess he may be happy for you, the brand new mature u. As for loving him back as a bf...probably u'ld have forgot about it and find another guy to love......
It isnt that there's no possiblity but could be hard...

VF

I think that it when a virgo sees you one way, it is really hard for them to see you in any different light. You probably better off to get on wit someone else.

It's way to sad to have realized of the misunderstanding for the 1 u love after such a longtime....Pity.
I really wonder how come u only realize by then... u'ld have realized it earlier,why not?
He must be very pity to have scorned by u several times and still loving u..
Nevermind, take it as a lesson that u've missed out such a good MAN in your life..
I dont quite knowing your situation well enough,dear...but, probably there's limitation of chance still exist if u really putting on your hard effort.
I mean miracle.Goodluck anyway!

P.S: Dont miss another precious chance!
Time waits for no one!

(168.209.98.35) on Monday, September 23, 2002 @ 3:46:14 AM

' No, it is not possible to change a Virgo's mind because they don't have one to begin with..... Period... I know from experience... They are a living confusion... '

For the above unknown poster, i'ld like to tell that, experience on one cant tell the whole! Each individual are created different.B'cos of u dont seem to understand therefore u posted it as juz that way. U must hate the 1 virgo very much from the way u say it... Sorry to say so but juz like letting u know.. not all okay?

On behalf of the rest virgos

No..not possible. Virgo men lie, cheat and don;t make good partners

You think so ? Well this virgo doesn't lie nor cheat.One date with me and you'll change your mind Lawgoddess !! Oh that's right ,you're stuck down under.Damn !!

In my opinion, I think virgo's tend to settle when it comes to love (as a lot of us do). My best friend is a virgo and she is currenlly dating a man that initially she couldn't stand. And no, he is not the cream of the crop, but he is nice to her. I think she sometimes wants to have her options open to look for something better but for now they are happy. She tends to be very critical of him, which in turn creates alot of their arguments. I say virgo's are really cool people but should work on their expectation of people. We are only human.

And I will change my last comment by saying that virgos don't settling when it comes to love but that they need to lower their perfect excpections in order to really be happy. Because, again no one is perfect.

Virgos have the strangest thought processes that I have ever encountered...think of the most far out...most illogical scenario for any given situation that was ever constructed by man or womankind and that's how a virgo thinks...they don't change their minds unless you can persuade them by saying something like....I swear on my son's life...this is how it was or wasn't......the swear to whoever seems to work in my siutaions anyhow.

well, I am totally confused. My virgo ex broke up with me almost 2 years now. I am a cancer - I loved him with all my heart - really I did. Till this day - he tries so hard to stay in touch, and be involved in my life, to keep the connection alive. I know all during this time, he has dated others, and may even be in a new relationship, I don't know. They guy hurt me so bad back then, that it took me forever to get over. I initiate no contact with him at all. I don't get it - what is it—? Virgos out there?

..con't ...the reason he broke up with me was to "be single"..so I let him totally go. I know he loved me back then, but couldn't committ. I still believe he still does.....help virgos out there...what the hell is it?

Dear Floater 1, I am not one bit surprised the your virgo guy keeps contact even though you have broken up for two years or so (and I am so sorry you are still heart-broken-ish over it my pal) But constant contact is their trade-mark......in my experience anyway!.....they just hate and can't say good-bye and if you live anywhere near his locality...I really think this guy is going to be contacting you for the rest of his life. I know from personal experience. I have broken up with virgo guy bitterly lots of times....2 days later he's phoning etc. asking how I am, what's happening in my life - or he will say I just called to hi! how are you! It's a frustrating thing if you really want closure....but if you are anyway open to wanting to get back with virgo guy..it certainly leaves the door ajar, doesn't it:-)!! and is an endearing quality I must admit for me.

Thank you Alana - thank you so much!
I've never experienced this with anyone else - ever!
In the past - when things end, they end. With this virgo ex - there is a certain bond that cannot be broken for some reason. I hear thru the grapevine, that he is in love with another, and I'm happy for him, but sometimes hurt from that news also.
(a scorpio no less)...

Anyway- I just try to make sense of it all where he is concerned. I just things down for now. What else can I do regarding him?

Any more advice Alana would be great - it helps!

He once told he I was "stuck" with him - I guess he wasn't kidding...LOL...in one way or another, huh?

Friends tell me to close the door, no benefit for me in a relationship with him of any kind. They say one thing, my heart says another.

When we broke up - he said he still cared for me as a person...which just killed me, so do many others care as a person.

I dont know...how much does "care as a person" mean?

one must have a mind before it can be changed.

Dear Floater1~

I just recently told a male "friend" who cared much more for me than I did him that I will always care for him as a very special friend in my life. How much does this mean? I cannot answer that question. What I personally meant from my heart when I said that to him was, he means a lot to me and I am very grateful for sharing life with him. I believe that some people are better friends than intimate lovers. He could not handle being friends with me and took himself out of my life. We all have different ways that we handle our personal situations. I have remained friends with all my past guy friends unless they choose to leave. Life to me is too short to let stuff like that keep us from being friends or talking.

Maybe it is time for you to close that door so that another one can open? From experience, each new relationship is better than the last. I suppose this is because of our growth from the previous lesson.

I wish you luck and I know how difficult this is...been there done that.

Freebird

Freebird you should have just shot him in the head.

Hi Floater my pal - I'm here again with some more "observations" on your virgo guy situation and you! Remember this is only the way "I" see things from a birdseye point of view (us aquarians are good at that!!)- but only you know the real ins and outs of your story together but this is my thinking on the matter for you.

I know you are scorpio and boy the hurt you scropios feel is so deep and crushing (I know this from my dear Scorpio Lila pal)

"Friends tell me to close the door, no benefit for me in a relationship with him of any kind. They say one thing, my heart says another".

OK your friends may be 100% right or on the other hand they may be 100% wrong - they are only expressing thoughts in their heads and minds which is quite right.

Your heart is telling you another - OK your heart may be 100% right or 100% wrong - but I know at the end of my life on my deathbed (god I am being such a drama-queen here!) which I would have preferred to listen to......the heart wins all the time.

Ok so he may be with someone else and you hear thru the grapevine he's in love and happy etc. etc. But grapevines ain't the ultimate source of truth or aren't that realible.

So if I was in your shoes, even though it would take extreme courage and guts and risk, next time he calls or phones or whatever, say hey, would you fancy just meeting for a drink and chat. If he agrees, you get your best dress on missy, get your make-up right, look the classiest and sexiest (subtley) that you have looked in your life and you saunter up to meet him. Give him a sweet peck on the cheek and go somewhere discreet and quiet for that drink. Keep everything light and airy-fairy at first (no intensity Ms. Scorpio!!) - keep it sweet. YOu know yourself the banter that he likes and the words that impress - so use them now to your best advantage. If you get to the point about talking about your past relationship and he asks how you were - just say you were very hurt much but have moved on! Ask him how his love-life is? If he says he's happy and in love, (take a deep breath to yourself - and perhaps it will bring closure for you!) - but if he says he's unhappy, misses you lots, talks anyway romantic, hey, you know he still wants you!! - and you take it from there Missy. YOu will know by the look Mr. Virgo gives you as he talks whether he's yours and another tip, if you ask a virgo a question and want the truth from him, he will swallow before he answers and this always mean they are telling you the truth! So that's about it - over to you Missy and keep us all posted:-)
Alana x

Alana - you are the best, but there is a twist to this story. First, I am cancer - and a guy. But the feelings are the same. I will give this more time, and move along. We keep you posted on any updates.

james tate - you're right - shoot me in the head! LOL........

Oh gosh - so sorry for that silly presumption Floater but I am very new to this site and haven't figured out all the gender stuff of you guys and girls yet!!!:-).....but hey couldn't you be a cross-dresser for just one nite:-)!!! But then again, perhaps not!!:-) Virgos don't like surprises, do they!!:-)
Best wishes F.
Ax

HUMMM floater a crossdresser, NOT!

Ax,
LOL....sorry - I'm all man here. Like I said, thanks for all your input on my virgo x. It has been quite a process to let him go.

james tate - You sound like you know me, do you?

Want to go out on a date? I'm still single....LOL

I am not big on dating men to tell the truth. I am into women, not that there is anything wrong with men dating men, just not my thing.

Hey Esper,

Move over buddy, I'm pulling up a chair next to you...this is gonna get gooooooooood 😉

(hands popcorn)

Do you mind if I add some M&M's to that salty popcorn? The mixture of sweet and salt does something to me.

Must be those green ones, hah? I've heard of gals like ewe..
Well sure, it's kinda how we got Reese's buttercups, isn't it? (Something for you, or to you?) Inquiring Minds..etc.

ink.. a.dinka..dink.. a..dinka.. do..
(don't mind me.. apparently this is just the intermission..)