Keep trying with Virgo man o let him go?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Ariespinhamd on Thursday, September 20, 2018 and has 3 replies.

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@Ariespinhamd
7 Years

Hi guys I’m an Aries with Taurus ascendent. I recentely restarted dating again a virgo man I used to date 8 yrs ago. Back in the time he was very immature and played with my feelings but this time around he is into this for something serious and he has proven it sweeping off from my feet in a short time.

The problem is that the first date he asked me a very personal question that I didn’t wanted to answer with the truth so I lied. He asked na a couple of times more after we got more serious and I still lied. because i didn’t wanted him to see me as a liar. Well I decided to tell him the truth yesterday explaining the why I didn’t but he still took it like a personal offense. He told me he cried and that I played him. But he says he is willing to give it another try.

Meanwhile he is treating me like if he hated me. Like he doesn’t say anything sweet or nice at all. Sometimes he doesn’t even reply my txts until later it doesn’t feel like a second chance more than a chance to make me feel bad while I still have feelings for him.

I pointed it out and he says I need to be patient. That he might eventually come around and he can’t fake love me.( meaning he doesn’t love me anymore)

I’m an Aries I can’t be patient while you walk over me. I don’t feel well guys I can’t look at him hating me for something so small. I want him bad but asking me for patience while you don’t love me anymore is like too hard for me to accomplish.

Is there anything i can do to make him forgive me faster? Or is he just trying to have revenge on me and after leaving me stranded?

Plz help

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@Toastedtoast
9 Years

Depends on what you lied about. But if he said he's " willing to give it another try " and that you " need to be patient " then that's enough said. He's probably trying to digest whatever you lied about and get back to normal using " time ".

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@Jambalaya
8 Years

Posted by Sagicorn

Rookie mistake lol never ever ever let yourself either : a) lie to a Virgo; b) get caught in a lie by a Virgo...cause they're not letting it go. Ever. They will rub it on your nose time after time even if they do "forgive" you. Anyway you shouldn't have done it the way you did whatever the lie was about. He said he cried? It doesn't seem like something so small. Virgos are no crybabies so if that's true what he said it's something much deeper

It looks like your right on. If they forgive you, they really do.