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hahahaha..... yeah, I ended up watching like 5 more intervention clips after ts posted that link. Human behavior is so intriguing.

Posted by DyTryin

LV,

After 4 years on the Forum, I can tell you that some of the negativity directed towards Virgos is frustration... Many of these Bashers want a Virgo, but can't have a Virgo, so they bitch, whine, piss & moan, etc. on our Board to garner support from other "Ain't It Awful!" non-Virgos who want a Virgo.

The others are Virgo-wannabees who fall short of the mark, and yet hate us for their failings.

Wow.... you have some intensity, don'tcha?!?!?!?!

I don't think it's exactly like that...... I think virgos are a very stubborn sign, and people can be perplexed when a virgo acts how they do sometimes. I don't see bashing per se, but more of discussions and sharing experiences amongst each other.

You guys must be highly amused reading all this drama that your fellow astro-peers are causing other signs!!!! Is there some kind of weird transition amongst the constellations that is causing this?!?!?!

I swear to god, aries and virgos are soooooo similar at times.

lmao @prince. i THINK they might have full length ones on the a&e website. the show comes on tonight actually. i think intervention might be on now? or at 9pm est. check it out.

i was talking to my friend about this one they did with a bulimic. she would vomit in ziplock freezer bags and hide the bags of vomit around the house. she'd then take all the bags to the dump at the end of the week. we mused that she kept the bags of vomit (that amounted to several trash bags worth combined) because she weighed it to make sure she puked up all of her food. oddly enough, all of her vomit looked like pea soup.

aries and virgo aren't similar at all IMHO. i was letting that one slide but anyhoo...

i just watched another one too. what is she inhaling? lol psycho bitch.

Holy cow.... inhalants. She's basically huffing the chemicals in aeresols, cans, etc. The shit they put in cans to create pressure. It's the same thing if you take a whippet from the whip cream cans..... People will inhale nitrogen from those big canisters. That shit will mess you up hard core..... nitrogen is in the Earth's atmosphere... when piolts become disoriented while flying, it's because they have inhaled too much nitrogen. It's the reason why goose in top gun wears that mask, becuase they fly at high altitudes and nitrogen will mess you up.....

she is psycho!!!!

Posted by DyTryin

MIA: Wow.... you have some intensity, don'tcha?!?!?!?!

Blame it on my Scorpio Rising.

I swear to god, aries and virgos are soooooo similar at times.

Well, Eric Clapton is one of my favorite musicians.

And, I personally know two Aries Woman & Virgo Man couples who are very happy with each other (and, I suspect, going at like rabbits on Spanish Fly in private).

It's okay.... you can admit that I'm right about aries and virgos being similar. *grins a prideful grin*

Posted by Mars.In.Aries
He's treating me like I have wronged him in some way. He's punishing me, so I took my beating and now I'm carrying on

that's their way. the more f'd up they are, the more they make it about you. whatever similarities you may feel with virgo, an aries, when asked, will tell you what's what.

a virgo is a coward...especially when they're wrong. that's why it feels like a punishment. you're left trying to rationalize...retracing arguments and situations in an attempt to figure out where the situation went bad. i mean, for someone to be soooo upset, you must have done something. what did you do?

truth is, nothing to warrant childish/assholish behavior but this sign got the trademark when it comes to dealing with drama they create.

what did you do?

I stopped trusting him......

M.I.A - yeah, blind allegiance to anyone is difficult. assholes typically need it and you were right to stop giving it. i mean, look what happens when he showed himself.

women's intuition is a gift. you listened to yours. thank God for that.

Posted by DyTryin

MIA: I stopped trusting him......

Trust has to be earned.

Consider this experience a lesson learned, and move on...

There was a Cancer Woman on here about 3 years ago. She was in love with a VirGuy who was out of work, and borrowed money from her. After months of posts from many of us, she finally kicked his sorry ass to the curb -- not an easy thing for a Cancer!!

A little pain now is far better than an amputation later.

yes, I agree. And I have. I returned his things via my roommate (his best friend) and asked that he ask that I get my things in return. I would of gone there myself, but there's no sense in rocking the boat any further.

thanks, dy......

Posted by tubbyscubby
M.I.A - yeah, blind allegiance to anyone is difficult. assholes typically need it and you were right to stop giving it. i mean, look what happens when he showed himself.

women's intuition is a gift. you listened to yours. thank God for that.

thanks tubby....... thanks for the ear

if he refuses to return them, either get a police escort ASAP or let it go. sometimes it's better to just let it go...especially if the things can be replaced. don't go begging for your stuff back. if you REALLY want it back, you either get the escort or you sue. anything beyond that is just an ex-holding on. which ex, who knows...doesn't matter. you're moving beyond the drama so git er dun quickly so you can start anew.

Posted by tubbyscubby
if he refuses to return them, either get a police escort ASAP or let it go. sometimes it's better to just let it go...especially if the things can be replaced. don't go begging for your stuff back. if you REALLY want it back, you either get the escort or you sue. anything beyond that is just an ex-holding on. which ex, who knows...doesn't matter. you're moving beyond the drama so git er dun quickly so you can start anew.

not doing the drama thing... somebody else suggested that, but it's better to let go. Don't want to deal with it any more......

Posted by DyTryin

MIA,

I don't know if this will be consoling for you, but here goes:

You're a young woman, with many years ahead of you to meet Mr. Right.

I spent most of my adult life married to Mrs. Wrong, and only found Mrs. Right by sheer dumb luck in my 40's...

:: Cue YES ::

You can fool yourself
You can cheat until you're blind
You can cut your heart
It can happen

You can mend the wires
You can feed the soul apart
You reach
It can happen to you
It can happen to me
It can happen to everyone eventually

yep, yep..... I agree.

What song is that?

I just have to go through the process of doing the re-trial in my head to scratch over the tribulations, and then I get to my conclusive point.

I got that today..... it doesn't matter anymore what he does or doesn't do.

I totally agree with Cajunspirit. I have said I am sorry on many occassions and am frighteningly aware of my faults. I don't run away from confrontation and can take as much as I give. He is also right about what can enrage a Virgo when criticized - that it isn't done thoroughly and based on observation. Anything done poorly without due diligence has the potentail to anger me. Especially in the art of criticizing me.