Leo Woman, Virgo Man - relationship?

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LionessWoman727
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11 Years

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Wow - I keep reading posts that are so similar to mine! LDR, moving near him, great everything now? Crazy! So I feel stupid even posting this but hey, I love to hear what others think. It's the Leo in me to ask for advise I suppose.

LDR for 4 months, everything peachy. Moved to his city, everything peachy. He initiated all the major moves (moving in together, sharing or expenditures, making plans for the future, making savings accounts together, talking long term, saying he felt I was the one, etc etc.) Now, we're shy of a year together - One day, he attitude changed. Literally day and night. Asked him - he says he doesn't know where he is in his life, he's confused & doesn't know what he wants. Says it's not me, I'm great & that maybe he's just not ready. Packs, leaves. DONE. Of course as a Leo I wallow, I'm crushed, devastated. Everyone shocked, just as I was. Friends say "he just wants to be single, Virgo's run when it's serious." Instead of being immature & making him feel like "f you, I hate you!" I tried to understand him. He opened up with me in ways I know he has never with anyone else. Big father issues, was abandoned and struggles with those things now. Funny enough, our issues started around the time his father reappeared in the picture. 10+ years of supressing these feels & boom, here he is, making himself known and he's unapologetic for his actions, which is all my ex wants. A sincere apology. I feel for him, he has many inner demons. So instead of hating him, I sympathise. Dumb or love?

Whatever - it's been almost a month in the last 2 weeks he's around again. Making an effort to see me, contacting me, inviting me out with our mutual friends. I know he speaks to other women but hasn't yet acted on it with any of them. I'm everything he wants, that I know he's just not ready for as he has already told me but now I'm confused. Left, now affection, now contact & now acting as though nothing happened?

My heart says too good to be true, but what does he have to gain? With Christmas next week and as well as we've been getting along, let's see what and if he intends to spend it together.

Help Virgos? 🙂
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LionessWoman727
@LionessWoman727
11 Years

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LOL no no no - I didn't say that! I'm saying he said to me "I'm everything I could ever want in a woman, I'm just not ready for this right now. I think I just want to be alone for a while. I want to figure me out." but then there he goes, talking to multiple women, not dating anyone just texting. Denies it to me but we share phone bills, I know LOL. He denies it up and down, of course!

What on earth is this virgo doing? LOL
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LionessWoman727
@LionessWoman727
11 Years

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Posted by cancerleosfbay
I'm sorry but your story sounds a little too similar to the other Leo that just started a thread.




That's exactly what I said! Which is why I started with "maybe I shouldn't write this" haha.


Actually just got some huevos and asked him.

He said "I want to see where things go. I don't want to rush. I love spending time with you, lets see where things go."


So whatever, what else can I ask right? 🙂
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Posted by LionessWoman727
Big father issues, was abandoned and struggles with those things now. Funny enough, our issues started around the time his father reappeared in the picture. 10+ years of supressing these feels & boom, here he is, making himself known and he's unapologetic for his actions, which is all my ex wants. A sincere apology. I feel for him, he has many inner demons. So instead of hating him, I sympathise. Dumb or love?



This section, here is irrelevant. Don't factor this in when receiving advice.
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LionessWoman727
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Posted by LionessWoman727
Big father issues, was abandoned and struggles with those things now. Funny enough, our issues started around the time his father reappeared in the picture. 10+ years of supressing these feels & boom, here he is, making himself known and he's unapologetic for his actions, which is all my ex wants. A sincere apology. I feel for him, he has many inner demons. So instead of hating him, I sympathise. Dumb or love?



This section, here is irrelevant. Don't factor this in when receiving advice.
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I will keep that in mind 🙂