Libra Girl In love with a Virgo

Hello I'm dating a Virgo September 15 I'm a Libra October 20 we've been dating for almost 3years We had a lot of drama but we got past it. I've been pregnant by him fought him damaged his clothes and called woman he text/ talk to. But I've always paid for anything I've done and took fully ownership for everything. He was having a fight party and didn't want to invite me Because we were just now getting back on good terms I told him if he didn't invite me I didn't want to talk to him anymore because if he cares for me so much why does he try to keep me away from major events. He said because your so extra at times and he doesn't want that awkward feeling, I was getting upset and He started to acting a ass and kept talking about if I left him he wouldn't care nor would be trip so I changed my number While having a conversation with him about rather he wanted to talk to me or not. He ended up inviting me and the party turned out great, none of the females he invited showed up or I'm just assuming he told them not to come because I came. For the most part I've been working on my anger and I've been changing my ways Also walking away from any fight he tries to engage in . But recently he took me there. For his birthday I hired chef and tried to make his bday special But as the chef was cooking for us he was texting a women asking if she was gonna give him birthday sex, I didn't trip I continue making sure he had a great bday. The next day he got drunk and we were having a conversation about men (single) men and how many women they keep around when I asked him how many and where did I fit in he had he avoid the question just to say he don't have any other women it's just me. He finished drinking and won't to use my car to go to the casino So he went in my purse and found a condom and went nuts I still didn't fight back I just cried after being annoyed with his name calling and crazy ways When he calmed down I told him where it came from He expressed how it made him feel and how he understand where I come from now. The next day I called the women he texted to see if they were using protection because I was having surgery the following day. He called me mad that I did that and said I was acting insecure and I'm not his girl yet, he also said that I make him feel if he does commitment I'm gonna always call his friends to see if they are really friends . I said whatever and left it alone. The. Next day I had surgery and he didn't call or. CHeck to see if I was fine

Hello I'm dating a Virgo September 15 I'm a Libra October 20 we've been dating for almost 3years We had a lot of drama but we got past it. I've been pregnant by him fought him damaged his clothes and called woman he text/ talk to. But I've always paid for anything I've done and took fully ownership for everything. He was having a fight party and didn't want to invite me Because we were just now getting back on good terms I told him if he didn't invite me I didn't want to talk to him anymore because if he cares for me so much why does he try to keep me away from major events. He said because your so extra at times and he doesn't want that awkward feeling, I was getting upset and He started to acting a ass and kept talking about if I left him he wouldn't care nor would be trip so I changed my number While having a conversation with him about rather he wanted to talk to me or not. He ended up inviting me and the party turned out great, none of the females he invited showed up or I'm just assuming he told them not to come because I came. For the most part I've been working on my anger and I've been changing my ways Also walking away from any fight he tries to engage in . But recently he took me there. For his birthday I hired chef and tried to make his bday special But as the chef was cooking for us he was texting a women asking if she was gonna give him birthday sex, I didn't trip I continue making sure he had a great bday. The next day he got drunk and we were having a conversation about men (single) men and how many women they keep around when I asked him how many and where did I fit in he had he avoid the question just to say he don't have any other women it's just me. He finished drinking and won't to use my car to go to the casino So he went in my purse and found a condom and went nuts I still didn't fight back I just cried after being annoyed with his name calling and crazy ways When he calmed down I told him where it came from He expressed how it made him feel and how he understand where I come from now. The next day I called the women he texted to see if they were using protection because I was having surgery the following day. He called me mad that I did that and said I was acting insecure and I'm not his girl yet, he also said that I make him feel if he does commitment I'm gonna always call his friends to see if they are really friends . I said whatever and left it alone. The. Next day I had surgery and he didn't call or. CHeck to see if I was fine

He called me mad that I did that and said I was acting insecure and I'm not his girl yet, he also said that I make him feel if he does commitment I'm gonna always call his friends to see if they are really friends . I said whatever and left it alone. The. Next day I had surgery and he didn't call or. CHeck to see if I was fine so I called him, we were arguing about me calling the girl and me wanting him to feel sorry for being in pain, I got upset and said that's why I slept with some men in your bed while you were out doing you! He was pissed! Ignored my calls / texts and everything The next day he changed his number on me. When I went to get my stuff from him he called the police on me Assuming I was gonna be acting crazy because he wasn't trying to talk but I didn't I just left He didn't or won't say why he stop talking to me and I don't know what to do I contacted all friends and things to see rather I should pursue him or leave it alone. I don't know what to believe anymore. I don't know if he cares or he's just playing me and this other women he really wants and he's mad I contacted her or he just doesn't know about me because of everything we've been threw. I have his back I'm always there for him He always has me up under him all the time I'm just lost and I want him back. Even tho it's only been 4days. I think he's gone for real this time. What should I do

My b day is Sept 15th to.. awesomeness! !

Let him go ... it hurts at first but it does get better. I promise.

I don't even call or text my situation anymore and it took along time for me to get to this point..


It takes time and endurance but it gets better

I think when they see things getting better and change they start to panic and purposely look for crap to get mad about. In fact I will not be surprised if somethings you argued about was just simply set up by him so he could have a reason to run.. so as I said let it go

I can't let it go, I've invested to much time and money into him, not to mention training him. It gotta be something I can do

??_. training? wtf I know some girls like using that term but fuck we're not seaworld residents.

Awww virgo_goki. you know you want a woman to come "train" you, preferably with whips n chains😉


OP, best to leave it alone. Y'all are a mess from what you wrote and are hurting each other left and right. He changed his number? He doesn't want you in his life.

From what I could gather, you not only called other females he was dating/sleeping with, you slept with guys in his bed? Do you not see how fucked up that behavior is? Looking at just the phone calls, that's stalker type behavior. You guys sound like fuck buddies more than anything, not a relationship....

You need to step back and really look at how destructive this is and delve into why you want something/someone so unhealthy for yourself. You've got some work to do, take care of you first and foremost so you can be healthy with another person.

I only told him, I slept with men in his bed. To make him mad. I never did it. And I wouldn't call Calling other women a stalker I just wanted information. And I changed my number and didn't give it to him for a week so did that mean I didn't want him in my life as we'll?

R u a male or female virgo

You asked for people's advice but clearly have no intention of taking it so I'm not sure why you bothered asking.
I'm going to echo justagirl... You guys clearly have some serious issues. None of that stuff is normal or acceptable behavior in a relationship, if you can even call what's going on between you two a relationship. This is clearly a toxic situation and the best thing for both of you is to let it go. He obviously does things that cause you hurt an make you unhappy. I can't imagine you lying and acting all looney tunes makes him happy.
Why on earth would you think sticking together was a good idea?? So you've invested time and money. Accept that mistakes were made and move on before you ruin both your lives.

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Posted by justagirl
Awww virgo_goki. you know you want a woman to come "train" you, preferably with whips n chains😉


OP, best to leave it alone. Y'all are a mess from what you wrote and are hurting each other left and right. He changed his number? He doesn't want you in his life.

From what I could gather, you not only called other females he was dating/sleeping with, you slept with guys in his bed? Do you not see how fucked up that behavior is? Looking at just the phone calls, that's stalker type behavior. You guys sound like fuck buddies more than anything, not a relationship....

You need to step back and really look at how destructive this is and delve into why you want something/someone so unhealthy for yourself. You've got some work to do, take care of you first and foremost so you can be healthy with another person.

JAG new rule. no talking to me that way when you're in my harem 😄

Posted by virgowithasoul

JAG new rule. no talking to me that way when you're in my harem 😄

You love it and you know it 😛

Posted by LibraGirlLost
I only told him, I slept with men in his bed. To make him mad. I never did it. And I wouldn't call Calling other women a stalker I just wanted information. And I changed my number and didn't give it to him for a week so did that mean I didn't want him in my life as we'll?

You are both playing games. I just read your post in the thread from 2009 and you added more to your story. it's unhealthy and again I ask you why do you want to be with someone like this? This isn't about him being a Virgo or you being a Libra, this is about two destructive people that shouldn't be around each other.

To address your saying calling the other female wasn't stalker behavior. you fall under #2... you may not have been aggressive with her, but you do not call another women he is screwing to get information. You crossed a line with that one IMO.


stalk-er

1. a person who pursues game, prey, or a person stealthily.

2. a person who harasses another person, as a former lover, a famous person, etc., in an aggressive, often threatening and illegal manner.


Are you trolling? Cause seriously, after everything you stated that has happened, I can not fathom why you would want to be with this guy.

We are young and when we are good we are good. Plus stalker means a repeated pattern of harassment in this case calling a person once isn't stalking. I have cancer so I wanted to know were they having sex unprotected . Plus everybody makes mistakes We don't beat on eachother and we both have our flaws . But I think if we get pass the pettiness we would be fine

Oh gosh...he does/did that bullshit to you knowing you have cancer...
I think you are in denial...please take care of yourself...he is so not worth it...

I can't add anything to this thread other than..this stress you're pulling yourself through will take years out of your life if you can't find a healthy way to relate to people.

I'm stressing just by not knowing why he did this to me But thank you guys I'm gonna move on

Posted by virgowithasoul
??_. training? wtf I know some girls like using that term but fuck we're not seaworld residents.

LMMFAO! LOL