Libra Sun/Pisces Moon compatible w/ Virgo Sun/Scorpio Moon

Hi everyone, I’m back! So I still CANNOT figure out this enigma (i.e. my Virgo man)! So I’m going to try a new approach and maybe you all can provide some insight.

How compatible do you think a Libra Sun/Pisces Moon female and a Virgo Sun/Scorpio Moon man are?

Quick backstory: Yes I’m dealing with the usual Virgo male hot/cold thing, no disappearing, consistent contact daily (via text), but just sometimes he’s very cold. My instincts tell me what he’s saying is true, he likes me and wants to be with me. He thinks I’m sweet, cool and just an all around good person. He decided to be in a relationship with me after about a month and a half. He mentions marriage, kids…I like the thought of this but I’m hesitant on getting wrapped up in this idea. At this point, I’m still trying to figure out this hot/cold thing. It’s hard enough for a Libra to make a decision and everytime I relax and just say ok, yes, this is my bf, I’m committed, and I’ll just be patient and go at his pace…his coldness makes me doubt him, like is he seeing someone else, is he really interested in me, should I just move on and save myself from heartache? Everytime I bring this up to him, he gets upset and frustrated that I keep trying to leave him. He says he’s just busy with work and he’s with me and thinks about me all of the time. I’m not clingy, but I do like attention and reassurance. I like communicating, and I want to feel emotionally connected but it feels like he’s blocking that.

I’m really curious on the astrology aspect of this relationship. I’m hoping that will give me some insight to how he operates vs. how I operate.

P.S. Literally everything else is in our chart is exactly the same.

Thanks everyone, all input appreciated!

@Vanish LOL, I can't snoop because he won't let me all the way in yet.

for the sake of it, if he has an iphone, you can always track his movement.

It sounds like he wants you but slowly weighing it out after he's got commitment. My guess is he does like you and wants to get you before anyone else does. Now he's post-processing.

One thing that libras and virgos don't mesh well is the level of attention a libra needs. The virgo may not feel comfortable giving that level all the time.

I'm kinda hoping both of you work it out. He seems like an 'ok' virgo.

@virgowithasoul No he doesn't have an iPhone. But I don't even want to start snooping...I can overboard investigating someone, lol. I like what you said about post-processing...that makes so much sense. Because he locked it down pretty quickly, so his hot/cold behavior is throwing me for a loop. You are so right about the level of attention I need...I don't even understand why I feel that way. Everytime I bring it up, he's like "I'm totally with you" or "contact me anytime you want to talk." But even though I like attention, I want him to want to give it to me, I can't stand feeling like a needy woman. So I'll just sulk about it quietly, all the while harboring a little resentment. He is definitely a good virgo so I'm going to curb my attention-neediness, I want this to work out.

Hey, do you have tips you can share. Things that you like women to do or not do. I KNOW you Virgo guys get this question all of the time, but you're so reserved that us women are literally shooting in the dark here, lol!

give him reasons to be affectionate with you. Let the situation guide him, not yourself.

That's the general principle I can suggest. Guide him into a situation that forces him to empathize and go in for the kill. One thing that P-angel got right here is that virgo men need to be led first.

C'mon you're the libra. You know how to charm your way through others. Use it. I believe virgos respond to action, not words. It takes me a while to verbally express to my partner. Sometimes I do things for them which they don't even realize but that's just me. I express affection in very subtle actions.

Now I wait for other virgos to chime in.

@virgowithasoul Thanks for your help. Yes I definitely know how to charm the pants off of people but I don't even know if I'm making a dent with this guy, lol. It's very hard to take the lead, I've dated mostly Air and Fire signs and they would be the ones pursuing me.

But I don't think they work on Earth signs. I dated a Cap before my Virgo and I would swear in court he was the tin-man! He only loved family, no one else could get in. He would always say, stop it, your charms aren't going to work on me. After 6 months with him, I said forget it, he never recriprocated until it was too late. The only difference though was that he was very verbal, I knew where we stood, I knew how he felt (he liked me but just wasn't going to fall in love so easily), and he was always the aggressor.

Virgos are very laid back and reserved. My instinct says he likes me because why else would he keep in contact but some days I just don't know. I will try that new technique and try to lead him to the fountain of love us Libras can provide.

Yeah no other Virgos really chimed in 😢